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Thread: TS Nadia is back for now.
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07-19-2008 #21
Re: TS Nadia is back for now.
Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS
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07-19-2008 #22Originally Posted by DarkThanos
You'd think guys would be more pissed off more if after spending time & effort on courting her, they'd find out she knew all a long that they weren't in the running so to speak.
I'm just playing devils advocate here, I haven't said yes or no to dating someone based on their income (even when they were beyond up to the eyeballs in debt).
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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07-19-2008 #23
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It's a bit more complicated than that.
A few years ago, a Tgirl I was friends with got into some financial trouble. I started helping her out and we dated for a time (well, I guess "dated" is a big word, we all hung out with the same group of friends - just like before - it's just that we would also sleep together).
We never really spoke about our "arrangement", I was just basically paying for her to buy stuff. I guess she felt she had to reciprocate by giving me sexual favours. And since I was young and horny I was happy with it. But I was under no real illusions.
And, in fact, after a while, I started seeing somebody else and we got rather serious.
But here's the weird thing. We stopped having sex and didn't hang out as much and yet I kept basically supporting her for another year or so. I guess it was one of those "financial dependence" types of things, she'd just ask for stuff and I would give it to her.
Was I being foolish? Yes, of course. And I was fortunate that I could pretty much afford it (she wasn't bleeding my dry, I was lucky that I had money). In some fucked up way, maybe supporting her turned me on (though I wasn't turned on by her per se: as I said, I was in another relationship).
Anyway, the "financial relationship" ended when she got a boyfriend and moved to another city. We've kept in touch and she has since transitioned successfully.
Looking back, I don't think I would do anything like that today. I have no qualms about paying for sex, but something like this is, of course, different. Yet I can rather understand why some men would want an arrangement like the one Nadia is suggesting. For a while, it worked for me, even without the sex.
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07-19-2008 #24
Hmm
Transitioning is hard, trust me I know first hand! Then to maintain a roof over your head, and in my case, elaborate stage costumes. I see it from both ends. She does make it look bad for the girls though. But I am happy to say in my case, I got to where I am thru hard work and dedication. I guess I get a greater satisfaction knowing I worked for mine, instead of looking for a handout. But, no matter what people on this forum feel about it, she was honest, no games or bullshit with her and trust me, some guy or guys will be more than willing to be living ATM machines. To each his own I guess.
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07-19-2008 #25Originally Posted by DarkThanos
I have to agree that some here should stop being so judgemental. If Nadia wants to enter this kind of relationship and is being upfront about it, let's wish her good luck.
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07-19-2008 #26
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well there are people out there who are wealthy enough to afford it and have no problem with it. Nadia is just stating what she is looking for. I see nothing wrong with that.
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07-19-2008 #27
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If you guys buy into this bullshit then you are not helping the girl your destroying her. If you feed a cat it will never learn to hunt on its own, BUT if you teach it how to hunt, it will never starve . These girls are all fat cats who spend money on coach bags, high priced clothes and shit outta their league. They fail to see that " You could put pearl necklaces and gold chains around a jackass's neck , give it a nose job and colored eyes contacts but underneath all of that it is still a jackass". If you care about the girl force her to work a real job, this escort shit makes them lazy and when the young pretty girl comes around everyone runs to her. Make her earn her money, if there was ever a bad recession these girls would be on the soup line. This girl here needs to get a job, its bad to depend on a man to eat & breath air but she is too lost in her own bullshit to see that. I am with a girl who works a fantastic job she is a productive part of society, she does not need me to eat and survive. Get a job, I work so should you!
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07-19-2008 #28
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Hostile do you feel the same way about stay at home moms?
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07-19-2008 #29
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Stay at home moms raise a family, they don't spend all day at the mall looking for coach bags or new shoes. Taking care of kids is a full time job. Will, your a schmuck if you even dare compare some WHORE TRANNY to a stay at home mom who takes care of kids, finances and the home. Most of these TS girls don't even make their own beds, its all about spending money, clothes, surgeries and new shoes. There is no comparison. You're nuts bro to even ask that.
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07-19-2008 #30
Hey at least she is being upfront about it.
If you dont like it keep it movin'.
Honesty is the best policy.
I dont knock girl for wanting a sugardaddy....its an arrangement.
I cant judge these girls and knock them...I honestly cant do it.