If Your Into Black...Scratch That...T-Girls Period Don't...

[dajuicy]

hey bedazzle...good solid thoughtful and informative post. your breakdown of how t's see the field...and it sure does get murky out ther....johns....semi johns. chasers...and off the clock type guys...it must be very very difficult to keep things straight, and all the guys who dont know who the fk or what the fk they want to be.....sounds like you have it figured out....thanks for posting, and dont be a stranger...dajuicy

[Ecstatic]

maybe if u open up a tranny center and go door to door and hand out flyers to every lil boy and a package of hormones then maybe u will get what u want...how funny can one be

Thoughtful and interesting post. I had to laugh at this proposal! Too funny.

[tannedblkmale]

others...

delicious is too cute does she do any traveling? how is she

[TomSelis]

a big girl lover in the house...my man you'd love Bmore in that case.

Yes sir, she looks really good. There's very few big girls that are very pleasing to the eye like that (to me), but when they are...they're amazing.

Somebody already said it, but it bears repeating again. Some of the best girls, you never see because they are busy living their life or keep a very low key.

[TomSelis]

Sorry for the double.

Badazzbody, no disrespect and don't take this the wrong way. But this has been one of my main hang ups with the girls. Sometimes the nature of a man is to fuck everything and the girls take this personally. If I meet a girl at a party, right off the bat I could possibly be considered a trick. It's not easy to meet a girl. At least to me a girl that meets my standards. That is a girl that is clean, takes care of herself, looks good, etc.

When girls say, guys that like Tgirls are usually treated like tricks it's like a vicious cycle. A guy might meet a girl in a situation that makes him look like a trick. When a girl meets a guy on the street, she claims he doesn't know, but I believe that a guy that doesn't know is a fool. How does the girl know that's not what he was into before? Most guys, I don't care how much you believe them, have seen a T-girl and a T-girls dick in some form of porn.

Then again some guys are in it just to get as many girls as possible. Think about it like this: Is what you go through any different than what GG girls go through? Look on any board that deals with male/female relationships and you will see the same thing your talking about.

[evil_twin]

I'm going to respond to the original topic.

I lived in Baltimore all my life
The 90's Tgirl scene in Baltimore(in my opinion) were the best.
There was never a shortage of beautiful t-girls. Some times too many, because you had to choose.

My opinion for the declining tgirl presence in B-More is that more T-girls are passible (and acceptable) these days ,thanks to surgery and other reasons, and are able to get out of the sex industry and get a "real world" job or education with out being discriminated against. Also, be able to meet a boyfriend that aren't afraid to take them out the house.

As far as the "Stroll" , a lot of real estate investing is going on down there and there has been an increase police presence. They are starting to sell $300k homes down there. No one will buy a house of a "stroll", so I have seen t-girls being arrested left and right.
The ones that are brave enough are run down looking (not all of 'em ) crack-heads, with just a wig on (sometimes, no wig) , no female clothing, skinny and bad attitudes.
Also, some t-girls drive, if it is dead or the police activity is heavy. then they are gone for the rest of the night.
I do, time after time, see an amazing t-girl but she will come and go.

A lot a Tgirls mention they are leaving for D.C. or going to Miami because men that cruise the strolls are cheap.

I never really did the club thing, but I did go in the early 90's and saw a group of the most amazing T-girls ever, but I don't know how it is now.

[evil_twin]

Wow it really cant be that serious.. Baltimore is small city..but its alot of trannsexual here.. and most of them dont come out because they live thiers lives as real women..

So can you tell us the best place to find t-girls in b-more?

[BADAZZBODY]

i know atleast 75% of all the ts in bmore..and the majority of them dont cater the the gay community..or deal in a circle of anything of the sort..most of my close ts girl friends do the straight thing cause they are realistic looking and acting...and they are on the virge or getting srs or already have it and they do have computers but the dont have dealings wit sites like this or other taboo or homosexual lifestyle...its not forgetting where u come from but they just fell its not their cup of tee and if they wanna live their life as woman they dont need their face every where for someone to see or for gimack to be let out so they choice to stay away...and they notice when people dont know that they are a tranny..how much more acceptance they get and how they get respected..cause i done been their too...when i guy doesnt know u are a tranny the come at u a whole lot different..they give u more respect then as a woman not a object...when they know straight off the back they take a differnt approach..like sex or using u..but when they dont know they wifying u taking out doing things that they would do wit a female they just meant and thats what me and my friends like..

and on another note and how shit is so taboo

now when u meet a female and u like her u might tell ya friends about her take ova ya moms house for dinner or a cook out u know the typical shit.. might introduce the female to ya boys and see if she might got homegirls for ya homies and all that regular shit

but in reality..with a tranny..u keeping this under raps..let me explain..if u know the girl u talking to is a tranny u are not gonna carry it like i explained above..for the most part..its a limited few that will..thats only if ya friend are into trannys but if u live a straight life u aint gonna be introducing ya homies and ya family to a tranny..

thats y most girls leave the scene because they are looking for the same treatment and acceptance of a real female.

lastley i would say just do the regular things u do in life and u might come accross a tranny some how someway..but if u are really in need of one u know where the clubs at and the strip..if thats not the type of girl u looking for then maybe u might stumble accross one at a regulars straight club or something thinking she a woman..who knows i know one thing i am not a dating service so i dont know where...

you know whats so funny y most niggas that are really into trannys firs story of them meeting a tranny is..she was at a club, walking down the street. or at some public situation..she had on a skirt they went to her house, a hotel, a car, their house..and they felt a dick and got so turned on they said fukit aint since then they was into trannys.. i just thought thats was funny cause every time i here a story about a nigga firs time its always like that or is that just what they dream or want to happen..wink

[TomSelis]

Thanks for the honest answers ma. My think still is, even if the guy doesn't know...which I still feel is hard to to believe, somebody is going to tell him. If he's taking her out, somebody is going to say very loudly, "She looks like a man." or something fucked up like that. If he's taking her to meet the family, momma or somebody's going to say something. This is all if the guy doesn't know.

But then again, you've experienced this much more than I have so I'll just leave it alone.

I guess I'm just being optimistic.

[Man Fuck It]

Wow it really cant be that serious.. Baltimore is small city..but its alot of trannsexual here.. and most of them dont come out because they live thiers lives as real women..and the rest do the stroll, escort or whatever...but to get mad cause a city dont have alot of transsexual is funny ass hell.. baltimore is not no uterus, and dont give birth to lil gay boys.. u act like its the city fault that is not a bunch of diverse transsexuals or gay males turninngs to females are born...maybe if u open up a tranny center and go door to door and hand out flyers to every lil boy and a package of hormones then maybe u will get what u want...how funny can one be...move to another city where their is alot of trannys...i mean thats what i would do.

yeah but on some real shit dont give up so easily because all citys are different but people are kind the same everywhere i have friends the mess wit butches because niggas use them up for their own sexual desire and treat them as objects...and wit most niggas that mess wit trannys once they have one they want them all..and then they preach they want a tranny girl friend but as soon as they see another tranny they think they want that too...but any way i am babbling alot..no disrespect at all but dont be dissing my city....even thought i wanna move eventually but still ...its mad trannys here its just the ones u want this might not be the one for u...


well i know in my experience as far as dealing wit men its hard to deal wit a nigga when u live ya life as a escort..a nigga might be trying to get at u on some real shit but in ya mind u thinking...shall i let my guards down and let him in and be cool..and it seem like when u do that with most niccas they try to push sex on u so fast..so then that turns u into hoe mode so u ask for money..now a nigga is mad u asked him for cash, but he can ask u for sex and dont know u so y can u ask him for money.. if a niggga just wanna get at u then he gonna come correct..most niggas dont even take trannys out in public..they keep them in a hidden closet..i have friends that havent even been to a beach, concert. amusement park wit a nigga..its a lot of stipulations when it comes to trannys so if u gonna fuk wit one and u want them on some real shit u need to come correct just like u would wit a regular female that u trying to wife and all the same things u would do wit her u do wit the tranny i know thats how i carry it wit a nigga but i know how shit be some times..........im out i am talking to much.. and last but not least

no disrespect to anyone please but this a a word of advice....most trannys if they gonna settle down wit a nigga they dont want no nigga the been wit a tranny period foreal,,maybe on or two but foreal they would rather it be none at all...so mosts girl will rather go out on the limb for the challenge of someone thats uninhibited....the will rather risk the rejection of someone telling them they dont get down then to deal wit someone they know is totally tranny crazy no offence but they will date and turn tricks all day wit niggas that are tranny chasers {no offence} but will rather get wit a straight male to wife them up..thats my opinion

Baddazz,

You make some good points ma but it's some shit I have to disagree with you on. I love my city, nah mean, Bmore born and raised. I am not mad at the "quantity" of transsexuals in this city as I can not entirely fuck them all nor is that my mission in life. I am frustrated with the quality and just general educational level of transsexuals in Baltimore. Not like i've seen them or been with all them shorties or shit like that but it just seems like the general disposition of most TS broads from Bmore is on some 8th grade, pop e-pills, smoke weed, live with 15 other faggies or ts, don't have no plan for the rest of my life type shit...that's the shit I can't fade. Or then you have the flipside, the broads who know they look good and think they shit don't stink. I'm all for positive self esteem but don't walk around like you invented water and shit, that just makes your ass look whack...especially when you playing life with a handicap, you feel me?

On some other shit, I get kinda jaded when I see broads (no offense) say shit like "I can't have no nigga that been with another tranny", what kind of backwards ass shit is this. So what if a dude got up in another broads drawls. That's life. On one hand you say yall (TS) wanna be treated like any other woman and then on the other hand you want some new shit. That's like a real girl saying "I can't have no nigga who been with another girl." Unless the chick is a virgin or some shit, she'd sound stupid as fuck...I don't hold trannies in any other regard or any other light than I would a regular chick. I call 'em how I see 'em.

What I think it is is that most broads in Bmore are on some 8th grade, run they mouth type shit. Broads don't wanna grow or prosper. Don't have no aspirations of making it big cause all they see is these fucked up streets. In addition to that, I think alot of these broads 'round way don't know how to keep THEY business THEY fucking business...be on some catty/jealousy shit when they see the next bitch flossing with a down azz nigga and be mad and jealous cause they want that shit. It comes a time when youngins gotta grow up and seperate themselves from the "pack" mentality and start to be independent thinkers. If you want a cat who wants and will accept you for what and who you are, why should you treat or expect anything different from a dude...