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08-03-2008 #1
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Pick your parter - Promiscuous vs Prostitute
Many threads ask guys if they would commit to a relationship with an escort or prostitute. I know many of the guys and girls here are familiar with this situation.
It got m thinking about the whole sex vs emotional commitment question.
Given the choice, would you find it easier to commit to a relationship where:
A. your TS partner was promiscuous and likely to have several casual sexual partners through choice during your relationship, or
B. your TS partner was an escort or prostitute and likely to have MANY sexual enounters during your relationship
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08-03-2008 #2
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I'd just keep her chained to the bed all day and night! (kidding)
Home is where the Heart is....
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08-03-2008 #3
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neither.
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08-03-2008 #4
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I honestly wouldn't mind a girl I was in a relationship with having flings, on occasion, outside our relationship. It would cut down on her being crabby because I'd rather just get some sleep sometimes. I would never want to meet the "fling guys", or I'd break something over their heads.
I would not date a girl who was actively escorting.
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08-03-2008 #5
If it was open and recipracated I would chose the girl with a fling or two or more. But what's good for the goose would have to be good for the gander, ya know
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08-03-2008 #6
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I thought we all wanted a virgin
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08-03-2008 #7
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hay por favor.
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08-03-2008 #8
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I don't think I could accept either option. I wouldn't be so concerned with what she did in the past, but if she was with me all of that would have to stop.
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08-03-2008 #9
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I wouldn't be able to handle either. I'm a monogamous kinda guy and sure we could experiment here and there as a couple, but you can forget having my woman gettin' boned or vice versa by every Tom, Dick and Harry whether paid or by choice. I wouldn't want her to expect me to do that, so I don't expect her to do that to me either.
Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely and in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "...holy shit... what a ride!"
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08-03-2008 #10
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I'd go with A.
As long as its understood that we both have the option to fool around and that its just casual sex, then cool.
Now, if I were to find out she was doing it behind my back that would be a different matter. That would be fucked up.
Thats the situation my wife and I have now and it works out well. She does not mind me spending time with TSs and she is free to hook up for one night stands as she pleases.