View Poll Results: Can an escort make a good partner?
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07-29-2008 #1
Because I escort, am I not relationship material???
I had to step out of Kellys Relationship thread, but however I have something to share with the members of the forum.
I have met someone who I thought was a casual fling when I was in NYC for Allanah's birthday bash. I was open and honest about who I was and what I do or have done in the past to survive. The man was man enough to understand me, and today, he ask me to be his woman. Knowing all my truths, he ask me to be in a relationship.
Do you guys think a ts who is in the adult industry and/or escorts is not capable of being a LOVING caring woman to 1 man??????????
I would like girls and guys opinions.
I would also like to ask my sister Allanah, as she is in a relationship, if she could share with me either publicly or privately, her outlook on my situation.
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07-29-2008 #2
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I think that I would not marry any woman (TS or GG) who has sex for a living. To me I would always be thinking how many guys has she done this with or is she still doing it with any other guys. Now granted I do not think that I am going to marry a virgin. I just would want to marry someone who does not sell her body for a living.
Now that being said I think to answer your question. Yes I do think a woman who is in the industry or who escorts is capable of being with one person. It just depends on the woman. Some will be faitful while I think other will miss having sex with other partners.
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07-29-2008 #3
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What do man whine to their wifes? "It was only sex!"
You need to see the difference between physical, paid for sex and emotional relationship.
Good luck and have fun
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07-29-2008 #4
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hi vanessa, you're definately wife material!! escorting could make your relationship better.
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07-29-2008 #5
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good luck
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07-29-2008 #6
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Of course it can work. That said, it probably won't be easy. Communication, understanding as well as definition of what is acceptable and what is not will be essential. No intimate relationship is without its hurdles, but a willingness to overcome will serve you well. Good luck!
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07-29-2008 #7
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I would never trust a whore
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07-29-2008 #8
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If both are ready for open relationship with no strings attached, then its fine.
But heck, if thats there - why label it a marriage?
Marriage is something different.
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07-29-2008 #9
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I would never look twice at a man who can’t trust me. A man’s sexual insecurity is not only an ugly thing to witness but it betrays a bevy of deep unresolved issues with which I’d rather not deal.
"...I no longer believe that people's secrets are defined and communicable, or their feelings full-blown and easy to recognize."_Alice Munro, Chaddeleys and Flemings.
"...the order in creation which you see is that which you have put there, like a string in a maze, so that you shall not lose your way". _Judge Holden, Cormac McCarthy's, BLOOD MERIDIAN.
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07-29-2008 #10
I think most people would have the lingering issue of why she is with them in the back of thier mind. Is she with me for my money and because I can take care of here or is she with me because she loves me?
I think that would be the hardest issue to resolve.
Just one man's opinion though.