cheating?

[dreamer]

yeah --my girlfriend chats with naked dudes --says they're immature assholes --but still does it ---LIES to me about it --then I catch her lying ---I have a hard time trusting her about anything --

over the time we knew each other --I got the impression that sex means very little to her --she even once proclaimed that she was promiscous and a flirt ---has met several men from the internet and slept with them --some just for grudge sex (to even the score on an ex) --some just to allow a ts experience --

now --we agreed tonight that we shouldn't be together --I dunno ----learning the things over these months has left very little room for trust ---and now --I see her having chat with a dude that clearly wants her --shows her his dick -----

and I am asking myself --if I didn't find this out and get pissed ----would it have continued on? ---would it have gone any further? -----and I am telling myself that YES --it would have ---in fact --she prolly WILL be with this dude --now that we're not together -----I mean after all --sex means little to her -----this is just from observations --and her own admission ----

I even gave her the option ---to stop chatting with men ---or to be with the man she swears she "loves" and here we are ---broken up ----


pretty shitty feeling right now ---but nope --we're done --

[dreamer]

burp

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Good for you. It's her loss not yours! Given how she is with men, you made a wise decision not to be with her. Then again, a lot of ts'es are the same. Sad but true though unfortunately.

~Kisses.

HTG

[scroller]

Honestly, I don't understand people who expect or desire monogamy.

[DirtySouth]

You did the right thing. She needs to respect the boundaries.

[dreamer]

Honestly, I don't understand people who expect or desire monogamy.

expect monogamy? --we said "I love you" --we put rings on each other's fingers ---we used the words commitment --and relationship ---

she's just far too stupid to even care or be aware of my feelings --never did ---her feelings --her way ----what a cold empty shell

I ask her to stop chatting with men --for me --for us ---she says she won't ---

[tsntx]

Honestly, I don't understand people who expect or desire monogamy.

expect monogamy? --we said "I love you" --we put rings on each other's fingers ---we used the words commitment --and relationship ---

she's just far too stupid to even care or be aware of my feelings --never did ---her feelings --her way ----what a cold empty shell

I ask her to stop chatting with men --for me --for us ---she says she won't ---

did u give up HA for her? no. so why should she? arent you the guy that was just talking about how in love u were w/ ur tranny girl like a week ago and how things couldnt be better etc etc? lots can happen in a week i guess... that sux.

[Tomfurbs]

^^

Is masturbation the same as cheating then?

Because most of the couples I know are fairly open about the fact they wank and fancy other people, but they don't go ahead and actually cheat.

[dreamer]

Honestly, I don't understand people who expect or desire monogamy.

expect monogamy? --we said "I love you" --we put rings on each other's fingers ---we used the words commitment --and relationship ---

she's just far too stupid to even care or be aware of my feelings --never did ---her feelings --her way ----what a cold empty shell

I ask her to stop chatting with men --for me --for us ---she says she won't ---

did u give up HA for her? no. so why should she? arent you the guy that was just talking about how in love u were w/ ur tranny girl like a week ago and how things couldnt be better etc etc? lots can happen in a week i guess... that sux.

well no --she never asked me to give up hung angels for her --and if she did --and told me how much it would mean to her ---I would have --no questions asked ---

well --it's funny --cuz now that it all comes down ---I see the whole thing as a phoney ---I never meant anything ---she even TOLD me that I was only supposed to be a fling ----

[dreamer]

^^

Is masturbation the same as cheating then?

Because most of the couples I know are fairly open about the fact they wank and fancy other people, but they don't go ahead and actually cheat.

this dude is practically BEGGING to fuck her --a 3some even he was willing ---and it's more than the internet here ---he lives 20 mins from her ---and the internet is how she meets ALL her lovers ---so yeah ---caution flags ----caution??? ---more like a white "I give up" flag ---