View Poll Results: Can you turn a trick into a treat?
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08-08-2008 #31
very tricky question...
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08-08-2008 #32Originally Posted by hungone
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08-08-2008 #33
This is a little off topic, so take it for what it's worth (and the "you" is the general 'you" not anyone in particular):
You meet a guy somewhere. He's sort of cute, maybe a little funny, you kind of like him... a little. You're horny and want to get laid. You know this guy is never going to be a client.
But you've conditioned yourself that sex equals money, so even though you'd "get something out of it", you won't get yourself laid because "no one rides for free". You've cut yourself off not only from "long term relationships" because you are in the business, but short term one's as well. You've gotten so preoccupied with getting paid for everything that if some guy asks you out to lunch you wanna know how much he's going to pay you for it. Now, there's nothing wrong with getting paid by tricks to do anything they want done, but every single relationship with a guy doesn't have to be a trick just because he's not going to be your husband.
Now, I'm not talking about doing things with guys just because they don't want to pay. what I'm talking about is not doing things you want to do because you're not getting paid for it. The reason I bring this up is that I've seen a lot of working girls get themselves into this habit, and usually they get burnt out not that long afterwords. Some of the most stable working girls I've met have always had some "safe" fuckbuddy's so that they could have some sort of "normal" (yeah, I hate that word too) relations with a guy that wasn't tricking.
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08-08-2008 #34Originally Posted by hungone
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08-08-2008 #35
Re: Should you make a client your husband/BF?
Originally Posted by SexxxyJade
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08-08-2008 #36
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Thats true too but tell me Jade would you rather take a chance on a regular guy or a trick. Ever heard the saying you can't turn a trick into a real man. Paying to them is probably part of the attraction.
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08-08-2008 #37Originally Posted by ottorocket
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08-08-2008 #38
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Re: Should you make a client your husband/BF?
Originally Posted by SexxxyJade
It's ok to like a client a build a relationship of trust, understanding, and passion, but when it becomes love and emotion it's finished, and if you don't get out of it, then so will your career.
I have experienced both situations where I have grown attached to a client and where I have grown too attached to a non-client while my career was in it's beginning and in both cases, it has caused a lot of emotional turmoil and financial loss in the end.
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08-08-2008 #39
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Originally Posted by tsmandy
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08-08-2008 #40
I think this all depends if and when i met a guy and he gave me money ...For sex on our first meeting ...Then with me the first impression is the lasting impression ....I would always expect money from the man everytime i saw him .....Now ive i have dated men who have paided other transsexuals and never paided me ....This type of relationship doesnt bother me ...because you cant hate someone for there past ....and my past hasnt been all flowers and pansies
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