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    We dont hear more about tranny relationships...u know the kind u dont have to pay for. Its legal to get married in California, shouldnt there be more stories?



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    maybe if there were more guys that were actually looking for a relationship with a ts girl there would be more stories. btw I also think it has to do with getting away from the party scene and the transsexual and guy also don't post about it. at least that what I do. Its not something im goi.ng to be announcing to the world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by urscapegoat
    We dont hear more about tranny relationships...u know the kind u dont have to pay for. Its legal to get married in California, shouldnt there be more stories?
    Probably not as many people talking about it as it happens because of stealth.

    From both perspectives, there are no shortage of trans girls that don't want the whole world knowing they're trans.

    And then there are guys who don't want everyone (friends, family, etc) to know their gf is trans.

    Even if one of the two is ok with being "out" to such an extent as broadcasting the situation to the world online, I bet the couple would remain silent for whichever of them wants it to be a secret (or at least, not be made into a big issue).

    There are girls who aren't stealth who would refuse to walk around in their day to day lives wearing a tshirt saying "I AM A TRANNY" in big bold letters. Everyone has their own idea of what amount of public disclosure is comfortable to them.

    I'm not really in stealth insofar as people I am in relationships know, and there are others who know (who could have been kept in the dark), but it's just not an issue to the point where everyone who knows me knows. I have specialists, like the dentist who don't know I am trans, because it just hasn't come up (no rhyme or reason for it). In thinking about it, coming out to random people who know me sounds kinda awkward, not because of trans issues but because its just so far from being relevant. I can't picture myself going into get my teeth cleaned, and half way threw the procedure interrupting to go "oh btw, did you know I am trans?"

    I also think there becomes a point where that type of "lets impulsively tell random people for no reason" just comes off as attention whoring.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Luna555
    maybe if there were more guys that were actually looking for a relationship with a ts girl there would be more stories. btw I also think it has to do with getting away from the party scene and the transsexual and guy also don't post about it. at least that what I do.


    Think about it, what girl in her right frame of mind wants a guy who chases after trannies and attends tg parties and actively seeks them out online? None. Talk about being relationship materials..lol I mean, if you're seeking that's fine but don't rub that on our faces and brag about it. Some guys though (even to the point), drop names etc. like we would really be impressed with your tg conquest history nor do we care to hear it about it!

    ~Kisses.

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    HURDLE #1: If guys would learn to stop over complementing, and not compliment every tranny (or girl) they see and talk to (so a girl would feel it was sincere and that she's special), maybe they'd get somewhere but a dead end! lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
    Quote Originally Posted by Luna555
    maybe if there were more guys that were actually looking for a relationship with a ts girl there would be more stories. btw I also think it has to do with getting away from the party scene and the transsexual and guy also don't post about it. at least that what I do.


    Think about it, what girl in her right frame of mind wants a guy who chases after trannies and attends tg parties and actively seeks them out online? None. Talk about being relationship materials..lol I mean, if you're seeking that's fine but don't rub that on our faces and brag about it. Some guys though (even to the point), drop names etc. like we would really be impressed with your tg conquest history nor do we care to hear it about it!

    ~Kisses.

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    I agree with both girls.

    HTG thanks for posting that. I know I definitely don't want to know which famous ts girls a guy has been with. if a guy tells me, I know that he is not the guy for me.

    SG yeah after a while its not relevent, there is no reason to tell every single person I interract with.


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    done sharing anything that happens in the present or future...that is it ...short and simple...


    u will be fucking fat bitches in no time

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    I've been chasing after a girl for around four years now. I don't have to chase her, I have girls all over the place at work.

    I do it because I love her, and I respect her, and sometimes I worry if she's OK (after some surgery or whatever).



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    She's doing OK. I can go back to bed now, since I have the day off from work.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
    Quote Originally Posted by Luna555
    maybe if there were more guys that were actually looking for a relationship with a ts girl there would be more stories. btw I also think it has to do with getting away from the party scene and the transsexual and guy also don't post about it. at least that what I do.


    Think about it, what girl in her right frame of mind wants a guy who chases after trannies and attends tg parties and actively seeks them out online? None. Talk about being relationship materials..lol I mean, if you're seeking that's fine but don't rub that on our faces and brag about it. Some guys though (even to the point), drop names etc. like we would really be impressed with your tg conquest history nor do we care to hear it about it!

    ~Kisses.

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    Quote Originally Posted by urscapegoat
    ...u know the kind u dont have to pay for.
    That would be kind of beside the point of this website. Or something.



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