Because I escort, am I not relationship material???

[trannybanger]

I take a 5 day weekend, and come back and you are still grinding this out!?! Anyway, Since I see you now refer to yourself as "in a relationship" I will quote myself here in case you missed it the first time... cause this shit is on point!

OK, Am I the only one that thinks this is fucking ridiculous? I apologize if this is brutally honest but, goddamn.

You meet a guy not even a week ago when you come to town to party and sell ass, within days you are calling him your boyfriend? The two of you are discussing him coming to live with you, and how your are going to build hopes and dreams together? On top of everything else, his job is as a young cocksucker? WTF??????

Somebody do a reality check, sounds like two desperate people. Young guys mooch off older women all the time, and to mark a Tgirl that you are familiar with from a porn board seems like a fairly accurate jackpot. Especially when the girl was on this board the week before complaining about her other 4 day boyfriend that used her and how much he hurt her. In reality, this is one person lacking self esteem under the illusion of looking for "love" and another, lacking the same, possibly more looking to take advantage of someone more needy.

Wake the fuck up. If you want a real life, keep it to yourself, don't advertise all your business on the internet. But hell, don't listen to me you have a world of friends here that will support this brilliant decision.

[DirtySouth]

Why is it so hard to give up escorting (after it pays the bills, surgeries, etc.) instead of trying to find a guy to accept the lifestyle? I would think it would be much easier to make a step up and get out of the biz if a relationship is truly desired. Men are territorial. We dont want other men to have what we treasure just because they have $200 in their pocket and horny.

[goldensamba]

Why is it so hard to give up escorting (after it pays the bills, surgeries, etc.) instead of trying to find a guy to accept the lifestyle? I would think it would be much easier to make a step up and get out of the biz if a relationship is truly desired. Men are territorial. We dont want other men to have what we treasure just because they have $200 in their pocket and horny.

I would have to agree with this point. I have often wondered the same thing.

[trish]

I escorted for a while after high school for a few years, mostly to gather the money to continue my transition; but later to finance my way through undergraduate school. I quit the escorting business after a few months of graduate school, for many reasons: mostly the pressures of time and study. I never regretted my sojourn into the business. Indeed, I’m not much of a business woman, but I did learn a great deal about how businesses work as well as about people and how they think and behave. I never considered the business a step up or a step down. I must admit I never was serious about a client. I was careful to keep my personal life separate from my business life.

I’m currently in a long term, mostly monogamous relationship (we’ve swung a few times but found it more hilarious than erotic). We’ve never talked about the “rules and boundaries” of our relationship, I gather most people don’t: it just seemed to work out that Thanksgiving is at my folks house and Christmas at his folks place.

I can readily understand that men are territorial. I can understand a man not wanting to even consider a woman who was once promiscuous for a serious relationship. But that’s a characteristic of the man, not the woman. It’s not the woman who is a step down from the man. Neither is a step down from the other…unless the man insists on judgmentally projecting his insecurities on the morality or the worth of the woman. Then he is the one who just stepped down.

[Prospero]

I figure that getting a long term relationship going with an escort will be tricky - just as getting a long term relationship with a TS girl will be tricky. Put the two together and its a greater challenge, but not one which should be described as impossible. It's down to a whole range of things on both sides. Are we talking about escorting in the past or as an ongoing fact? If its in the past that is easier - though its human nature to be curious about this stuff. The TS bit is also difficult if you haver a family (mom, dad, sisters etc) because getting them to accept a TS as your life partner is gonna be tough (but again not impossible). All in all its a tough one. I've dated a few TS girls and one or two who were escorts. None ended up as my life partner but it was always out there as a possibility.

[bklynboy]

"Ok now I know the fuck you did not write that bullshit about me. First of all I NEVER have ever had to pick anybody's pocket, I am blessed with flow from many different directions, if you did pay attention to my posts as you say you did you would know I am a showgirl before anything! Secondly I do webcam, and that brings in a nice amount monthly, and I have a website. I am very active in the TG, Gay and straight community. I volunteer my time to many agencys and I help ts in Chicago get proper hormone care, and co-facilitate a a support group for woman in transition. Ask somebody who has met me in real life, as you are dead wrong about me. So obviously you are a shady ass faggot who just had to jump in my thread to get some shine! "

Not impressed. Heard it all before. Its just bullshit. Just an excuse. If you were sincere you'd get a real job. There is always a place for people with talent in society. You escort. That's toyr choice. You like most (from what I've read) think they are owed something because you got dealt a bad hand. Big f'ing deal. Join the club. Quit running your mouth, do something about your life and lifestyle and then we'll revisit the situation. Until then you're just a taker like every one else.

[TsVanessa69]

"Ok now I know the fuck you did not write that bullshit about me. First of all I NEVER have ever had to pick anybody's pocket, I am blessed with flow from many different directions, if you did pay attention to my posts as you say you did you would know I am a showgirl before anything! Secondly I do webcam, and that brings in a nice amount monthly, and I have a website. I am very active in the TG, Gay and straight community. I volunteer my time to many agencys and I help ts in Chicago get proper hormone care, and co-facilitate a a support group for woman in transition. Ask somebody who has met me in real life, as you are dead wrong about me. So obviously you are a shady ass faggot who just had to jump in my thread to get some shine! "

Not impressed. Heard it all before. Its just bullshit. Just an excuse. If you were sincere you'd get a real job. There is always a place for people with talent in society. You escort. That's toyr choice. You like most (from what I've read) think they are owed something because you got dealt a bad hand. Big f'ing deal. Join the club. Quit running your mouth, do something about your life and lifestyle and then we'll revisit the situation. Until then you're just a taker like every one else.

I don't give a fuck if you are impressed or not. I escort, my man is ok with it and we move on from there. As long as he is kool with it, what you say or think does not make me or break me. My life is what I make of it. Why the fuck do we need to revisit shit? You not my man, not man enough to be my man, do eat mule shit and die

[TsVanessa69]

Why is it so hard to give up escorting (after it pays the bills, surgeries, etc.) instead of trying to find a guy to accept the lifestyle? I would think it would be much easier to make a step up and get out of the biz if a relationship is truly desired. Men are territorial. We dont want other men to have what we treasure just because they have $200 in their pocket and horny.

How about you pay my bills, buy my clothes and feed me yourself. Then I will leave the biz and have a decent realtionship with my man at your expense.

[Legspreader]

I can't fully date an escort or a porn star simply because when we go out in public chances are we might meet some of the clients she's been with which to me would be disturbing. But I can be there for her whenever she needs me.

@TsVanessa: Good luck.

[ANIYAH]

NO YOU ARE NOT UNTILL YOU QUIT