Because I escort, am I not relationship material???

[TsVanessa69]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dr16rcSrgDw

Cute.
But my boyfriend I don't think is bisexual because he doesn't like pussy, or men. He just likes transexuals.
There goes that whole label thing.

I get labels being a bit weak but, like EVERYONE else on here who likes to be
*exclusively with TS's
*Or dabble with the ocassional TS
we all have one thing in common. being GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Whether or not you are like me who prefers real vagina.

Gay as in being happy or gay as in being homosexual???

I think all of here are gay(homsexuals). Whethere married to a real girl or not.

WOW!!!!!!!!! May I ask how you came to that conclusion??

[indeed]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dr16rcSrgDw

Cute.
But my boyfriend I don't think is bisexual because he doesn't like pussy, or men. He just likes transexuals.
There goes that whole label thing.

I get labels being a bit weak but, like EVERYONE else on here who likes to be
*exclusively with TS's
*Or dabble with the ocassional TS
we all have one thing in common. being GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Whether or not you are like me who prefers real vagina.

Gay as in being happy or gay as in being homosexual???

I think all of here are gay(homsexuals). Whethere married to a real girl or not.

WOW!!!!!!!!! May I ask how you came to that conclusion??

The conclusion is obvious except the term "gay" seems to be a scarlett letter around here from the TS to the admirer. Everyone should embrace it

[Justawannabe]

How are you defining 'gay'... usually it's being exclusively attracted to people of your own gender (sex for those who don't believe in making the distinction). Most here don't seem to fit that definition very well, though an argument can be made in some technical ways.

Many homophobic people have taken to defining it as anyone who as EVER had the slightest interest in someone of the same gender if male. Genetic girls seem to get a pass on 'experimenting' as long as they eventually settle on a man or stay very hot looking.

'Gay' is a scarlet letter, as society in general has a pretty hostile response to anyone claiming it, and oddly more so towards men who claim it. The most severe insult for many in the first twenty years of life is 'fag', often followed by a beating. So there is some rational behind being a wary of being labeled.

Not saying it should be that way... but denying reality doesn' help either.

Also, while I have often said I am part of that band of the rainbow by default, I rarely find men physically appealing, so using the term for me is misleading to others. Especially as I find genetic women attractive, not just transsexual women. There is sadly just not a good practical term as yet for folks like most on this board.

Just wondering...

Sean

[indeed]

How are you defining 'gay'... usually it's being exclusively attracted to people of your own gender (sex for those who don't believe in making the distinction). Most here don't seem to fit that definition very well, though an argument can be made in some technical ways.

Many homophobic people have taken to defining it as anyone who as EVER had the slightest interest in someone of the same gender if male. Genetic girls seem to get a pass on 'experimenting' as long as they eventually settle on a man or stay very hot looking.

'Gay' is a scarlet letter, as society in general has a pretty hostile response to anyone claiming it, and oddly more so towards men who claim it. The most severe insult for many in the first twenty years of life is 'fag', often followed by a beating. So there is some rational behind being a wary of being labeled.

Not saying it should be that way... but denying reality doesn' help either.

Also, while I have often said I am part of that band of the rainbow by default, I rarely find men physically appealing, so using the term for me is misleading to others. Especially as I find genetic women attractive, not just transsexual women. There is sadly just not a good practical term as yet for folks like most on this board.

Just wondering...

Sean

bi-sexual means in simple terms that you are gay and straight. If you (not you specifically) like TS's you are gay which in a hybrid world can also mean Bi. Plenty of exclusively gay guys go for the more femme guy as oppose to masculine. TS are the extreme. Obviously for a lot of TS it goes beyond being "gay" to being born into the wrong body, however i dont think TS separate themself from being considered gay.

Admirers are guys that like penis just not in the traditonal male package. If they didnt they would go exclusively female.

For me personally I am 99% exclusive to female, yet i like to occasionally get busy with a TS. Thats gay. Im cool with that.

The question I always have had is why do guys like Post Ops? I have a good idea why but I have yet to read it posted.

Also gay is no longer a scarlett letter in society. it may be for the guys kidding themselves and thinking having sex with a TS is straight, but in general we all see how strong the gay community is in the worlds biigest and most important cities

[Tomfurbs]

I was reading Dan Savage's excellent sex column earlier today (Savage Love - check it out, it's awesome), and one of the letters written in reminded me of this thread. I've copied it verbatim below, along with his reply:

My boyfriend and I met nearly three years ago when I was a call girl and he was a guy who wanted to be pegged (a big, big part of my business). We became friends, then partners, and now we've been together for three years. We share a home and we're bringing up my 7-year-old son together. It's the best relationship I've ever been in—he's loving, communicative, patient, supportive, and WAY fun sexually. His dad told me recently that he's never seen his son so happy. He's got a good job, and in addition to being a stay-at-home mom, I occasionally see my old regulars. In fact, we've done a few calls together, for trusted clients who wanted to experience a threesome.

My question is, how common is it for prostitutes and clients to end up together? Of course the business is full of pitfalls, and is not for the timid or directionless, but human beings in proximity do tend to fall in love given the chance… or are we just an anomaly?

Lucky In Love

Sex workers and clients do occasionally fall in love (check out the wonderful memoir Concertina by Susan Winemaker), so it does happen, LIL. But it happens so rarely that I was reluctant to print your letter, as it will give countless johns false hope. But I'm sleep-deprived, so here it is. Congrats on finding the love of (fingers crossed) your life, LIL.

[Nassau]

it can happen

but here is how

1 A very suceccful that falls in love with a guy who money can't support her
that relationship will always fell

2
a very insecure guy shouldn't even try this feat

3
There will have 2 be compromises on both sides and all the bullshit and insecure nonsense has got to go if it will work

[goldensamba]

it can happen

but here is how

1 A very suceccful that falls in love with a guy who money can't support her
that relationship will always fell

2
a very insecure guy shouldn't even try this feat

3
There will have 2 be compromises on both sides and all the bullshit and insecure nonsense has got to go if it will work

Can someone translate this into English for me?

[bklynboy]

Uh no. Everything I have seen from you on this board leads me to believe you'd pick a guy's pocket and take advantage of his kindness. Change your ways, be sincere and honest and the "NO!!!!!!!!!!" goes to a maybe.

[TsVanessa69]

Uh no. Everything I have seen from you on this board leads me to believe you'd pick a guy's pocket and take advantage of his kindness. Change your ways, be sincere and honest and the "NO!!!!!!!!!!" goes to a maybe.

Ok now I know the fuck you did not write that bullshit about me. First of all I NEVER have ever had to pick anybody's pocket, I am blessed with flow from many different directions, if you did pay attention to my posts as you say you did you would know I am a showgirl before anything! Secondly I do webcam, and that brings in a nice amount monthly, and I have a website. I am very active in the TG, Gay and straight community. I volunteer my time to many agencys and I help ts in Chicago get proper hormone care, and co-facilitate a a support group for woman in transition. Ask somebody who has met me in real life, as you are dead wrong about me. So obviously you are a shady ass faggot who just had to jump in my thread to get some shine!
http://www.myspace.com/sexitsmami

[Shadycat]

Uh no. Everything I have seen from you on this board leads me to believe you'd pick a guy's pocket and take advantage of his kindness. Change your ways, be sincere and honest and the "NO!!!!!!!!!!" goes to a maybe.

Ok now I know the fuck you did not write that bullshit about me. First of all I NEVER have ever had to pick anybody's pocket, I am blessed with flow from many different directions, if you did pay attention to my posts as you say you did you would know I am a showgirl before anything! Secondly I do webcam, and that brings in a nice amount monthly, and I have a website. I am very active in the TG, Gay and straight community. I volunteer my time to many agencys and I help ts in Chicago get proper hormone care, and co-facilitate a a support group for woman in transition. Ask somebody who has met me in real life, as you are dead wrong about me. So obviously you are a shady ass faggot who just had to jump in my thread to get some shine!
http://www.myspace.com/sexitsmami

You know the guy is trolling. The best thing to do to a troll is ignore them. They tend to run off when no one bothers to answer, acknowledge them.