Are you Dominant or Submissive in the bedroom?

[Justawannabe]

No, but a lot like the gut reactions to 'fag' and 'your gay' comments on here, it can open up issues that shouldn't matter to the individual but do, because of a lifetime of social programming. Very few people can completely rise above the atmosphere they grew up around.

Sean

[SoCaliDude]

Giving and taking is always good but it really depends on the girl. I like to accommodate my partner.

[blckhaze]

while keepin alll that slave shit outta this, Ill say this.

Most brothas aint into being the catcher, let alone into being he one not in control on a regular basis. Its a culture thing, going back to childhood. black boys are raised to take control. period point blank. whethers its in school, on the bball court, and especially in relationships, We the head, end of story. All that soap opera shit is a farce. Now you got exceptions, just like every where, but the few and far between, unless its behind closed doors. Now you do have black guys who bottom for the girls(i do if Im in a LTR), but not as often as you see other people switch hitting.

[hwbs]

does putting the girl in a camel clutch count as dominant hahahaha

[blckhaze]

does putting the girl in a camel clutch count as dominant hahahaha

as long she giving u a reach around
ROFL

[Justawannabe]

Thought I said it was cultural... but yeah... he's in a better position to say than me...

Sean

[salvador]

Not really interested in being poked :P

At least I don't think so

[Alaska Guy]

I'm mostly dominant, but being submissive is hot too! Being submissive for me is linked to me feeling a trust/chemistry/bond, and loving that I can fulfill pleasure for her in a different way.

So if I had a gf that loved to take control, I would be happy to oblige. That's why I want a girl that truly enjoys both, to me that is so much more,but that's just me. Oh yea, and this only applies to tgirls. Period. lolz!

ps. Jennifer Paris, that's hot as hell!

[Alaska Guy]

please jennifer--youre killing me with this talk
and who is that lucky fuck boyfriend of yours??
tell us about him---we want to know--(or at least I do) what kind of guy gets a jennifer paris--and what kind of guy a j paris goes for..
seriously--it would be really interesting...
whats he like? whats he into? what does he look like? how old is he?
lets get the profile...

For those who are wondering, here is the profile of Jennifer Paris's bf: (i.e. one lucky S.O.B.! lol)


*NOTE: the man in the pic may not be her actual boyfriend

[theplaymaker]

Both (switch)..both have to enjoy being either dominant or submissive