Because I escort, am I not relationship material???

[baileyandkc]

Sure, why not, as long as you can trust him or her...give it a few years and watch...escorting is a business and if they can put it behind them, the marriage will look as good as any other. If they can't put it behind them, addicted to multiple partners, the sex, etc, then that marriage will be cooked..
just comes down to can the 2 people trust each other and be loyal to each other, unless of course its an open relationship...then the more the merrier..
One has to wonder what the impact is emotionally on escorts, just putting something like that behind them, picking it up and letting it go...not being an escort, can't speak about it

[Nowhere]

There is principle and there is reality. And, I do honestly believe it is naive to think that if you work in the adult industry, especially escorting that it won't be difficult to find someone to settle down with (and that's not even getting into the t-factor with it all).

Effectively, you're making it so that only a subset of a subset of a subset of guys will be open to you.

Only a small portion of guys into tgirls are open to dating them. Only a smaller portion of guys are open to marrying them. Only an even smaller portion of guys are open to marrying ones that have posed nude. Only an even smaller portion of guys are open to marrying ones that have had sex on film, and only an even tinier amount of them are open to marrying ones who have escorted.

It's not that you don't deserve love or that you are a person who can't contribute positively to a relationship, but that's the facts.

You're going to have to find a guy who truly has nothing to lose, doesn't give a sh*t about what anyone around him thinks or says, in ALL communities (since I believe there is anti-t-bias everywhere) as well as his family, friends, etc, and to find a guy who is like that who isn't a thug or serious criminal is a very, very small amount of people in this world.

Your question is on principle, and I believe principle matters very little in the real world.

The situation is what it is, take it for that.

[bootneck]

I am in doubt that you can make a good partner and if you want wife, sex is sex a good honest loving relationship is something else entirely. In the end if it works two people have something special in their lives, if it does not well your a little the wiser, go for it.

[TsVanessa69]

I would never trust a whore

Thats your opinion. First of all a whore is a girl who sleeps with any man that comes her way, and for free.
I don't even sleep with every man who offers to pay.
The point is, the young man has made it clear, he wants a relationship with ME. I don't know what you guys know about escorting, or how its done.
I don't see every person who calls my ad
I don't "work" 24-7.
I work when I feel like it and only if the price is right.
Since my boyfriend is more straight and not really into the cock part, I would only be selling what he doesn't want.
There is no emotional bond with a client, just the person I am in a relationship with

[goldensamba]

I would never trust a whore

Thats your opinion. First of all a whore is a girl who sleeps with any man that comes her way, and for free.
I don't even sleep with every man who offers to pay.
The point is, the young man has made it clear, he wants a relationship with ME. I don't know what you guys know about escorting, or how its done.
I don't see every person who calls my ad
I don't "work" 24-7.
I work when I feel like it and only if the price is right.
Since my boyfriend is more straight and not really into the cock part, I would only be selling what he doesn't want.
There is no emotional bond with a client, just the person I am in a relationship with

That doesn't change the fact to a lot of people that your job was sex for money. Not saying it's write or wrong just trying make it more clear as to why you might get negative responses.

[TsVanessa69]

There is principle and there is reality. And, I do honestly believe it is naive to think that if you work in the adult industry, especially escorting that it won't be difficult to find someone to settle down with (and that's not even getting into the t-factor with it all).

Effectively, you're making it so that only a subset of a subset of a subset of guys will be open to you.

Only a small portion of guys into tgirls are open to dating them. Only a smaller portion of guys are open to marrying them. Only an even smaller portion of guys are open to marrying ones that have posed nude. Only an even smaller portion of guys are open to marrying ones that have had sex on film, and only an even tinier amount of them are open to marrying ones who have escorted.

It's not that you don't deserve love or that you are a person who can't contribute positively to a relationship, but that's the facts.

You're going to have to find a guy who truly has nothing to lose, doesn't give a sh*t about what anyone around him thinks or says, in ALL communities (since I believe there is anti-t-bias everywhere) as well as his family, friends, etc, and to find a guy who is like that who isn't a thug or serious criminal is a very, very small amount of people in this world.

Your question is on principle, and I believe principle matters very little in the real world.

The situation is what it is, take it for that.

You make very valid points, and I am blessed to have that guy!
I was just seeking feedback from you guys, because many have said its not possible!

[rvince]

I think many(most?) guys could definately consider a former escort, but extremely few could be fine with a girl who's still currently escorting.

[TsVanessa69]

I would never trust a whore

Thats your opinion. First of all a whore is a girl who sleeps with any man that comes her way, and for free.
I don't even sleep with every man who offers to pay.
The point is, the young man has made it clear, he wants a relationship with ME. I don't know what you guys know about escorting, or how its done.
I don't see every person who calls my ad
I don't "work" 24-7.
I work when I feel like it and only if the price is right.
Since my boyfriend is more straight and not really into the cock part, I would only be selling what he doesn't want.
There is no emotional bond with a client, just the person I am in a relationship with

That doesn't change the fact to a lot of people that your job was sex for money. Not saying it's write or wrong just trying make it more clear as to why you might get negative responses.

But as you stated, its a JOB!
I set a time to start and stop the job.

[LAGent4ts]

If two people are able to communicate openly and honestly, able to develop a trusting and honest friendship, and accept each other for the person you are, then there is a chance for success. If there is a sense of possessiveness or control of the other person, I think failure is not far off. Just my opinion.

[NYTSJulie]

Yes I think an escort can be in a relationship providing she stops escorting. If we dont stop escorting and a guy is still going to date us and he is ok with his girl turning tricks, I would wonder if he isn't looking to benefit from the coins also, unless he is in the business himself. Now some girls will take a husband and support him and do all that shit, so unless that's what ur looking for I would be careful, because I dont think a "good" man would be ok with his girl out turning tricks.