Because I escort, am I not relationship material???

[TsVanessa69]

I think most people would have the lingering issue of why she is with them in the back of thier mind. Is she with me for my money and because I can take care of here or is she with me because she loves me?

I think that would be the hardest issue to resolve.

Just one man's opinion though.

Very good point, but the guy is far from rich or well off. I am with him for the emotional support I can give him and he can give me. Now see jason, a member on here I tried to become invloved with stated it as" I used him to feel normal". Julius says " We will be here for each other and grow together". Our situation is not about money, more about 2 people who have feelings for each other coming together for emotional support, accepting of each other FLAWS and all. We both come from troubled lives, and together we are looking to better ourselves TOGETHER. He is young, abandoned by his family, criticised by his few friends because they are gay and don't understand how he would prefer a ts over a female, and not date men too. I have already got into an arguement with his gay brother for saying anybody born with a dick is a man. Julius is looking for a woman to accept him and care for him, and support him in his aspirations. He is looking to have a stable inviroment, and dreams of becoming a mecanic. He loves cars and wants to work on them. I want a man to care for me and respect me. I also want love and I want to pursue my dream of becoming a full time show girl. Together we are going to make both happen.

[NYTSJulie]

I am very skeptical of guys trying to run game, so be careful. Because in the "real" world a guy dont step up and ask a girl to be in a relationship after knowing her a few days. Getting into a relationship is a natural progression that happens by dating and getting to know someone.

[TsVanessa69]

If both are ready for open relationship with no strings attached, then its fine.

But heck, if thats there - why label it a marriage?

Marriage is something different.

We haven't made it to the marriage point yet, lets not jump the gun.
The relationship is not going to be like we are going to sleep with anybody and everybody.
I would top to a few select clients once in a while.
Other than that, we would only be with each other.

[TsVanessa69]

I am very skeptical of guys trying to run game, so be careful. Because in the "real" world a guy dont step up and ask a girl to be in a relationship after knowing her a few days. Getting into a relationship is a natural progression that happens by dating and getting to know someone.

Obviously we don't live in the real world. He will come stay with me for a while, and we will see what happens from there. If we come to the point of a committed relationship, we will take it from there. For the moment, we are going to give this a try and see where it takes us both.

[TsVanessa69]

Yes I think an escort can be in a relationship providing she stops escorting. If we dont stop escorting and a guy is still going to date us and he is ok with his girl turning tricks, I would wonder if he isn't looking to benefit from the coins also, unless he is in the business himself. Now some girls will take a husband and support him and do all that shit, so unless that's what ur looking for I would be careful, because I dont think a "good" man would be ok with his girl out turning tricks.

He escorts now, because he was kicked out of his house after his mother died. He rents a room by himself and basically, like me is alone. He would like to go to school, he doesn't have a problem with contributing,

[Dinand]

Maybe I'm just perverted or something but for me it would be like a turn on if my girlfriend would be like a pornstar. I would watch all her movies for sure! Now I'm not sure about prostitution though, maybe.

But of course if I let her free to have sex with other guys - job or no job - then I'm also free to have sex with other girls so I guess the door swings both ways!

[tsmandy]

Yes I think an escort can be in a relationship providing she stops escorting. If we dont stop escorting and a guy is still going to date us and he is ok with his girl turning tricks, I would wonder if he isn't looking to benefit from the coins also, unless he is in the business himself. Now some girls will take a husband and support him and do all that shit, so unless that's what ur looking for I would be careful, because I dont think a "good" man would be ok with his girl out turning tricks.

He escorts now, because he was kicked out of his house after his mother died. He rents a room by himself and basically, like me is alone. He would like to go to school, he doesn't have a problem with contributing,

As long as he doesn't have pimp fantasies than dating a man-whore is a good common ground. Hell, I know more than one couple in the PNW who are M/F whore couples. My advice, would be to keep your business completely separate from him (not secret, just seperate). From my own personal experience with my partner, you never know how your work is going to affect your partner, even if they are supportive and understanding.

And all the man sluts who are married and saying they could never trust a whore, what a sad case of projection. Come on guys, at least for us its about money, for you, you're just cheating

[BiCuriousGeorge]

Here is my opinion. I have no problem being in a relationship with a girl who is a porn star. They get tested and so do the people they have sex with. Plus there are other people around that make sure things don't get out of hand. And you never know if they will bring a "friend" home for a threesome! Dating an escort is much more difficult because you don't know if anyone has any diseases and there is always the worry of the client robbing, hurting, or even killing an escort if they don't have someone watching to protect them. If a girl used to escort but doesn't anymore than can be ok. I guess it all depends on everyones situation since nobody is really the same.

[David J.]

I voted against simply because of the odds. Just ask yourself if you could be with a guy who has sex for a living with gg's or tg's...if you say no, how can you expect different?

[David J.]

I voted against simply because of the odds. Just ask yourself if you could be with a guy who has sex for a living with gg's or tg's...if you say no, how can you expect different?