TS Nadia is back for now.

[NYBURBS]

I am now seeking for a new boyfriend. Preferably be a circumcised white male. Age 35-60. Weathy and willing to be upfront and not prudish about my monthly financial needs.

Regards,
Nadia

I feel the same way as Ash from the movie Alien:

"Lambert: You admire it. Ash: I admire its purity. A survivor. Unclouded by conscious, remorse, or delusions of morality. "

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Rofl 10 out of 10 reply right there.

[SarahG]

WHAT DO YOU OFFER A MAN, A PIECE OF ASS? Gimme a fuckin break. If a girl wants you for your money and is that much of a needy high maintenance pathetic soul then your a fool, a sucker, your not a man your her cash machine. Get a job sweets, without a man paying your way in life you would not survive. Fuckin headcase.

I nominate Hostile as HA's ranking welcoming committee member.


Question, Hostile: What if the guy is okay with that arrangement? Depending on the man's lot in life, he might actually see this arrangement as a steal. Nadia's a bright and beautiful woman. Without knowing all the specifics at play here, aren't you being not just a tad judgmental, but also reaching on several fronts?

fuck that, I'm not a fan of Hostile in any way, shape, or form....but he is preaching the gospel in this thread...

how the hell are you going to advertise yourself to the world as looking for someone "wealthy" and not be criticized?

Would it be better if she gave everyone the illusion of having a chance while not being upfront about her expectations in suitor prospects?

You'd think guys would be more pissed off more if after spending time & effort on courting her, they'd find out she knew all a long that they weren't in the running so to speak.

I'm just playing devils advocate here, I haven't said yes or no to dating someone based on their income (even when they were beyond up to the eyeballs in debt).

[Byrdman]

It's a bit more complicated than that.
A few years ago, a Tgirl I was friends with got into some financial trouble. I started helping her out and we dated for a time (well, I guess "dated" is a big word, we all hung out with the same group of friends - just like before - it's just that we would also sleep together).
We never really spoke about our "arrangement", I was just basically paying for her to buy stuff. I guess she felt she had to reciprocate by giving me sexual favours. And since I was young and horny I was happy with it. But I was under no real illusions.
And, in fact, after a while, I started seeing somebody else and we got rather serious.
But here's the weird thing. We stopped having sex and didn't hang out as much and yet I kept basically supporting her for another year or so. I guess it was one of those "financial dependence" types of things, she'd just ask for stuff and I would give it to her.
Was I being foolish? Yes, of course. And I was fortunate that I could pretty much afford it (she wasn't bleeding my dry, I was lucky that I had money). In some fucked up way, maybe supporting her turned me on (though I wasn't turned on by her per se: as I said, I was in another relationship).
Anyway, the "financial relationship" ended when she got a boyfriend and moved to another city. We've kept in touch and she has since transitioned successfully.
Looking back, I don't think I would do anything like that today. I have no qualms about paying for sex, but something like this is, of course, different. Yet I can rather understand why some men would want an arrangement like the one Nadia is suggesting. For a while, it worked for me, even without the sex.

[TsVanessa69]

Transitioning is hard, trust me I know first hand! Then to maintain a roof over your head, and in my case, elaborate stage costumes. I see it from both ends. She does make it look bad for the girls though. But I am happy to say in my case, I got to where I am thru hard work and dedication. I guess I get a greater satisfaction knowing I worked for mine, instead of looking for a handout. But, no matter what people on this forum feel about it, she was honest, no games or bullshit with her and trust me, some guy or guys will be more than willing to be living ATM machines. To each his own I guess.

[dgs925]

Would it be better if she gave everyone the illusion of having a chance while not being upfront about her expectations in suitor prospects?

if all you are looking for is money, you aren't "better" in any light...you are a fucking WHORE, simple and plain...

hey, I'm all for people playing the system, and finding some dumbass mark who is willing to shell out for superficial gain, do you...but don't come crying to the masses when that shit turns sour...do something more with your life than being a leech...

You act like being a WHORE is the worst thing in the world, like it offends you pretty badly. My observations from lurking around here are that there are a lot of really beautiful people posting on this board who could rightfully be called "whores" (a lot of not-so-beautiful people as well, but that's life). Then after some thought, it occurs to me that from a certain perspective we are all whores to some extent or another.

I have to agree that some here should stop being so judgemental. If Nadia wants to enter this kind of relationship and is being upfront about it, let's wish her good luck.

[will802]

well there are people out there who are wealthy enough to afford it and have no problem with it. Nadia is just stating what she is looking for. I see nothing wrong with that.

[Hostile]

If you guys buy into this bullshit then you are not helping the girl your destroying her. If you feed a cat it will never learn to hunt on its own, BUT if you teach it how to hunt, it will never starve . These girls are all fat cats who spend money on coach bags, high priced clothes and shit outta their league. They fail to see that " You could put pearl necklaces and gold chains around a jackass's neck , give it a nose job and colored eyes contacts but underneath all of that it is still a jackass". If you care about the girl force her to work a real job, this escort shit makes them lazy and when the young pretty girl comes around everyone runs to her. Make her earn her money, if there was ever a bad recession these girls would be on the soup line. This girl here needs to get a job, its bad to depend on a man to eat & breath air but she is too lost in her own bullshit to see that. I am with a girl who works a fantastic job she is a productive part of society, she does not need me to eat and survive. Get a job, I work so should you!

[will802]

Hostile do you feel the same way about stay at home moms?

[Hostile]

Stay at home moms raise a family, they don't spend all day at the mall looking for coach bags or new shoes. Taking care of kids is a full time job. Will, your a schmuck if you even dare compare some WHORE TRANNY to a stay at home mom who takes care of kids, finances and the home. Most of these TS girls don't even make their own beds, its all about spending money, clothes, surgeries and new shoes. There is no comparison. You're nuts bro to even ask that.

[Solitary Brother]

Hey at least she is being upfront about it.
If you dont like it keep it movin'.
Honesty is the best policy.
I dont knock girl for wanting a sugardaddy....its an arrangement.
I cant judge these girls and knock them...I honestly cant do it.