Would you date a tgirl escort?

[nevadasmith74]

I have a date with an escort, not a professional appointment, rather a personal one. I was looking for people's opinion on whether this could work out if she were or were not to give up working. If things work out and we end up as a couple there is no way I could deal with my GF fucking several other guys a day for money. Not sure if I could even deal with her past if she were to give up working. She is a stunningly beautiful woman, intelligent and sweet from our conversation. Has anyone else been in this situation? Was there just too much baggage to make it work?

Thoughts comments?

[happychris]

If you cannot deal with her profession, then why bother?

[62des]

Only if she alllowed me to have sex with other escorts. She won't be the only one having sex with others.

[nevadasmith74]

If you cannot deal with her profession, then why bother?

The reason I am bothering is that I want a true relationship with a tgirl so I am willing to try even with her chosen profession.

[nevadasmith74]

Only if she alllowed me to have sex with other escorts. She won't be the only one having sex with others.

I think that is definitely where the rubber hits the road, I doubt she would be too happy with that demand, but would justify doing it herself.

Would be a funny concept though she would get paid the money in and you would turn around and pay it to another escort leaving the couple in the same position as before, just an amusing thought

[sana_ne]

Absolutely. It's her profession. Why even ask this question?

My issue is finding such a girl in Minnesota. You can understand their hesitation about a personal relationship.

[nevadasmith74]

My problem is her profession. Would you like your wife having sex with someone while you are in the office? Would that not play on your mind?

After all seal clubber and drug dealer are also professions but would someone want to date one?

[peggygee]

I have a date with an escort, not a professional appointment, rather a personal one. I was looking for people's opinion on whether this could work out if she were or were not to give up working. If things work out and we end up as a couple there is no way I could deal with my GF fucking several other guys a day for money. Not sure if I could even deal with her past if she were to give up working. She is a stunningly beautiful woman, intelligent and sweet from our conversation. Has anyone else been in this situation? Was there just too much baggage to make it work?

Thoughts comments?

I have a few thoughts:

1. At this point, you have a 'date'with her, you two are a long way away
from a relationship. There are many other things that could crop up
before you two become an item.

2. For some women there can be emotional scars left from working
as an escort. There may be trust, fear of intimacy issues, etc..

3. Financially she may not be willing or able to give up escorting. She may
need or want the money that it provides. She may genuinely enjoy the
work that she does. Or she may not have other marketable skills that she
can fall back on.

Bottom line escorts need love too, but you two may have a rough row to hoe.

[dan_drade]

Ok, so I'll put in my 2 cents here. I have not been posting much as of late. I've just been a little too busy.
However, as far as dating a working girl, I don't really see a problem with that. There are lots of working girls that are just as nice as anyone else. It may be a little tougher to date an escort than it is to date a girl that is not an escort. But if you don't at least try dating her for a little while you might find that you are missing out on a very nice relationship. I have never dated a girl that was actively escorting, but I did date a girl that was an escort at one point in her life. She is probably the most level headed and sweet girls that I have ever dated. So IMHO I would say go for it. It's not like you have anything to lose from going on a date or two. And who knows, she just might be a great girl.
Although as Peggy say's, you might have a tough row to hoe.... Or is that a tough hoe to row. LOL

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

Ask yourself this:

WOULD YOU EVEN CONSIDER HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FEMALE PROSTITUTE?

If the answer is NO, then why are you considering having a relationship with a ts prostitute?

Do std's and hiv not scare you at all either?

I presume youd want unprotected sex with your 'girlfriend'. How some of you could sit there behind a computer screen and say youd be willing to date a prostitute because 'its her job' is quite pathetic really.

Sorry lads, didnt you learn anything whilst growing up? Do you not realise the emotional state of prostitutes either?

The longer theyve been prostituting and on the game, the more they will have to try to seperate their soul from their body, the more of a closed person they become and harder it is to have a relationship with them anyway, even if you could look past the fact they are selling their body for money everyday.

To put it simple...other guys are treating your girl as a piece of meat, they are paying her to cum inside her arse or over her tits, you think you can deal with this?

Would you do it with a female prostitute? NO, so why do it with a ts prostitute or a male prostitute?

Find a ts who isnt a prostitute or porn girl.

Why the hell would you want to date a girl who is a prostitute? I simply cant understand that one.

You asked for advice, the advice im giving is to be v cautious, maybe have a fling with her and then leave her, or just be friends. Either way, shes a prostitute mate, shes not exactly the one to start making demands is she???

Just one last thing. I know and have met several girls from this board in real life, they dont know i post here nor do i even know im into ts. Ive also had quite a few sexual encounters with ts (non paid). Let me tell you this my friend, in terms of real practical advice in the real world, you need to avoid havinga relationship with this girl

There are girls on this board and im not going to name drop who have some serious drug problems. The whole 'lavish life of the escort' is a complete myth. In reality prostitution is selling ones soul, the drugs are there because of the crowd they get mixed up in. Its a pathetic waste of life.

In the end youll do what you want to do and no one will change your mind, but be cautious.