Tips for the first timers going to escort

[themaster]

I have the money and this is my very first time, I had yet to make the call, I wonder if people can give a few tips on making that few moments great(From the phone call/email to the meeting)

[Belgie]

Don't be a dick.
If you call and make an appointment, don't chicken out.
Make sure your phone doesn't block your caller ID, or chances are she won't take your call.
Don't use text messages.


When you get on the phone with her, relax. Don't panic. She's a professional who has probably heard it all before. Open it with something simple. "Hi, I saw your ad, and I'd like to spend an hour in your company. Can you tell me when you'd have time to meet me?"

You can tell her you're a first timer when you see her face to face. If you mention it on the phone, she might assume you'll just chicken out and never go. Many first timers chicken out. Make sure that if you have any special requests, that you discuss them first. How much if she wears a costume? Do you want to be topped? Do you want to top her? Etc... Price can vary by what you want to do, so make sure you're not shy about asking for what you want, and what she's comfortable giving. Some girls don't top.

Make sure you get her address correct, and ask her for directions if you're not sure.

Before you go, take care of some personal grooming. Can't stress that enough. Shower, clean finger nails, brush teeth, check breath, etc...

Relax and be calm.

When you arrive, say hello and get the niceties, it's common to have your donation in an envelope for her. Large bills so it can be counted quickly. Like, if it was 300 dollars, then put in 3 hundreds or 6 fifties. It can kill the moment if she's counting out 200 singles.

Relax and stay calm.

As I said, you can explain that it's your first time, and that you might be nervous, when you get there. If she's a good escort, she'll make your first time special and be patient with you.

Beyond that, I would say simply have fun and try to enjoy yourself.

[farang]

Wash your Cock !!

[BigTSHunter]

Jerk off before you go so you can last longer with her!

[Dinand]

I don't see the point in jerking off before, that's like having a meal at home just before you go out for dinner.

I personally hope to see a tgirl for the first time this or next week, no escort, window in Amsterdam so this thread helps me also in a way.

[IsuckTgirlCock]

Tell her youve been with shemales before. when you get there, let her ask for the cash, let her tell you what to do and ask you what you want to do. i used to pay them extra if they said they couldnt cum, id offer another 150 or 200 and theyd always be able to shoot a nice load. but most can. if u want that, be sure to ask if they are fully functional before you go there also. you want one with balls, some have no balls and its a turn off

[popperluv]

Put the money on the table when you walk in and tell her its her gift. This will avoid any uneasy potentially incriminating conversation.

Also try and find reviews of the girl you are seeing before hand.

Phone manners are your first impression so be nice.

[LibertyHarkness]

Some people like the fact a Tgirl has had her testicles removed.....Depends what the client is looking for really.

If you phone the escort keep the conversation brief and to the point, no asking pointless sexual questions as alot will think your a wanker...as you most likely will have called them from their escort website or advert...so most escort sites have your questions answered.

Also dont bother calling an escort like 2 weeks before a meeting as its just really pointless....Also alot will want you to call them the day of the meet to confirm your on your way and to give you the address if its an incall...

I used to make people call me an hour before the session booked, if they didnt i took that as a no show.

Be polite and respectful on the phone, and as one of the above posters stated personal hygene is essential...So breath mints, washed fully, though when you get there perhaps go wash your bits again...

[melissacarter]

Some people are just dicks and will be dicks with an escort, waitress or anyone else. There seems to be about a 10% dickhead factor. Most others are cool. I always politely tell the prospect to call if he needs to cancel the appointment and by no-show/no-calling he'll be on my bad list and won't get another appointment.

I ask the client to show up:

1. clean
2. sober
3. respectful

That's all they need to be.

[melissacarter]

Don't be a dick.
If you call and make an appointment, don't chicken out.
Make sure your phone doesn't block your caller ID, or chances are she won't take your call.
Don't use text messages.


When you get on the phone with her, relax. Don't panic. She's a professional who has probably heard it all before. Open it with something simple. "Hi, I saw your ad, and I'd like to spend an hour in your company. Can you tell me when you'd have time to meet me?"

You can tell her you're a first timer when you see her face to face. If you mention it on the phone, she might assume you'll just chicken out and never go. Many first timers chicken out. Make sure that if you have any special requests, that you discuss them first. How much if she wears a costume? Do you want to be topped? Do you want to top her? Etc... Price can vary by what you want to do, so make sure you're not shy about asking for what you want, and what she's comfortable giving. Some girls don't top.

Make sure you get her address correct, and ask her for directions if you're not sure.

Before you go, take care of some personal grooming. Can't stress that enough. Shower, clean finger nails, brush teeth, check breath, etc...

Relax and be calm.

When you arrive, say hello and get the niceties, it's common to have your donation in an envelope for her. Large bills so it can be counted quickly. Like, if it was 300 dollars, then put in 3 hundreds or 6 fifties. It can kill the moment if she's counting out 200 singles.

Relax and stay calm.

As I said, you can explain that it's your first time, and that you might be nervous, when you get there. If she's a good escort, she'll make your first time special and be patient with you.

Beyond that, I would say simply have fun and try to enjoy yourself.

Perfectly stated! these guidelines should be on every escort review site. In my three months on the job, I've seen a lot. Two guys (separate occasions) each drove an hour to see me and showed up 100 shy and 150 shy respectively. I politely asked them to leave. I wouldn't take it even though they waved it in front of my face. I felt they were strong-arming me. I'm not a crack ho and not that desperate. One guy showed up so sauced I could smell liquor from two feet away. He too was told to leave.

Here's a funny story: a guy called, booked time and then no-showed/no called. Two weeks later he called again. I have an excellent memory and recognized him immediately by voice and phone number (he tried to be coy and use another name). I told him he would have to wait till I had an opening and finally set the appointment. He showed up, turned out to be a really good-looking well groomed guy and we got into it. In less than two minutes he screamed in pain. Turned out he pulled a hamstring and was so painful he had to stop. He dressed and literally limped out of my home. I actually felt bad for him, but not bad enough to give him a refund.