Why do you like trannys? (Psychologically)

[JerseyMike]

The main reason why I like transsexuals is because they enjoy being feminine, looking feminine, and acting feminine. There are too many born women out there in my opinion who are just really poor crossdressers and this is the norm for them to walk around in hoodie and crapy jeans looking like crap. I like the fact the transsexuals work hard to look good and enjoying looking. Also the idea of femininity for transsexuals also seem to be in the older sense which might explain why some guys like that. Also vagina's are freaky looking and men are sometimes more used to deal with equipment that they use on a regular basis.

[mtbazz]

First, like other Im not attracted to men. Dont get turned on by them at all.

I do however like a dick on a tgirl.

Psychologically, I also seem to connect better with a tgirl better than a GG for whatever reason.

Dont know what all that means..dont give a fuck either. I just know what I like.

[lupinIII]

Boobs are fun, booty is fun, pussy is fun but wang is much much more fun.

Now I could try and pathologise my feelings as 'I'm suffering from a phallus fixation stemming from repressed memories' or 'I suffer a deep rooted phobia of women but didn't have the kind of upbringing that may have led to me being gay', whatever, I like girls, not guys, but I do like cock. I guess I've gotten the post-modern inculcation that genitalia doesn't equate one's gender.

[igotalongleg]

i like'em cause it's the best of both worlds

[Nikephoros]

See, I'm just as interested in post-ops as I am in pre-ops. What I find so erotic is the idea that this person wanted to be a woman badly enough to subject herself to years of transition. Making love to a transsexual woman is the ultimate acknowledgment of their femininity, and I am transitively aroused by their arousal.

[Solitary Brother]

Ive said it over and over again.
The femininity is MORE.
More more more.
Just being around a good one is intense watching her mannerism,ect....
Maybe because they are more feminine you feel more masculine.
I dont know.
If women were this way it would be a rap but they just wont do it.
Remember the show with Pamela anderson where she was a detective with those other girls?
Thats what the fuck I want.
Or remember clueless with Stacy Dash?
Give me that.....I want the girliness,the femininity in women....its so attractive.

[Nikephoros]

I remember reading one girl's transition journal. She said that when she first started living full-time, the idea of being accepted as female turned her on. Whenever someone would call her "Miss" or hold a door for her or something like that, she would have to fight to not get an erection. The idea of someone being that turned on just being a woman is insanely erotic to me.

[qeuqheeg222]

i dont know if ALL trannies suck cock better than gg's.................

[tgirlzoe]

I remember reading one girl's transition journal. She said that when she first started living full-time, the idea of being accepted as female turned her on. Whenever someone would call her "Miss" or hold a door for her or something like that, she would have to fight to not get an erection. The idea of someone being that turned on just being a woman is insanely erotic to me.

That is the definition of autogynephilia (a male's attraction to himself as a female) , this condition that so many transsexuals claim doesn't exist. It obviously exists for some people, even to the extent that they would transition for it because when they are being honest, they admit to it.

Personally, I hated being told I was a boy because I never saw myself that way and I had a strong dislike for boys at the time (elementary school). Come puberty (aka. Hell), I somehow got over my disgust with guys (or rather, perhaps, my attraction to them and repulsion exists simultaneously -- leading me to find that "perfect man" who is both attractive and not too repulsive). However, this meant I was labeled "gay". Call it "internalized homophobia" or whatever, but I hated this designation because it suggested that I wasn't unique in being, to be cliche, "trapped" but rather that I was "just" a gay man. This greatly troubled me.

Luckily, in high school, I discovered transsexuals -- other people who were like me. It's almost freaky sometimes how our experiences are similar even when we didn't know there was anyone else like us in the world. I felt validated in my feelings, that there was precedence for this and that it was possible to "transition" and still have a half-decent looking body despite having been ravaged by testosterone (though I was luckily never very physically masculine). The idea of being able to be "normal", to live seamlessly, to get the guys I wanted, to be fully female became my strong desire.

These days I try to distance myself as much as possible from any connection to my "old life". My parents finally took down the photos of me throughout my childhood. I mean, it's sad to not have that, but it's very troubling to remember having to look like that. Most people have some sort of embarrassing, awkward stage, perhaps with coke bottle glasses, headgear and a horse shirt in junior high. For me though, it's a bit more disturbing remembering that misery.

I don't find it erotic being female. I mean, I love my body, I love my breasts, I love my soft skin, I love it when I clean up and feel beautiful and it's not like I don't masturbate. (and yes, most of the time I do love my cock too! ^_^) But getting horny when someone calls you "Miss"? That's just weird.

Does it happen? Obviously it does because people have been honest about it. I mean, this is what makes crossdressers -- both of the older, very frumpy/creepy type and the younger, more attractive, type (e.g. Jamie Coxx). There are transsexuals who start out this way. But I believe that the majority of girls on this board would have stories closer to mine than your friend's.

To me, I don't like the phrases "a boy who wants to be a girl", "a girl who used to be a boy", "a girl with a penis" (descriptive, but I don't think that should be a defining characteristic) and of course I agree with Peggygee regarding the OP who used phrases like "sissy", "she/he" and "a man who looks like a gorgeous girl" and again calling us "men". To me, I'm a woman with a struggle in life. I like going after normal straight guys who've never thought about TS and convincing them to want me anyway (and yes, it works). I like just living my life like any other girl, I have a real job that doesn't involve lying on my back (though I might make more money if I did).

I think it's very interesting that we have women who have to struggle to correct physical issues, hormonal issues, psychological issues, and social mess and then we have guys who are into the byproduct of that condition. Just never forget that we're real people. My boy has struggled with trying to figure out how to relate to me (and yes, if this means he's still straight) and one time after a tiff regarding his blunt phrasing of the issue, I spilled a lot of my history to him. That this same struggle has been going on for over 15 years with my parents (who are finally slowly accepting) and just how huge this is and how much it does suck. So I know this board is oriented towards the adult industry side of transsexualism, but it doesn't matter whether it's an escort, porn star, club girl or girl next door -- everybody has a story and a real life.

[tgirlzoe]

i dont know if ALL trannies suck cock better than gg's.................

I kept trying to teach my ex-tgf but she just couldn't get it. Probably the best BJ I've had was in an experimental lesbian foray with my roommate at the time (whose boyfriend was totally turned on by the idea and totally not invited ^_^). So I don't think it has to do with whether the giver has a penis or not, there's a lot of learning involved.