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05-17-2008 #41
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Yes, lots of interesting comments here.
For the guys who put Danielle down for not wanting guys who visit HA, remember that Danielle is now post-op. If she was looking, it wouldn't be for someone who wants ts with extras. She's a beautiful woman and would be looking for straight guy - makes perfect sense.
Gotta agree with Armani that guys would have a lot of difficulty maintaining a serious relationship with girl who's business is sex. To be truly empathetic, supporting and a partner then it requires openness and understanding. While it's certainly possible to intellectually understand why a girl would wish to maintain income and friends in the sex business it must be impossible to emotionally accept it - unless you only care about the girl's money. Girls can certainly leave the sex business & have relationships but don't expect them to endure a return to escorting.
As for guys, he must be prepared to accept the emotional roller-coaster that sometimes comes with hormone regime changes, must be loving, supportive, faithful and open. He must accept if she decides on SRS and provide her with love and support during the change. He must be prepared to lose friends, colleagues and family members who don't understand his decision. But that isolation is nothing compared to difficulties the girl encounters.
It's a tough relationship to make work and I have enormous admiration for the girls and guys here who have succeeded in maintaining open LTRs.
OK, that's my longest post here. Hopefully some of it resonates!
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05-17-2008 #42
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Originally Posted by Danny partridge
She's been getting paid for so long.
I recently tried to start a relationship with someone who really struck me as awesome for years. I found out she was stripping and I shoulda stopped right there. But she convinced me that she hates what she does and she's really a shy down to earth person with strong morals, and she's just trying to pay her bills. Talking and chatting, she was so sweet. But when we went out, she was an attention hog trying to do the most outandish crazy shit in public, it was embarassing. Her myspace page literally made me sick, because I actually cared about her.
Do what you gotta do and don't live for anyone else, but any guy who can "get past" you making sex your life isn't going to be a worthhile mate in the long run.
"I don't see it that way. I see it as a complete and total betrayal of my testicles!"
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05-17-2008 #43
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I have a question for the girls on here that's been puzzling me...
Most of you include the following two requirements in potential mates:
1. He should not be ashamed of you ("I don't want to be a secret")
2. Guys who are into TSs are creepy ("A man that doesn't read this board or is into transsexuals")
Aren't these two things contradictory and hypocritical? How can you blame him for being sensitive to what his family and friends might think if it even freaks you out?
And my advice for what it's worth (mostly nothing) for any girl who is having trouble finding a nice guy, is to forget the asshole guys hitting on you in the club and go talk to the quiet guy in the corner who's reading a book.
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05-18-2008 #44
Trish, just so it's clear, this is not an assumption. I've dated a fair share of working girls and a lot all the relationships ended over exactly this.
Just because you don't know about it, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist: http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...=asc&start=158
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05-18-2008 #45
I'm just catching up on this, so please bear with me...
A man that doesn't read this board or is into transsexuals... Does that clear it? lol
There are those of us who have the fetish who are not so focused as to treat the women we adore as animals. Rare, yes, non-existent, no.
im a cam girl, and i have knowingly let him go because of it.
You want him to court you and then upon learning that you have a whang and pelotas, want him to embrace them wholeheartedly without a moment's hesitation?
Just as the terms "fag","tranny chaser" or "cock hound" dont effect me because they dont apply to me,
Do I miss the T-clit? You betcha! Am I mad at the gurl for going the full route? No! That's just fucking silly and selfish.
...and if you DON'T try to get her to stop working, you're an uncaring asshole ("How could you care about me if you don't mind if I do this?").
no2 =bullseye
Lastly...
Interesting that there has been no mention of bisexuality/pansexuality or polyamorous relationships. That's where I come from. I'm decidedly bi/pansexual and am comfortable in alternative relationships (Triads, group marriages, etc.). There have been times in my life where I was in plural realtionships (More than one wife/girlfriend/boyfriend) and, so long as the involved parties are in tune to the situation, things get along well.
Though I've long held an interest/fetish in T-gurls, it is only recently (The past three years) that I've been actively involved in friendships, etc. with them (Though I have had passing relationships over the years). I've never hidden them or my interest in them, never treated them as anything other than a friend or lover, and have actually celebrated my friendships with them.
Before you, the gurls, review what it is that you seek in a 'hubby', perhaps you should first review what it is that you have in yourselves.
You are: Conceited, vain, narcissistic, proud, selfish, self-serving, distrustful, jealous, envious, short-tempered, ill-mannered, distrusting, homophobic, and have a shitty self-image.
Now, before you all stab me in the eye with a fork, you are also: Caring, attentive, focused, driven, attractive, sharp-witted, imaginative, passionate, and capable of seeing as definitive goals things that most people can't even dream of.
Someday, that FOG (Fat Old Guy) will sidle up to you at the club and you might, just maybe, see that he could be the one. Lord knows, I've seen enough sadness from the relationships based on hunkiness.
"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth will be a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
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05-18-2008 #46
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05-18-2008 #47
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Trish, just so it's clear, this is not an assumption. I've dated a fair share of working girls and a lot all the relationships ended over exactly this.
"...I no longer believe that people's secrets are defined and communicable, or their feelings full-blown and easy to recognize."_Alice Munro, Chaddeleys and Flemings.
"...the order in creation which you see is that which you have put there, like a string in a maze, so that you shall not lose your way". _Judge Holden, Cormac McCarthy's, BLOOD MERIDIAN.
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05-18-2008 #48
What I look for...
I'd love to marry a man one day. I agree with Vanessa - I look for experience, wisdom, strength - a man who has the courage to marry a tgirl - mature, older than me - the list goes on...
Angel - transsexual model and showgirl seeking friends and contacts
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07-27-2010 #49
Hi, this is my first post here, I just wanted to let all the t-girls out there know that I have the courage to marry a t-girl, and I wouldn't care if she was in the adult entertainment biz cuz I know there's a difference between love and sex, and I want to get into the adult entertainment industry also.
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07-27-2010 #50
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a big fat wallet would help if you want to really marry one ...