I'm not telling my gender status - one ladies response

[Moon_Lover]

Well said Sis.

I guess I am one of the lucky ones, many of us are persicuted for who we are, it is not our fault we are in the wrong bodies. I know many are not as lucky as me to find someone who loves me for who I am not what I am.

I hope you all find true love.

God Bless

Kisses

Jen

[peggygee]

hmmmm, good advice, if you've got the experience that comes with going around the block a few times (and i mean that with the absolute *greatest* of respect).
Really bad read for a young girl...My two cents.

I'm curious...but obviously, you don't have to answer.
Of your casual experiences as a post-op where you didn't disclose, did any guys find out afterwards...what was their reaction?

Well said Sis.

I guess I am one of the lucky ones, many of us are persicuted for who we are, it is not our fault we are in the wrong bodies. I know many are not as lucky as me to find someone who loves me for who I am not what I am.

I hope you all find true love.

God Bless

Kisses

Jen

Thank you both for your responses.

I am running late for work, but will edit this, and respond.

[Paladin]

Amen. Evidence for that is the poll recently taken. Where 2/3 of the men here would take a beautiful CD'er over even an average looking full timer. They voted so they can't deny it. They can't deny that most are attracted to "it" and not to us as whole people.

That was just the cockhounds Brenda, but for better or worse, there are a LOT of cockhounds on this forum...

[Justawannabe]

I have a lot of sympathy for how hard the girls have it transitioning, and I understand that you transition to be a woman in what amounts to mainstream society. I just worry about the girls doing it with the young guys especially when they don't have the experience to really know what to look for in a bad guy.

I also find it a little painful around here as a guy who has openly dated a number of trans ladies. The hate level directed at the males is hard to paddle through, but I understand it's earned by some.

Sorry if I'm not staying on topic... still sick... and I'm exhausted...

Sean

[peggygee]

Well said Sis.

I guess I am one of the lucky ones, many of us are persicuted for who we are, it is not our fault we are in the wrong bodies. I know many are not as lucky as me to find someone who loves me for who I am not what I am.

I hope you all find true love.

God Bless

Kisses

Jen

Jen, I'm so happy that you have found someone to love and
cherish you.

I wish you continued joy.

[Carissa00031]

Peggy,
Excellent topic & you hit on many points on what I was thinking about many things related to this recently.
I'm in transition & started late in life to most of the ladies here, I'm going to be 44 years old soon.
Hopefully I will be able to meet someone who would accept me as who I am one day. I know transitioning is not easy, but glad I'm doing it because I'm happy who I am now.
Once again, thanks for making up the topic & educating our forum members here. It's deeply appreciated here.

[Alyssa87]

What a great post! I'm shocked ;p

Once i look real enough, got the work i want out of the way, and have the coins...
Its time to get that legendary cambio de sexo!

Then i (and any other girl like me) can forget about all the dick lovers that sort of make us a lil queezy.lol

I know body Gizel and Jessica could give 2shits about what the type of men you described- think of them.

Its a very different life for them than for a shemale like me, and i cant wait to live it.

[mimiplastique]

pass first

[peggygee]

hmmmm, good advice, if you've got the experience that comes with going around the block a few times (and i mean that with the absolute *greatest* of respect).
Really bad read for a young girl...My two cents.

I'm curious...but obviously, you don't have to answer.
Of your casual experiences as a post-op where you didn't disclose, did any guys find out afterwards...what was their reaction?

I agree with you about the follies of youth.

When I was young, I would let my sex drive, or being high on drugs or
alcohol, or clocking dollars, get me into precarious situations.

It's by the grace of God that I didn't end up in a dumpster, the river or
the back of a milk carton.

As to the casual experiences, no the pussy didn't get clocked.

Though there have been a few guys that I got a bit sprung over after
the fact.

Then we would have one on those "I have to tell you something
conversations", which most guys feel like you're going to tell them
you're pregnant or ........

When I tell them my herstory, some will say "why didn't you tell me
before". Some are fine with it, and it's a non-issue. For others it has
been a deal breaker.

Though as I stated upthread, I haven't experienced any violent or
argumentative reactions from anyone.

To reiterate; "Now if in the course of getting to talk with and know
you, what type of person are you, your temperment, and you're starting
to look like a 'person of interest', somebody that I might like to be in
a relationship with, then I will pick a safe time, place, and method to tell
you my herstory".

[drock]

Looks like Michelle Obama is not the only "angry black woman" around. :>)

Don't you know all Black women are angry?



It's written in our diaries.

:P

LOL