Pick your parter - Promiscuous vs Prostitute

[hondarobot]

I'd view my girl having a "guy on the side" like shopping. I don't want to hear about, don't want to be involved in it, but if it's going to happen anyways then let me know and be safe about it. I wouldn't want to know any further details. The situation would work both ways, of course.

[TheLongChodeAhead]

What self respecting person would want either? There are other people out there besides sluts and whores....

[TsVanessa69]

This is how i see it, both are sleeping with the same amount of people. One was just smart enhough to get paid.

[hondarobot]

With escorting there's an emotional intimacy level with the clients (at least from the clients pov) that I would clearly be uncomfortable with. There's also the fact that I believe a man should be the provider in a relationship. I know, that sounds goofy, but that's a personal belief of mine.

On the other hand, if a girl had a male friend (who I never saw or heard about) I wouldn't mind if they hung out on occasion. Sex? Sure, as long as it's kept quiet about. If I came home and she was getting fucked in our bed, there'd soon be a broken baseball bat and a "former fuck buddy" to dispose of. Another positive is that the "guy on the side" could hang out with her and do things I wouldn't want to do, like para sailing or water skiing or whatever.

I think more relationships like that would cut down on the divorce rate considerably.

[ptyseminole]

I would definelty go for a pro...

[62des]

Neither. Although if she's having sex with anyone else I think its only fair that I get to have sex with other girls too. But in either case you can't officially call it a "commited relationship". So neither.

[hondarobot]

It's clear that modern relationships are complicated and further inspection of the dynamics are required. Good thread.

I'm not putting my baseball bat away just yet, though, ya know.

[62des]

What self respecting person would want either? There are other people out there besides sluts and whores....

Best possible answer to this thread.

[TomSelis]

What's up with these threads with bad and worse choices?

It's kinda like being asked "You want to get shot in the foot or hand?" Hi, I don't want either.

Ultimately, they are pretty similar. One is fucking for money and one is fucking to fill some kind of void. If I got in a situation like that, I'd be actively seeking a way out. I choose not to choose!

[trish]

The variations of sexual practices among humans are multitudinous. There are happy Mormon sister wives. There are voyeur husbands whose wives happily comply to have sex with other men. There are satisfied swingers. There are happily married couples who only ever do the missionary position. There are satisfied couples who never copulate. There are men who are happily married to escorts and there are self-respecting women who knowingly marry philanderers. There happy henpecked husbands and happy submissive housewives. There are happily married husbands who occasionally buy the services of a hooker. Just think of the people you know and you can probably give examples. There are lots of unhappy people in relationships too. The field is just too big to to be confined by absolutes. There are over 6 billion people in the world. In regards to whether or not a given pair can make a go of it, very little can be said with certainty. One should hardly ever say "never."