My first adventure with a tgirl.....reality bites!!!

[Dinand]

After being a big fan of tgirl movies for some years now, I decided to have my first tgirl adventure in Amsterdam at the red light district last Friday. I got a lot of tips from Peter in the Dutch topic so that helped me a lot.

I saw a pretty nice looking girl in the Bloedstraat. Her name was Alyssa or Alicia or something and she was half Columbian and half from Aruba. She said she was bottom only which was perfect since I wanted to be top only. As I walked in I noticed she spoke very good Dutch, this almost never happened to me with all the girls I visisted in the RLD both in Amsterdam as in The Hague. Anyway, she made me pretty comfortable by her very nice and friendly attitude. I told her this was my first time with so we talked a lot of the whole thing. We talked a lot like 15 minutes and after that I paid her and it was time for the actually sex.

I already had an erection so I had no problem penetrating her but after like 1 minute I got this weird mental block. Like while I was having sex with her I got this voice in my head saying I don't belong here or something. After that I lost wood and it didn't came back no matter what she or I did. It just wasn't gonna happen. I only wanted to do 1 thing and 1 thing only and that was get dressed and leave as soon as soon possible.

So now I'm thinking what happened and there are 3 options in my head.

1. I was very nervous the first time so that's why it didn't go the way I wanted.

2. I only like tgirls virtually but when it comes to actually have sex with them I can't do it, I get this mental block of actually having sex with someone with a penis.

3. Eventhough the girl was very nice and good looking perhaps she wasn't my type after all? Perhaps it could work with another tgirl better.

At this point I'm not sure I'm gonna try it again. I doubt I will. Maybe I should accept that fact that having sex with a tgirl for me is only like this big fantasy but in real life I can't do anything with it! Maybe I should stick with what I know and what I have done so far in my life!

Thank you for listening.

Ferdinand.

[GroobySteven]

Having sex in the red light district of Amsterdam is a bit weird anyway. Your doing it behind a door, in a small room, where people are walking past.
The sex is very sterile and un-spontaneous - if you want the girl to change position, you have to pay more (during sex you have to go to your wallet give her an extra note and then she moves).

It's not the best way to experience it.

There is an escort agency in Amsterdam (can't remember it's name) which specialises in tgirls which may be better - or go to that Ladyboy Cafe (again forgot the name!).

Good luck
seanchai

[polarstar]

The same has happened to me, in other settings. 1 time, all goes well. Next time, lose wood. Doesn't happen with more friendly dates, just with pay-to-play.

All 3 of your explanations above make sense, either by themselves or in combo. I wouldn't get too stressed about it - and there is nothing wrong with a virtual obsession with t-girls.

[Willie Escalade]

Happened to me my first time as well...and I was in a quiet setting. With me it was being nervous. The second time (with the same girl) went a lot better.

[bellamy]

You know it happened to me kinda the same way. I think the big thing for me was that I was paying for it. It was the first time with a tgirl but other times with tgirls that I did not pay went great. So I doubt it was the whole tgirl thing but more being turn of by paying for it.

[saifan]

Sorry to hear about your experience. I experienced my 1st time a little over a week ago and was concerned prior that I might have performance issues. Been into T-girls for most of my adult life so there was no doubt that I wanted to explore that side of my sexuality. Things turned out well and I let myself go and enjoyed it.

I'd go with your gut here. If your mind was saying something is wrong what is to prevent it from happening again? Maybe it is just a fantasy. Either way you can say you did it and not regret trying.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

First timer's jitters..It's nothing. You will come back for the whole enchilada eventually! lol

~Kisses.

HTG

[Nikka]

or go to that Ladyboy Cafe (again forgot the name!).

San Francisco bar

the girl was 100% columbian, half from Aruba? come on... , I met about 3 columbian girls at that San Francisco bar

[kaientai]

i also think it may have been nerves dinand.
And Seanchai might be on to something with the setting i also think you might have to give it a second chance thanks for posting though
see ya

[PeterK]

I don't agree with Seanchai completely, yes some of the girls act the way he describes and some of the rooms are like that.
I had a couple of bad experiences also, saw this beautiful Spanish girl just very very gorgeous but the sex was awful.
I always say read the reviews on hookers.nl
The top lady's are Paula, Paloma (not for the beginner) Dominique, Millie and Melissa.
For Paula men are lining up for that room because she is very good so probaly forget about her.
You have to talk to the girl before you pay, most of the girls agree 50 euro's and for that you can suck them, they suck you, they fuck you or you fuck them. Some of them are very passionate if they like you, for example Melissa loves to kiss. Last time i was with her and we kissed i felt her cock become rockhard, very exciting that was.
A lot of the South American girls love blond Dutch guys so if you are blond you will be lucky.
Also check out Lellebel on thursdaynight, they have salsanight and some off the tgirls who visit the bar get horny at the end and want sex.
Happened to me a couple of times, some of the Asian girls are very hot.