View Poll Results: Can an escort make a good partner?
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08-01-2008 #101Originally Posted by Danny partridge
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08-01-2008 #102Originally Posted by InHouston
I would have to agree with the part about who you want ot be the mother of your kids. Like I said before I don't really understand why moe girls don't just get regular jobs. Most of you are hot girls and no one would know you are TG anyway so why keep up the night job? I keep reading these posts about how people want on regular guy but you won't get one as long as you are in the business. Not the one you want anyway.
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08-01-2008 #103Originally Posted by TS DANIELLE FOXXX
I have great respect for anyone who makes thier way to be sucessful on thier own no matter how they do it as ong as they are not hurting others. But.......I'm not sure that makes them relationship material.
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08-01-2008 #104
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Originally Posted by MrShow52
Reality is perception.
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08-01-2008 #105
Kelly wrote about the idea of her and her boyfriend being okay with it as part of a job that would eventually be put behind them after she achieves all the medical intervention she wants.
I worry whenever I hear this, in part because plastic surgery is often addictive, more so for the trans ladies I've met. In part because if the work really is lucrative, it will be hard to just decide to stop making that money. Not much pays so well per hour.
My current ex- went into the business, and we're talking about maybe getting back together... it's tough call for me... not so against pictures, but doing stuff with others is hard on me, but I really need to feel my partner values me and wants to give me something no one else can get. She says she just need to pay a few bills... but will she give it up for a more regular job... hard to say.
Sean
Just one more nice guy finishing last...
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08-01-2008 #106Originally Posted by Justawannabe
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08-01-2008 #107Originally Posted by goldensamba
Did you know our wonderful social security administration went around the past two years outting tgirls who were working in stealth?
Yup, they put filters on their databases so the stuff employers submit for SSA related stuff would red flag anyone whose information on the file at the SSA differs from what is being sent to the SSA.
Once that happens, they send your employer a "gender no match" letter telling your employer that their records are not correct and need to be changed.
Last I read, unless you mislead the SSA, they require SRS to change your gender on file- at least if playing things by the way the feds want you to do it. I talked to the SSA workers at the federal building I went to back when I had my name changed, and they echoed what that state's DMV said- srs is required and they needed not just a surgeon letter, but the surgery notes (so much for medical record privacy). They could have misunderstood the requirements, I am sure, but srs was according to the horse's own mouth what was needed.
SS cards don't (at least mine doesn't) show your sex status on file with the SSA, so if your DL is in order your employer would otherwise never know (if you pass). Now some employers will terminate your ass for lying on company paperwork, especially the stuff that's used in dealing with the feds. So you're outted, your employer knows, and you maybe out of your job -and that termination would stand even under discrimination laws.
Also alot of employers are gonna call you out if you show up and have a blank resume from the past _ years of working off the books. If you pay your taxes you can use that you're an entertainer as a response and depending on the employer may not be an issue. In some cities (Philly is one) you have to be licensed just to be a dancer within city limits... might not be great on your resume if you're going for that 2nd grade school teacher position, but it may not be a prob for some other jobs.
Worst case is gonna be the unpassing girl whose been working off the books for 20 years, has no education, no resume, no degrees, and no experience. I know ggs who have spent 20+ yrs working as dancers in shady low end cash only bars, they can't even get a job bagging groceries for min wage at your local grocery store.
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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08-01-2008 #108
Just an update
My love interest lives in new Jersy,has decided to come to see me here in Chicago and spend some quality time getting to know me and see where and how I live. I will be flying in to NYC as I do every year, for Thanksgiving, where I will go to the Bronx and meet his sister, as his mother has passed and his father abandoned them when he was very small. I have already talked with his sisters and his neices on the phone. The little girls, are very anxious to meet me, as they have seen my myspace page. I don't know if they fully understand yet or not.
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08-01-2008 #109
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Just as i said earlier, good luck to you.
It CAN work.
My wife is a TS, a bit older then me, works as an escort and we are together for 6 years now, married for almost 1. I have no problem with her work, as i know she loves me.
If you love someone, you love her. No questions asked.
Now you just need to be strong enough to be true to yourself.
When we first met, i told her "All my friends will accept you".
And all my friends did.
The ones that didnt werent my friends...
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08-02-2008 #110Originally Posted by Teydyn