Escorting is easy?

[baileyandkc]

Rather than followup on Vanessa's thread about escorts, relationships, etc, I had to ask on a different thread, is escorting easy money?
it's probably been dealt with on a different thread before but it would seem to me that while it's good money in just an hour, you gotta be a helluva actor/actress (guess that's where the drugs come in at times)
I meant, you ain't running into nothing but Brad Pitts and Angelina Jolies (sorry, the first two that came to mind)..The majority have to be people that, at best, don't turn you on physically/emotionally and, at worst, are a major turnoff! Either way, how do deal with that day in, day out, week in, week out, if not for the drugs.
I'm sure some clients provide some physical spark or an emotional pick me up but aren't most neutral or flat out negative experiences? Unless it's a total loser (an abbreviated session) how do you handle a negative physical or emotional situation if the client wants to rent ya for the entire weekend? Good money but how do put on a good act for 24-48 hours?
Not to mention the ripoffs, the dangers, etc, etc, etc...

Not sure of the burn out rate but unless you are at such a point where you can only pick the clients who physically, or emotionally, provide a spark, and decline all the rest, it would seem to me that escorts EARN their money, least the good escorts. Certainly might explain horror stories on reviews about this one having a drug problem, this one acting bored...

[Legend]

Sorry i don't know why i stated that but this kind of stuff doesn't even interest me.

[baileyandkc]

Post was a question, not a statement lol...

[SexxxyJade]

Its kinda funny that we made fairly similar posts at the same time, I just posted a poll about escorts and relationships etc.
Anyway I must say, after years of escorting (almost 10) that it has really taken a toll on me. You are absolutely right about the acting and such because I try to provide every single client with the same fantasy, no matter how they look. And of course I come across some Brad Pitts, but there are also some Frankinsteins. Honestly, being an escort for so long has affected my personal life so much that I am not able to fuction a real personal relationship. I'm sure many ladies feel the same way. For example, when dating someone personally its hard to trust them, because we see so many men coming to see us cheating on thier wives and gf, its also hard for me to date a man who isnt doing anything for me, I guess having guys come to spend money for so long when I meet a guy in my perosnal life I just always expect something from him constantly, gifts, etc. Theres also the issue of sex, as escorts we have sex so much at times that If we are trying to fuction a real relationship its hard to have a regular sex life ( unless your just a str8 uo freak) your mate and you should have sex regularly but being an escort its hard because sometimes your tired or just fed up with sex and alot of times there are no feelings there because ur so use to faking it with clients that all sex seems the same. Its like a person whose been working at McDonalds for 10 yrs, they are tired of eating big Macs and wont touch em.
Escorting can truly corrupt a person, its kinda inevitable in my opinion because your whole percetion on men, sex and about life as a whole can be changed and your no longer able to fuction as a regular human being after seeing some of the things we've saw and definatley not after doing some of the things we've done.
As far as it being easy money, yea its easy, compared to other jobs, but definately not worth whats comes in the long run.

[baileyandkc]

Again, not knowing anything about it personally, I'd have to guess there are days you really don't want to work. I realize you can do your own scheduling but moods come up out of nowhere, like " oh no, not another one !" lol..

Think it'd be easier to find a relationship with someone who was not a client and knows absolutely nothing about you? No agendas to worry about..

I wondered if you could live a certain lifestyle for years and then simply switch whenever you choose..Course, LTR's ain't for everyone and no one ever said LTR's are the only satisfying life out there.

My post was phrased as a question, and I'm sure every escorts experiences are different but it really does strike me that it's a job that can be fun at times, and satisfying at times, but overall has to be tough quite often..therefore, not always "easy " and get paid accordingly. Hey, at McDonalds, you just flip the burgers, you don't have to perform for someone you may not really like!

[TsVanessa69]

Its kinda funny that we made fairly similar posts at the same time, I just posted a poll about escorts and relationships etc.
Anyway I must say, after years of escorting (almost 10) that it has really taken a toll on me. You are absolutely right about the acting and such because I try to provide every single client with the same fantasy, no matter how they look. And of course I come across some Brad Pitts, but there are also some Frankinsteins. Honestly, being an escort for so long has affected my personal life so much that I am not able to fuction a real personal relationship. I'm sure many ladies feel the same way. For example, when dating someone personally its hard to trust them, because we see so many men coming to see us cheating on thier wives and gf, its also hard for me to date a man who isnt doing anything for me, I guess having guys come to spend money for so long when I meet a guy in my perosnal life I just always expect something from him constantly, gifts, etc. Theres also the issue of sex, as escorts we have sex so much at times that If we are trying to fuction a real relationship its hard to have a regular sex life ( unless your just a str8 uo freak) your mate and you should have sex regularly but being an escort its hard because sometimes your tired or just fed up with sex and alot of times there are no feelings there because ur so use to faking it with clients that all sex seems the same. Its like a person whose been working at McDonalds for 10 yrs, they are tired of eating big Macs and wont touch em.
Escorting can truly corrupt a person, its kinda inevitable in my opinion because your whole percetion on men, sex and about life as a whole can be changed and your no longer able to fuction as a regular human being after seeing some of the things we've saw and definatley not after doing some of the things we've done.
As far as it being easy money, yea its easy, compared to other jobs, but definately not worth whats comes in the long run.

Very well said. I'm glad to know I am not the only one. On the flip side, I interviewed for a job today and got the job!!!

[SexxxyJade]

Its kinda funny that we made fairly similar posts at the same time, I just posted a poll about escorts and relationships etc.
Anyway I must say, after years of escorting (almost 10) that it has really taken a toll on me. You are absolutely right about the acting and such because I try to provide every single client with the same fantasy, no matter how they look. And of course I come across some Brad Pitts, but there are also some Frankinsteins. Honestly, being an escort for so long has affected my personal life so much that I am not able to fuction a real personal relationship. I'm sure many ladies feel the same way. For example, when dating someone personally its hard to trust them, because we see so many men coming to see us cheating on thier wives and gf, its also hard for me to date a man who isnt doing anything for me, I guess having guys come to spend money for so long when I meet a guy in my perosnal life I just always expect something from him constantly, gifts, etc. Theres also the issue of sex, as escorts we have sex so much at times that If we are trying to fuction a real relationship its hard to have a regular sex life ( unless your just a str8 uo freak) your mate and you should have sex regularly but being an escort its hard because sometimes your tired or just fed up with sex and alot of times there are no feelings there because ur so use to faking it with clients that all sex seems the same. Its like a person whose been working at McDonalds for 10 yrs, they are tired of eating big Macs and wont touch em.
Escorting can truly corrupt a person, its kinda inevitable in my opinion because your whole percetion on men, sex and about life as a whole can be changed and your no longer able to fuction as a regular human being after seeing some of the things we've saw and definatley not after doing some of the things we've done.
As far as it being easy money, yea its easy, compared to other jobs, but definately not worth whats comes in the long run.

Very well said. I'm glad to know I am not the only one. On the flip side, I interviewed for a job today and got the job!!!

congrats girl, ive tried that route but didnt work out for me. After so long of doing nothing and being my own boss its hard to transition. Maybe ill try school or something. Who knows.

[baileyandkc]

Congrats Vanessa!

Hope it's a satisfying job, no matter what it pays...Money is great but peace of mind is even better..Ya can't take money with you when its all said and done...

On Jade's earlier post, really great that she can be so honest and sincere about escorting...speaks volumes about her

[daleach]

Its kinda funny that we made fairly similar posts at the same time, I just posted a poll about escorts and relationships etc.
Anyway I must say, after years of escorting (almost 10) that it has really taken a toll on me. You are absolutely right about the acting and such because I try to provide every single client with the same fantasy, no matter how they look. And of course I come across some Brad Pitts, but there are also some Frankinsteins. Honestly, being an escort for so long has affected my personal life so much that I am not able to fuction a real personal relationship. I'm sure many ladies feel the same way. For example, when dating someone personally its hard to trust them, because we see so many men coming to see us cheating on thier wives and gf, its also hard for me to date a man who isnt doing anything for me, I guess having guys come to spend money for so long when I meet a guy in my perosnal life I just always expect something from him constantly, gifts, etc. Theres also the issue of sex, as escorts we have sex so much at times that If we are trying to fuction a real relationship its hard to have a regular sex life ( unless your just a str8 uo freak) your mate and you should have sex regularly but being an escort its hard because sometimes your tired or just fed up with sex and alot of times there are no feelings there because ur so use to faking it with clients that all sex seems the same. Its like a person whose been working at McDonalds for 10 yrs, they are tired of eating big Macs and wont touch em.
Escorting can truly corrupt a person, its kinda inevitable in my opinion because your whole percetion on men, sex and about life as a whole can be changed and your no longer able to fuction as a regular human being after seeing some of the things we've saw and definatley not after doing some of the things we've done.
As far as it being easy money, yea its easy, compared to other jobs, but definately not worth whats comes in the long run.

Very well said. I'm glad to know I am not the only one. On the flip side, I interviewed for a job today and got the job!!!

Congrats, Vanessa. What will you be doing?

[TomSelis]

Its kinda funny that we made fairly similar posts at the same time, I just posted a poll about escorts and relationships etc.
Anyway I must say, after years of escorting (almost 10) that it has really taken a toll on me. You are absolutely right about the acting and such because I try to provide every single client with the same fantasy, no matter how they look. And of course I come across some Brad Pitts, but there are also some Frankinsteins. Honestly, being an escort for so long has affected my personal life so much that I am not able to fuction a real personal relationship. I'm sure many ladies feel the same way. For example, when dating someone personally its hard to trust them, because we see so many men coming to see us cheating on thier wives and gf, its also hard for me to date a man who isnt doing anything for me, I guess having guys come to spend money for so long when I meet a guy in my perosnal life I just always expect something from him constantly, gifts, etc. Theres also the issue of sex, as escorts we have sex so much at times that If we are trying to fuction a real relationship its hard to have a regular sex life ( unless your just a str8 uo freak) your mate and you should have sex regularly but being an escort its hard because sometimes your tired or just fed up with sex and alot of times there are no feelings there because ur so use to faking it with clients that all sex seems the same. Its like a person whose been working at McDonalds for 10 yrs, they are tired of eating big Macs and wont touch em.
Escorting can truly corrupt a person, its kinda inevitable in my opinion because your whole percetion on men, sex and about life as a whole can be changed and your no longer able to fuction as a regular human being after seeing some of the things we've saw and definatley not after doing some of the things we've done.
As far as it being easy money, yea its easy, compared to other jobs, but definately not worth whats comes in the long run.

This was one of the realest posts I've ever read here.

Thank you