To the Girls on here what are your true interests.

[macfan]

When it comes to relationships, desires what do you truly look for. I ask this very poignant, yes I said poignant question because I see some women calling out the chasers, well TSNTX, that is Its like you are almost disgusted with reading about the cock banditry on HA. So if you ladies haven't turned lesbian as yet, How can a guy who is interested in a Tgirl truly be of substance as a partner.

I know just do what is done with any girl in a relationship, but that is very general, what about your desires, expectations, interests, what peaks your curiousity about a guy etc. This could go some ways to gaining an insight into the minds of you ladies. I look forward to some informative answers.

[LibertyHarkness]

For me i would like a man to actually treat and view me as a human being, an equal person not some kinky sex toy that is to be dragged out and played with in secret...

unfortunately most the men i have come across just want the above...i would want my man to be proud of me as his girlfriend, introduce me to his family/friends etc.....

interest wise well capacity to hold varied conversations, have maybe similar interests to myself such as reading, archeology, music going to see bands etc...

in short i would say for them to be very nice, polite, well spoken and know how to be respectful.....

that ok to start off with..

Libbs x

[macfan]

For me i would like a man to actually treat and view me as a human being, an equal person not some kinky sex toy that is to be dragged out and played with in secret...

unfortunately most the men i have come across just want the above...i would want my man to be proud of me as his girlfriend, introduce me to his family/friends etc.....

interest wise well capacity to hold varied conversations, have maybe similar interests to myself such as reading, archeology, music going to see bands etc...

in short i would say for them to be very nice, polite, well spoken and know how to be respectful.....

that ok to start off with..

Libbs x

Very informative Liberty, it really provides me with some ideas as to what qualities truly stimulate you. I get the feeling the first part of your sentiments is echoed by many girls, as you say unfortunatetly it's the case where guys want to have their secret fun and then blend back into their lives. That can never be the foundation of any positive and respectful relationship.

b.t.w I was a History and Anthropology major in college, I also minored in Archaeology, started off as my major but didn't see anywhere to go with it in the future, not too many Troy and King Tut's left. , so I just took up the minor with my credits I already had.

[JANIRA]

For me i would like a man to actually treat and view me as a human being, an equal person not some kinky sex toy that is to be dragged out and played with in secret...

unfortunately most the men i have come across just want the above...i would want my man to be proud of me as his girlfriend, introduce me to his family/friends etc.....

interest wise well capacity to hold varied conversations, have maybe similar interests to myself such as reading, archeology, music going to see bands etc...

in short i would say for them to be very nice, polite, well spoken and know how to be respectful.....

that ok to start off with..

Libbs x

AMEN !!!

[LibertyHarkness]

I do hold out hope that one day i wll find a very kind and loving fella

My brother has set me up a date with a guy at his work, he seems quite nice the brief times i have met him at their house....and he is open about his choices with sexuality and genders which i think is great attribute to have in a man.

I guess a guy that you can just hang out with, go shopping, go on holiday do normal stuff feet up watch a dvd....

Though i will probably wait till i move to USA next year before looking for a serious partner ....


How about we turn the question, what qualities do you men think you posses that would make a Transexual want to date you .......How would you make us feel special, wanted and desired?????

Libbs

[the_corner]

I do hold out hope that one day i wll find a very kind and loving fella

I guess a guy that you can just hang out with, go shopping, go on holiday do normal stuff feet up watch a dvd....

Though i will probably wait till i move to USA next year before looking for a serious partner ....


Libbs

Ohh... I am moving to London and was hoping I could meet you

[macfan]

How about we turn the question, what qualities do you men think you posses that would make a Transexual want to date you .......How would you make us feel special, wanted and desired?????

Libbs

That is actually pretty easy to answer for myself anyway. I carry myself with confidence, assertiveness and know what I want and go for it. I learned those hallmarks as an only child. Next up is respect I will give it and I also expect it from whomever I interact with, I don't deal with disrespect when a little civility can be just as effective, if someone respects you and vice versa then you have a good platform to work with in a relationship. I don't think this point can be emphasized enough.


I like stylish girls that love to look good, I'm pretty stylish myself and love to stay on point and looking sharp so I want that from a girl as well. I'm big on the arts, language, culture, travel so a girl has to be game for a lot of the humanities experience and couldn't deal with someone who limits themselves to learning about the wider world out there. I would feel limited myself doing that. I like challenging individuals.

The girls I am with I like to make them feel protected, comforted and more than enough woman for me. Moreover I'm a strict top and so I like my girls very feminine, the more feminine the better. There are those who say why not go strictly for a GG then, to that I say the point is missed. The tgirls I like are feminine in the way they carry themselves, their expecations of a man, their mentality and makeup all which combine to form nothing less than a woman for me.

[Moon]

Hi

I have had 2 TG girlfriends in the past and I am with my current partner who is also TG.

I have never treated any of them as any different to the way I would treat a GG.

We go out shopping, to the cinema, out with friends visit my parents (who approve by the way) etc.

I am proud to have found someone I love and I am not ashamed to show it in public.

In their hearts TG girls are no different from GG's, why should they be treated any different.

Moon

[Tomfurbs]

Same as any GG. Which would be spare vibro batteries and a bottle of Pinot Grigio.

[LibertyHarkness]

Actually i am not a big fan of toys cant compete with the ahem wink wink shall we say

Some nice posts above good to see that honest nice gentlemen exist....

PS dawn of the dead is now on Film IV sweet zombieeeeeeesssssss