I'm shallow what's wrong with that?

[TsVanessa69]

a lot of older, balding, hairy backed men call me shallow, and tell me I don't know what i'm missing, because I like young, caramel colored guys. I don't think thats shallow, its my preference, but oh well. I'd rather be shallow and happy!

But you will overlook their age, bald spots and hairy backs for the right amount of $. So no, you are not shallow.

A great Dominican poet wrote: "the one who gets paid to swallow, is the last to be shallow"

I wasn't speaking on the escort level
I was speaking on a private level.
Like when I go to clubs with my boyfriend. And these guys ask me why I'm with him.
One guy told me a few years ago in El Gato, that my boyfriend was a wetback looser and I could do better.
My business life and my private life are 2 very different things. Paying clients have a bit more respect that guys who try and date out of their league.
FYI: Vanessa or Reina doen't swallow.

[NjTranceAddict]

There is a fine line between what is sexy and cute and what is disgustingly fat and unattractive. It makes me sick that fat broads think it's cute or empowering to use the term "BBW" ad nauseum online. Are you fucking kidding me? Guys like thick, and if you're like me, you love average to athletic to thick, and nothing more.

News flash fat girls - You're not a BBW (big beautiful woman), you're a BBQ - a fat fuckin pig on a spit. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, and guess what tubby? Most men don't like fat women. Those that DO most likely have a fetish with dark undertones, and they are NEVER going to respect you or tell you the truth.

There's nothing wrong with being attracted to average/athletic women as well as thick women as long as you don't bastardize the term "thick" as the fatties have. If you have any taste, you know what I mean.

[needsum]

There is a fine line between what is sexy and cute and what is disgustingly fat and unattractive. It makes me sick that fat broads think it's cute or empowering to use the term "BBW" ad nauseum online. Are you fucking kidding me? Guys like thick, and if you're like me, you love average to athletic to thick, and nothing more.

News flash fat girls - You're not a BBW (big beautiful woman), you're a BBQ - a fat fuckin pig on a spit. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, and guess what tubby? Most men don't like fat women. Those that DO most likely have a fetish with dark undertones, and they are NEVER going to respect you or tell you the truth.

There's nothing wrong with being attracted to average/athletic women as well as thick women as long as you don't bastardize the term "thick" as the fatties have. If you have any taste, you know what I mean.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! OMG I almost split my sides laughing at this. Best post of the year by far! Good stuff!!

and what makes it better is he's 1000% right.

[phx1978]

This might wind up being too long of a post, but here goes:

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, no question about that.

We all have preferences. Whether it's hair color or body shape or intelligence level, we all have things that get our motors running.

I like to think that most sane people recognize that.

While there are some that are quick to cry discrimination or bigotry in those instances, I don't think that that's always the case.

But in our overly hypersensitive society, it's hard to make that case and that point clearly.

To the OP: I don't think you're shallow if you are attracted to skinny women. That's fine. Most of the time, we only can judge the physical because that's what makes the first impression. And since most guys tend to be visual first, attraction is key.

If others want to say that you are bigoted because you aren't interested in seeing someone that doesn't fit your physical attractiveness, that's their problem. Don't fight back with invective on your side; just simply state "I'm not attracted to 'X' type of body in that way."

Now, if you say, "I hate all fat people and wish that they would fucking die" then that's discrimination or bigotry, IMHO.

Personally, with GGs and with TGs, I have a broad range of what turns me on; there isn't a particular body type that gets me running. And I don't say that to come off as high and mighty or as superior to other folks. It's just the way I am wired.

But don't worry about being seen as shallow. At least you are in tune with what gets you going. Makes your life a lot easier, probably.

[trapmasta]

vannessa how does the whole thing work out with you having a man and still having clients?

[TsVanessa69]

vannessa how does the whole thing work out with you having a man and still having clients?

Just like any other job.
I have work hours and off days.
I have an hourly rate and I get paid my rate
Now there is no negotation or back and forth with my fee.
We don't discuss what goes on with my sessions, and when my work hours are over, I'm off the clock and my time is dedicated to him and only him.

[Trogdor]

I agree with yas, I am not into heavy chicks either. Living in Southeast Michigan, I see alot of 'corn-fed' redneck chicks in the rural places here, or literally 400 pound sistas wearing clothes not designed for their frames.

Another reason I wanna move to the west coast someday.

[maximilian]

6'5" and amazonian?
or 6'5" and looks like she was a line backer for the NY Jets?

It's not a height thing, its a chubby thing. I just don't like chunky girls. I'm sorry BBW's just don't do it for me.

The former.


But for the record,

There are plenty of pretty fat women.

*shrug*

I think you meant to say "There are plenty of fat women who are pretty."