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    honestly ithink the only way i could date a pornstar would be if i was one too lol...it always seemed like a cool idea cuz shed be hot obviously but when u think bout it..ehh..



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    Quote Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
    Yes I think an escort can be in a relationship providing she stops escorting. If we dont stop escorting and a guy is still going to date us and he is ok with his girl turning tricks, I would wonder if he isn't looking to benefit from the coins also, unless he is in the business himself. Now some girls will take a husband and support him and do all that shit, so unless that's what ur looking for I would be careful, because I dont think a "good" man would be ok with his girl out turning tricks.



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    Quote Originally Posted by BrendaQG
    IMHO

    yes you can have a relationship with a man and escort unless.

    1.) He is the jealous type and insecure.

    2.) He is a leech and using you for $$$$.

    From what you have written it does not look like either of those things are at issue. If either of those things are true and you go ahead with a relationship they will end it soon enough.

    Specifically since he is in the business I don't see how he could have a problem with your business or really need your money (unless he gets sick or something).

    Putting everything on the man's actions is the exact reason this wouldn't work for some people. You can't say oh the man needs to adapt and nt be this and that but I do what I please. How is that going ot work out for you? Sounds extremely selfish to me and therefore won't work out in the end. It takes BOTH partners acting properly for this scenario to have a chance of working.

    The way you answered this question sums up the reason good guys get annoyed with women be they GG or TS.



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    Quote Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
    Quote Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
    Yes I think an escort can be in a relationship providing she stops escorting. If we dont stop escorting and a guy is still going to date us and he is ok with his girl turning tricks, I would wonder if he isn't looking to benefit from the coins also, unless he is in the business himself. Now some girls will take a husband and support him and do all that shit, so unless that's what ur looking for I would be careful, because I dont think a "good" man would be ok with his girl out turning tricks.
    He escorts now, because he was kicked out of his house after his mother died. He rents a room by himself and basically, like me is alone. He would like to go to school, he doesn't have a problem with contributing,
    Then maybe it can work, short term though. Relationships while one or two is in the sex field are not going to be deep and meaningful. I say go for it and have your fun for now, but girl until he proves himself dont trust him. He is in "the business" and anyone in the business knows the streets and can hustle so becareful he isn't trying to hustle you. Although like I said it can work if he is in the business. I have dated guys who do massage, escort, dance and what ever. I actually went out last night and this guy who is friends with my friend showed up. He is a dancer. We hooked up, then he gave me all the "now its you and me ma" I told him to save all that bullshit for someone else, lol.

    Also one other thing, if he is in the business and you make more coins then him, there can be a competition.



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    Quote Originally Posted by goldensamba
    Quote Originally Posted by BrendaQG
    IMHO

    yes you can have a relationship with a man and escort unless.

    1.) He is the jealous type and insecure.

    2.) He is a leech and using you for $$$$.

    From what you have written it does not look like either of those things are at issue. If either of those things are true and you go ahead with a relationship they will end it soon enough.

    Specifically since he is in the business I don't see how he could have a problem with your business or really need your money (unless he gets sick or something).




    Putting everything on the man's actions is the exact reason this wouldn't work for some people. You can't say oh the man needs to adapt and nt be this and that but I do what I please. How is that going ot work out for you? Sounds extremely selfish to me and therefore won't work out in the end. It takes BOTH partners acting properly for this scenario to have a chance of working.

    The way you answered this question sums up the reason good guys get annoyed with women be they GG or TS.
    Man,you understand the rules with some women TS or GG.
    My money is OUR money,her money is HER money



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    OK, Am I the only one that thinks this is fucking ridiculous? I apologize if this is brutally honest but, goddamn.

    You meet a guy not even a week ago when you come to town to party and sell ass, within days you are calling him your boyfriend? The two of you are discussing him coming to live with you, and how your are going to build hopes and dreams together? On top of everything else, his job is as a young cocksucker? WTF??????

    Somebody do a reality check, sounds like two desperate people. Young guys mooch off older women all the time, and to mark a Tgirl that you are familiar with from a porn board seems like a fairly accurate jackpot. Especially when the girl was on this board the week before complaining about her other 4 day boyfriend that used her and how much he hurt her. In reality, this is one person lacking self esteem under the illusion of looking for "love" and another, lacking the same, possibly more looking to take advantage of someone more needy.

    Wake the fuck up. If you want a real life, keep it to yourself, don't advertise all your business on the internet. But hell, don't listen to me you have a world of friends here that will support this brilliant decision.



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    No way, unless you're both swingers. The Florida Mandingos (look it up) were standing around laughing after tag teaming some guy's wife (with him watching) and said "he's got to let her go. There is no way one man can satisfy her."

    In other words, I think anyone in that industry or just a woman that sleeps around in general may pause, but will not stop sleeping around for a relationship. No way. Maybe, but not likely.



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    oh i think you are, what people do is their own damn business, and if they look like you do then it makes it even easier to accept, but yeh u love and care for someone for who they are no what they do



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    Quote Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
    Quote Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
    Quote Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
    Yes I think an escort can be in a relationship providing she stops escorting. If we dont stop escorting and a guy is still going to date us and he is ok with his girl turning tricks, I would wonder if he isn't looking to benefit from the coins also, unless he is in the business himself. Now some girls will take a husband and support him and do all that shit, so unless that's what ur looking for I would be careful, because I dont think a "good" man would be ok with his girl out turning tricks.
    He escorts now, because he was kicked out of his house after his mother died. He rents a room by himself and basically, like me is alone. He would like to go to school, he doesn't have a problem with contributing,
    Then maybe it can work, short term though. Relationships while one or two is in the sex field are not going to be deep and meaningful. I say go for it and have your fun for now, but girl until he proves himself dont trust him. He is in "the business" and anyone in the business knows the streets and can hustle so becareful he isn't trying to hustle you. Although like I said it can work if he is in the business. I have dated guys who do massage, escort, dance and what ever. I actually went out last night and this guy who is friends with my friend showed up. He is a dancer. We hooked up, then he gave me all the "now its you and me ma" I told him to save all that bullshit for someone else, lol.

    Also one other thing, if he is in the business and you make more coins then him, there can be a competition.
    Yea, I see your point. For now we are just going to try and see if its gonna work ourselves. I just threw this out there to see peoples reactions, and get feedback. He does want to date me and I would love to date him and just see where it goes. If its short term, so be it, we will have fun and enjoy each others company. For now, its a "long" distance relationship, If it develops into something more, it would be a blessing, but its not something I would expect. But hey, you never know until you try.



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    thats not gonna work
    1 no relationship goes from hi how r u to ltr ova night
    2 no guy is going to be on it with a girlfriend turnin em, if so then they can't be too committed
    3 a male escort will work you before relating w u

    take a pass on him and find someone who is worth your time


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