Telling someone about my pussy

[peggygee]

I always want folks to be able to put this stuff behind them when they transition but I have to agree with dagee... for right or wrong, this is the stuff that people have very strong reactions too, and secrecy just accelerates that reaction.

Finding out later because of a car accident and some awkward questions as you lay unaware would not be a good thing. If it does turn into a LTR then telling after that could rip it up... not because he objects, but because you kept a significant part of your past from him.

Just saying if his feelings are important to you, you should respect him enough to tell him before hand.

Sean

One can never be certain how they will end up feeling for a person.

You may start off really sprung for someone and that feeling can go away
for whatever reason.

Other times a person may grow on you over time.

But in this case I don't see us going much further than the horiziontal mambo.

[peggygee]

I vote for military policy. He don't ask, don't tell, (Until the status of the relationship is ready to move up a notch).

Just make sure that he passes some kind of mental stress test first. Has he ever seen one of those Maury "man or woman" shows?

I wouldn't tell him

Strictly on a need to know basis, and in this instance he don't need to know.

But if someone had LTR potential I do check them out to see how
potentially transphobic they could be.

[peggygee]

So, no, I won't be telling him the herstory of my poonany

"A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away.........."

And through a black hole.....

[peggygee]

Just out of curiosity,

How old is he peggygee?

Also middle aged.

Though I've opened the books, and the chastisty belt and I might take
on some young bloods.

Those younguns got alot of stamina. :P