View Poll Results: Can an escort make a good partner?
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07-29-2008 #31
yeah dating someone who's out banging a bunch of guys who have to pay for sex while im at home watching csi is right up on my list of things to do in life
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07-29-2008 #32
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I'm sure this has already been covered extensively in other subjects/forums but what's the difference between escorts and adult film actresses..both are paid for sex...so if you're ok with your significant other being a porn star, you oughta be ok with them being an escort..
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07-29-2008 #33Originally Posted by LilWyte
In the real world, thats not happenin.
If you're dating me, after work hours are done, my time is for you, just like any other job. I don't escort to survive, so its not a big deal.
I would be at home watching CSI with you, in sexy lingerie of course!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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07-29-2008 #34
Re: Because I escort, am I not relationship material???
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
Who cares what everyone else thinks- its what you and he think that dictate the issue.
If he doesn't see an issue, and you don't see an issue- there's no issue.
What do either of you want out of the relationship? Do you want this to be a traditional closed dating relationship? If so, how will escorting effect that? Will he want you to stop escorting?
Will you want him to not see anyone else, and will he be ok with that OR will he say "yea but you have sex with other people, so I should be able to as well"?
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07-29-2008 #35
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I'm sure this has already been covered extensively in other subjects/forums but what's the difference between escorts and adult film actresses..
both are paid for sex...so if you're ok with your significant other being a porn star, you oughta be ok with them being an escort..
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07-29-2008 #36
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I don't know, paid to have sex before a movie camera or in some motel room, all seems the same to me, although I'd guess most guys would accept a porn actress as their wife before a escort, or not...
It really does come down to the kind of relationship you want...traditional and closed, you don't want or need anyone else to satisfy you, unless you need the cash...non-traditional and open relationship, you can do as many as you like whenever you like..
If both parties are agreeable to an open relationship, no need for 3rd opinions. if one person wants a closed relationship and the other wants an open relationship, would seem to be sayonara
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07-29-2008 #37
I wonder if I'm the only one who thinks that this is the TS working girl equivalent of all the "am I gay?" threads.
Just because you don't know about it, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist: http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...=asc&start=158
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07-29-2008 #38
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Re: Because I escort, am I not relationship material???
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
1) can a prostitute be a loving and caring partner - as long as theres just one such prostitute in the world the answer is yes so ill go out on a limb here and say yes
2) can you be that prostitute? - how the hell would i or anyone else here other than yourself know?
3) is a prostitute so someone for whom sex is a commodity relationship material - depends on every posters oppinion
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07-30-2008 #39
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A couple of points but first a question V.
How long have you known the dude?
I am a firm believer that until you see the whole person you can't know what they are about and that takes time.
Good times, bad times, stressful situations etc. All these reveal who the person is.
Also any stressors you place into a relationship will be challenging. Illness, kids, and other things all make communication key.
Being an escort does place stress on a relationship but so does everything else.
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07-30-2008 #40
IMHO
yes you can have a relationship with a man and escort unless.
1.) He is the jealous type and insecure.
2.) He is a leech and using you for $$$$.
From what you have written it does not look like either of those things are at issue. If either of those things are true and you go ahead with a relationship they will end it soon enough.
Specifically since he is in the business I don't see how he could have a problem with your business or really need your money (unless he gets sick or something).