What do you girls look for in a possible hubby??

[Alyssa87]

ok.. let me take a stab at this.

Let me say that I’m twenty years old.
I’m not really thinking about marriage.
But im feeling emotional and am very bored.

Money? … enough to pay half the bills.
Certain body build? …not obese or frail
Status?…(single?)

Mostly, my ‘thing’ is not being treated as a secret.
We’re gonna spend most of our time outside the bedroom (and each other)
… Yea, I wanna meet friends and family and all that.

I’d like someone in my age group that doesn’t repulse me when I look at him. Dare I say attractive?
Is genuinely kind and attentive. Has real feelings invested and isn’t motivated by a fetish.

Also, I think I will have to have to find a guy who is ok with me being pre-op,
and is also ok with knowing I will one day be post-op. I know this will not be easy to find.

No drugs. Non smoker. STD free. Non violent.
Able to verbalize himself well, without slang. Can make me cum.
& no cheating please!

^Yes, I know that’s slim pickens^
...But a girl can dream...

[Alyssa87]

# 1 Money

# 2 Your Looks

# 3 You not minding when they want to fuck other hot guys.

ok.. im feeling REALLY emotional and really bored...

Warning: I’ll be using this reply as an exacerbated rant. I’ll try to keep the tangents to a minimum.


My ex boyfriend and I were together for 8 months. We broke up 6 weeks ago.
I would have married him if he asked.
He possesed all those aforementioned qualities.

He isn’t comfortable with the idea of me stripping on cam and talking nasty with guys on niteflirt for pay. Mind you, I don’t fault him one bit for this. I wish with all my heart he could see past it, but I respect that he doesn’t. But I want my implants so badly and quickly, I have knowingly sacrificed an amazing guy and relationship.

looks
On our first date, I remember looking at him and not being impressed. But I wasn’t repulsed so I didn’t call it a night prematurely. We sat at the hibachi and juggled light conversation and watching the amazing tricks that the guy cooking in front of us could do. There was no awkwardness or uncomfortable pauses. We soon found out that we had the same show in common(among other things), LOST! He told me had seasons 1 and 2 on DVD. And just like that, we had a second date planned.

He came to my house 2 days later, DVD’s in hand. He respectfully introduced himself to my mom and lil sister. We proceeded upstairs to my room, with the door wide open! We watched as many episodes as we could before he would have felt too tired to drive home. He got a nice kiss goodbye, but no hanky-panky.

My mom and sister soon after berated me with questions about him. Both of them apparently found him more attractive than I did. But soon, his genuineness and brilliant smile won me over, in a big way.

To think… it was that common interest in a TV show that initiated something so great.

I could go on for hours (and paragraphs) about how what we had grew and grew, but I wont.

Money
He doesn’t have much. He’s a counselor at a middle school. He hardly ever gave me cash or brought me extravagant gifts. But we took exciting day trips and had great meals together out of his pocket

fucking other guys
I didn’t even THINK about it. I never even gave out my number to guys or even flirted. I didn’t take rides home from campus from guys I didn’t know. I didn’t even accept friend requests from guys on myspace.
I only wanted him. Even now, thinking about him makes me smile and gives me chills.

hung up?.. like a fucking rotary phone!!
*[edit]
here's a link to a (i think) beautiful poem i wrote about him and us.
(myspace blog)
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...3B8E4F89621952

[rvince]

What I look for in a man is respect, and emotional support, and a guy secure enough in his manhood to be active in my life. Now it sound easy, but its NOT.

A couple weeks ago I followed a talk on that very topic in a group of tgirls. Some where escorting and some were not (and never did).
The main argument of the non-working girls was: These guys do exist, but: 1/ they are not so easy to find indeed but most importantly 2/ those guys don't settle with working girls.

[TomSelis]

# 1 Money

# 2 Your Looks

# 3 You not minding when they want to fuck other hot guys.

ok.. im feeling REALLY emotional and really bored...

Warning: I’ll be using this reply as an exacerbated rant. I’ll try to keep the tangents to a minimum.


My ex boyfriend and I were together for 8 months. We broke up 6 weeks ago.
I would have married him if he asked.
He possesed all those aforementioned qualities.

He isn’t comfortable with the idea of me stripping on cam and talking nasty with guys on niteflirt for pay. Mind you, I don’t fault him one bit for this. I wish with all my heart he could see past it, but I respect that he doesn’t. But I want my implants so badly and quickly, I have knowingly sacrificed an amazing guy and relationship.

looks
On our first date, I remember looking at him and not being impressed. But I wasn’t repulsed so I didn’t call it a night prematurely. We sat at the hibachi and juggled light conversation and watching the amazing tricks that the guy cooking in front of us could do. There was no awkwardness or uncomfortable pauses. We soon found out that we had the same show in common(among other things), LOST! He told me had seasons 1 and 2 on DVD. And just like that, we had a second date planned.

He came to my house 2 days later, DVD’s in hand. He respectfully introduced himself to my mom and lil sister. We proceeded upstairs to my room, with the door wide open! We watched as many episodes as we could before he would have felt too tired to drive home. He got a nice kiss goodbye, but no hanky-panky.

My mom and sister soon after berated me with questions about him. Both of them apparently found him more attractive than I did. But soon, his genuineness and brilliant smile won me over, in a big way.

To think… it was that common interest in a TV show that initiated something so great.

I could go on for hours (and paragraphs) about how what we had grew and grew, but I wont.

Money
He doesn’t have much. He’s a counselor at a middle school. He hardly ever gave me cash or brought me extravagant gifts. But we took exciting day trips and had great meals together out of his pocket

fucking other guys
I didn’t even THINK about it. I never even gave out my number to guys or even flirted. I didn’t take rides home from campus from guys I didn’t know. I didn’t even accept friend requests from guys on myspace.
I only wanted him. Even now, thinking about him makes me smile and gives me chills.

hung up?.. like a fucking rotary phone!!
*[edit]
here's a link to a (i think) beautiful poem i wrote about him and us.
(myspace blog)
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...3B8E4F89621952

Damn, we dated?

[Fox]

ok.. let me take a stab at this.

Let me say that I’m twenty years old.
I’m not really thinking about marriage.
But im feeling emotional and am very bored.

Money? … enough to pay half the bills.
Certain body build? …not obese or frail
Status?…(single?)

Mostly, my ‘thing’ is not being treated as a secret.
We’re gonna spend most of our time outside the bedroom (and each other)
… Yea, I wanna meet friends and family and all that.

I’d like someone in my age group that doesn’t repulse me when I look at him. Dare I say attractive?
Is genuinely kind and attentive. Has real feelings invested and isn’t motivated by a fetish.

Also, I think I will have to have to find a guy who is ok with me being pre-op,
and is also ok with knowing I will one day be post-op. I know this will not be easy to find.

No drugs. Non smoker. STD free. Non violent.
Able to verbalize himself well, without slang. Can make me cum.
& no cheating please!

^Yes, I know that’s slim pickens^
...But a girl can dream...

As ridiculously cheesy and predicatable this sounds... you just described me.

[blckhaze]

ok.. let me take a stab at this.

Let me say that I’m twenty years old.
I’m not really thinking about marriage.
But im feeling emotional and am very bored.

Money? … enough to pay half the bills.
Certain body build? …not obese or frail
Status?…(single?)

Mostly, my ‘thing’ is not being treated as a secret.
We’re gonna spend most of our time outside the bedroom (and each other)
… Yea, I wanna meet friends and family and all that.

I’d like someone in my age group that doesn’t repulse me when I look at him. Dare I say attractive?
Is genuinely kind and attentive. Has real feelings invested and isn’t motivated by a fetish.

Also, I think I will have to have to find a guy who is ok with me being pre-op,
and is also ok with knowing I will one day be post-op. I know this will not be easy to find.

No drugs. Non smoker. STD free. Non violent.
Able to verbalize himself well, without slang. Can make me cum.
& no cheating please!

^Yes, I know that’s slim pickens^
...But a girl can dream...

As ridiculously cheesy and predicatable this sounds... you just described me.

And you know fox, a guy like you will not get a look cause you aint a flashy type a dude. Thats what kills me when I talk with girls, gg and TS.

[ARMANIXXX]

The truth is, and I know it's been said before,

If you are a working girl, no REAL guy with REAL potential as a mate is gonna be cool with his woman fuckin other dudes.

I've never seen a "webcam" working girl, but I'm gonna assume that there'd be some serious problems and restrictions with that too.


I ain't one who's gonna stop anyones hustle, I'm just sayin, if she's fuckin, then you better know that I am too.

And That's real

[trish]

ARMANIXXX says,

I ain't one who's gonna stop anyones hustle, I'm just sayin, if she's fuckin, then you better know that I am too.

And That's real

I'd be cool with that, as long as you're getting paid for it.

[ARMANIXXX]

I ain't one who's gonna stop anyones hustle, I'm just sayin, if she's fuckin, then you better know that I am too.

And That's real

I'd be cool with that, as long as you're getting paid for it.

ARMANIXXX the chocolate Gigalo........



I guess that could work out.

[trish]

mmmmmmmmmmmm chocolate