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08-25-2008 #1
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Do transexuals have higher libido's than GG's?
I would be lying if I said I was attracted to TS women because I think they are more sexual. I was attracted to TS women before the thought of sex was even in my mind. But I hear others saying that there is a higher level of sexuality when it comes to a TS woman.
In looking back at my past relationships, I can say that the TS women that I have dated were more sexual. Even some who considered themselves less sexual still were more sexually expressive. Even girls that I have known or dated that were postop or castrated (so I don't think it is all testosterone based).
I think not growing up with the same messages from society has a huge effect. I think they have a stronger desire to be giving in a committed relationship (with a natural assumption that men want sex). I think TS women are more likely to adhere to more traditional roles when they are in love. I think it is very common for TS women to be very nurturing, very accommodating, soothing, and the like when they have their heart involved in a man.
Maybe I'm adding to the stereotypes but I think I might have to say that Ts women are more sexual. I don't think they wake up ready and hot for sex like the porn stereotype says.
What do others think.
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08-25-2008 #2
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I'd be willing to give you a general "Yes" on that.
I wake up with a hard dick every morning,
and so do most TS's.
*shrug*
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08-26-2008 #3
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Originally Posted by ARMANIXXX
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08-26-2008 #4
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RangeHova, nice to see you, and good question.
And ARMANIXXX, I'm going to have to disagree with you that most
transsexuals wake up with 'morning wood'.
If they're on a proper HRT regimen they shouldn't be prone to involuntary
erections. And if they have had an orchiechtmy this will be even more
true.
I think that when a transwoman is first transitioning that she may tend to
be more sexually active. Many women believe that the more sexual
conquests that she has, that the more 'real' or 'ovah' she is.
Another factor that may contribute to the belief that transwomen are
more sexually active, are all the porn sites and movies that convey that
image.
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08-26-2008 #5
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Originally Posted by peggygee
Taking hormones does seem to inhibit many TS's erection, but that doesn't mean that they never get em, cause I know for a fact that they do.......maybe not every morning, but they do get them.
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08-26-2008 #6
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my GFs libido is a ton lower than GGs ive dated theirs no contest between them. something about taking estrogen and testosterone blockers which fuel sex drive may have something to do with it.
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08-26-2008 #7Originally Posted by ARMANIXXX
For this reason I have always wondered how some girls can manage to, at proper HRT levels, produce enough white sperm when they cum (Like in porn as an example). Is it as simple as some girls stay on low HRT dosages in order to keep a sperm count? If so how do they put off masculation, more surgeries then they'd otherwise need? I would imagine girls that flat out avoid hrt (in order to stay functional) would require a fairly large, regular pattern of surgeries to stay passable, and wouldn't have the soft skin and other secondary sex characteristics that come from hrt.
But, if we're going to talk about how sexual people are, the bigger question is 'how is the girl going to react if you are the one who is horny in the morning." I don't get morning erections, but that doesn't stop whoever I am sleeping with from getting me interested in the morning. I've slept with guys who woke up in the middle of the night or the morning and woken me up hoping to do stuff. Besides, isn't it better anyway if its hard as a response to someone vs as some biological reaction to sleep?
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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08-26-2008 #8
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Originally Posted by SarahG
The last girl I dated had very full hips before she even touched any hormones. She never grew facial hair if she had to go off her hormones for an extended period of time and very few changes happened to her appearance.
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08-26-2008 #9Originally Posted by RangeHova
Obviously if you've been on high enough dosages for long enough, it will influence the body's ability to make testosterone. This is why guys who go onto steroids in body building get tiny balls, even long term after ending steroid use. The balls decrease in size and sperm counts are small because their natural ability to produce sperm has been damaged.
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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08-26-2008 #10
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Originally Posted by peggygee
On the perception question, I think transwomen have a different connection to their sexuality than genetic females due to what society puts on females when they are little. The issue of when girls first transition plays a big part in it. There is not the judgment placed on a girl who gets sexual and in turn there is not that premium placed on a girl who keeps her legs shut.
I think how the two types of women go through puberty is also a huge factor.
Its very often that a young trans girl is told by her peers and those she looks up to that she is more of a woman if some many is having sex with her. The brand of slut or ho really serves to push women and thier sexualities down.
Not saying that is a bad thing, I think it makes for a healthier sexual view. There is not that level of guilt or shame for expressing something as natural as sexuality.
The porn thing, for me, is just fantasy stuff. Amazingly, I see a lot of girls who are embracing the fantasy imagery. I mean, hey I get it if its paying your bills but that is about it.
In reality, now that I think about it. I don't think the libido is bigger but I think the TS views on sex are often is less complicated. Less games, less complications, less guilt, more openess, more willing to experiment... I think a lot of genetic females have just as active libidos but don't know how to express them as freely. You have millions of people (male and female) that think alcohol is an aphrodisiac for women when in fact all it does is bring down the walls that society makes women build.