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07-08-2008 #11
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Originally Posted by Dina Delicious
on a side note...miss you!
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Originally Posted by StrangeAccentMAn
as for your friend, i lost a few because of who i am. i had to ask myself...were they really my friends, did they really accept me for me? the answer was, of course, no. in the end, they weren't the kind of friends i wanted anyways, you know what i mean?
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Originally Posted by Realgirls4me
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Nice to see you again Eric. I'm sorry you've had to repeat that conversation, but your blessed that your family wants to accept and understand you, and pass that knowledge on to their children.
It says volumes about the quality of the people in your family. And those qualities are what you share with us.
Thanks for posting that.
Alright Then.
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07-08-2008 #15Originally Posted by whatsupwithat
Put aside his close minded views on sexuality.
"I have acquired exquisite taste. That's why."
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Originally Posted by blckhaze
Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS
but, honestly, even if it were true, it's not about that. it's about me being honest with myself and communicating that self to others in a way they can grasp. the community, all of us, would be better off if we could. i think, as someone mentioned before, it would make it easier for the men to come out and for the trans women to be less suspicious of their motives. it might even bring world peace! :P
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Originally Posted by Oli
thank you. i'm very touched by what you wrote. truly. thank you. it means a lot to have support here in the community. maybe there is hope for us yet. maybe?
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Originally Posted by StrangeAccentMAn
much peace to you.
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07-08-2008 #19
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Re: i am tired of explaining
Originally Posted by whatsupwithat
Why do you set yourself up to get wound up by someone else's curiosity?
I think you take yourself way too seriously. Get a girlfriend and find a way to burn some of that pent up angst.
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07-08-2008 #20
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In the past when I became conscious of my attraction to transsexual women (let´s say, at the age of 16), I still considered myself straight. That went on for a couple of years. The reason might have been my fear that people could consider me as a gay man. I grew up in an environment where the term "gay" was used to make fun of people, insult them or to exlude them, which is the most painful action towards a human being.
But with time since I´m more informed and acclimated to the facts of my sexual preferences, I do not burden myself with categorical terms. It´s simply wrong and too bounded to explain. So, considering yourself as a "transsexual" is in fact bounding yourself, E, which you seem to fight! To be honest, this is inconsistent to me. Sexuality is not just the orientation but gender, too. This is were transsexualism finds itself. You´re using this term in the wrong context but I would never insist on convincing you that you´re totally wrong. This brings us again to a point that has been discussed a million times before: everyone should consider himself the way he wants and feels. If you say you´re gay, bi or straight, let it be. I for myself cannot say that I´m straight anymore. I´m just a sexual individual who loves T-girls and GGs and I don´t need to go further into theories. Some people like strawberry ice but not the strawberry in its original form, so do they like strawberry now or not? Makes no sense to discuss about that.
My sister is the only person to know about my desire for transsexual women but she never kept asking me "what I am", probably because I´m still the same Coroner and she still treats me as her "old straight brother".
Cheers and peace man.