Should you make a client your husband/BF?

[pnwguy24]

I know you were asking for opinions from the ladies but I would like to give some of my insight and my experiences if you don't mind.

I have only paid for it once, and although it was a pleasant experience I would not do it again for my own personal ethical reasons, and I was curiously exploring at the time.

She was a transgendered escort, I was still quite young, only 19 at the time. I had been to peanuts a few times but never felt comfortable in that environment. Made a few friends, but I don't drink, and I am not really into parties so clubs of any kind are just not my thing. I had been attracted to transsexuals for quite a while, since about 13 years old. However at the time I visited the escort I still was not quite comfortable being open about my attraction so I kept it a secret from everyone. Hence the very reason I went to an escort vs. trying to develop a relationship. I just wanted to explore my sexuality and didn't want anyone to know about it. The point I am getting at is I think a lot of guys are like I was then, still hiding this attraction. They could never be in a successful relationship because they aren't ready to be open about it.

Believe it or not I also have experience actually dating a transgendered escort. I won't name names but she has done a few photo shoots for shemale yum. We actually had a lot in common, and got a long quite well. This was last year for about 3 months or so. She had quit escorting about 6 months prior, absolutely hated the life and didn't want to go back. I was crazy about her, and she told me she was totally in love with me. However even though she was mainly attracted to genetic guys she had major trust issues due to negative past experiences. We had a lot of problems that developed due to this. Guys that would keep her a secret from their friends and family, and act like total strangers when theyd be out in public. I was very sensitive to this but it just wasn't enough. She never quite trusted me I don't think. Needless to say we broke up and she went back to escorting. It broke my heart, especially seeing her do something that I knew didn't make her happy. But as she said the life sucks you in, and its hard to stay out.

It all worked out for the best though, I met an amazing GG and we really are living happily ever after. She is better to me than anyone I have ever known.

[SexxxyJade]

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[ottorocket]

So you start dating your John. What happens when you catch your man going to another escort down the road? That would suck.

[NYTSJulie]

One time I dated a client, he was a Marine. He came to see me one day and when he walked in there was this weird connection. We had a great time together and at the end he asked if he could take me to dinner sometime. I just got out of a relationship and wasn't too enthused to date so I told him to call me the following week, not thinking anything of it. He called and we went to dinner. We started seeing more and more of each other. I wouldn't be intimate with him for the first month or so, I didnt want it to be about sex since that was the pretence we met under. We started dating exclusively. I wasn't escorting much, I had a sugar daddy, the two of them actually got into a scuffle one day, lol I felt so cunty the men fighting over me. I also had a few girls working for me. We dated for a year. We had a very bad break up in the end. After sometime we started talking again and have remained distant friends and talk every so often.

That was a few years ago, and the tranny scene was a lot more low key. He had never seen a tranny or an escort before me. I would not date a client now, today most clients are novices and have seen 10+ other trannys. Most are just looking for a free call or for you to support them if they say they want to date you.

[TsVanessa69]

Hi Jade good question,

I've done it before, and I know many other girls who have as well. In my case I started seeing this guy regularly, couple times a week. Then I hit a rough spot financially and he stepped in and helped me out. We started hanging out more and more, and he stopped paying my hourly rate. It started to get weird for me when after knowing me less than a couple months he started telling me how much he loved me etc...He was an alright guy and I never wanted to hurt his feelings, but I was certainly not in love with him. As time went on he gave me less and less in terms of gifts and donations and expected me to hang out with him and mess around for free. Ultimately, that really started to bother me, because he was still a trick, even if he was a trick that I liked (I like most of the guys I see anyways).

The final straw came when I introduced him to a good friend of mine who was visiting from NY, an hour later he called and left this pathetic message on my machine about how much he would love to have a threesome with us, or just a date alone with my friend. It was bad enough that he wasn't paying me regularly, but when he acted like a trick and assumed that all of my friends were providers, it really put things in perspective for me and I never talked to him again.

I'm not saying it is impossible, but I've known so many GG providers who have dated guys they originally saw as clients, and it never ends well. Although I do have a client in Seattle who has a sugar daddy/dating relationship with an escort and they seem to be a good match for each other. But I only see them for a couple of hours every couple of months and only for an evening of play.

But who cares what I think, it you meet someone who makes you happy who cares how you met.

I've had simular expierence. Thats why I say, sometimes guys thing when you are really nice to them and go a little beyond the pay me, times up get out, that its love interest on your part.

[TsVanessa69]

One time I dated a client, he was a Marie. He came to see me one day and when he walked in there was this weird connection. We had a great time together and at the end he asked if he could take me to dinner sometime. I just got out of a relationship and wasn't too enthused to date so I told him to call me the following week, not thinking anything of it. He called and we went to dinner. We started seeing more and more of each other. I wouldn't be intimate with him for the first month or so, I didnt want it to be about sex since that was the pretence we met under. We started dating exclusively. I wasn't escorting much, I had a sugar daddy, the two of them actually got into a scuffle one day, lol I felt so cunty the men fighting over me. I also had a few girls working for me. We dated for a year. We had a very bad break up in the end. After sometime we started talking again and have remained distant friends and talk every so often.

That was a few years ago, and the tranny scene was a lot more low key. He had never seen a tranny or an escort before me. I would not date a client now, today most clients are novices and have seen 10+ other trannys. Most are just looking for a free call or for you to support them if they say they want to date you.

Girl you are so right on the second half of your response.
Maybe one day a Ts version of Pretty Woman will be made

[BrendaQG]

Hell^NO!

Business is business and pleasure is pleasure... Though sometimes business is more pleasurable than other times and I will service him when I am not really working... Once money has changed hands that first time it will have to every time that follows.

[TS DANIELLE FOXXX]

First off,

Jade you look stunning in your avitar picture - Amazing !

I have had a successful relationship with a client. Well, we are no longer together but this is a great man. Intelligent, refined, well traveled, good sense of humor, extremely handsome, 43 years old, pretty much a great catch... Problem is his temper combined with my inability to provide him with the trust we both needed for a successful relationship. I was working and going through some major changes at the time. Also, I was still dealing with a broken heart.

It just wasn't the right time... I made the decision to just end it before it got too dramatic.

But I quit working while with him and we had a lot of fun.

[SexxxyJade]

First off,

Jade you look stunning in your avitar picture - Amazing !

I have had a successful relationship with a client. Well, we are no longer together but this is a great man. Intelligent, refined, well traveled, good sense of humor, extremely handsome, 43 years old, pretty much a great catch... Problem is his temper combined with my inability to provide him with the trust we both needed for a successful relationship. I was working and going through some major changes at the time. Also, I was still dealing with a broken heart.

It just wasn't the right time... I made the decision to just end it before it got too dramatic.

But I quit working while with him and we had a lot of fun.

Thx Ma, that shot was taken by my favorite photographer.

[hungone]

You all are right thats my personal opinion when it comes to paying prostitutes. I can't knock everybodies hustle because of course some of you thats how you get your money. I just could never see myself paying for something that I believe I can get for free. I wasn't trying to get anybody upset Jade just stating my opinion and Im not the one to knock whatever anybody chooses to do. But if a guy is paying you why would you get in a relationship with him. If he starts having problems with you whose to say he won't pay somebody else to replace you.