Brother found my escort site

[bob69]

My two cents:
Try to take the high road. If your brother and some family members choose to be jerks about this that is their choice. Do not let them drag you down in the mud. I have had a long feud with my father for almost two years and I must say that the extra stress is a heavy burden. My circumstances are different than yours, but I am glad that I eventually decided that it didn't matter who was right or wrong and that we patched things up. Family is family and having them on your side helps. That being said, consider that some of them might feel betrayed by your choices and lifestyle. They might even think that this is something horrible that is happening to them. Try to be the adult in this matter and to get them to realize that you are the same person you were before.. good and bad. I would expect that some of them might take quite some time to adjust... be patient as this is a blessing in disguise... you can finally be who you are around your family and eventually they will learn to deal. As for your brother... t might be the sibling rivalry or he might just need to knock you down a few pegs to feel better about himself and his choices. He might be secretly frustrated and unhappy about his life. As long as you are happy with your choices everything else will eventually fall into place if you are patient. Besides, skipping a few of those family events might be a good thing. Your older brother sounds like he is on the right track and I am sure that he will attempt to get the others to see his point of view. Family is difficult in general and even more so when there are things that are outside the norm. You hang in there and just don't say anything you might regret.

[melissacarter]

Melissa:

I think this turns out to be a blessing as you are "out of the closet" so to speak. It also gives you the opportunity to find out who really cares for you.

Good luck!

Thank you but I've been out for a long time now. The only new thing for my family is that now they know how I pay my rent.

[melissacarter]

My two cents:
Try to take the high road. If your brother and some family members choose to be jerks about this that is their choice. Do not let them drag you down in the mud. I have had a long feud with my father for almost two years and I must say that the extra stress is a heavy burden. My circumstances are different than yours, but I am glad that I eventually decided that it didn't matter who was right or wrong and that we patched things up. Family is family and having them on your side helps. That being said, consider that some of them might feel betrayed by your choices and lifestyle. They might even think that this is something horrible that is happening to them. Try to be the adult in this matter and to get them to realize that you are the same person you were before.. good and bad. I would expect that some of them might take quite some time to adjust... be patient as this is a blessing in disguise... you can finally be who you are around your family and eventually they will learn to deal. As for your brother... t might be the sibling rivalry or he might just need to knock you down a few pegs to feel better about himself and his choices. He might be secretly frustrated and unhappy about his life. As long as you are happy with your choices everything else will eventually fall into place if you are patient. Besides, skipping a few of those family events might be a good thing. Your older brother sounds like he is on the right track and I am sure that he will attempt to get the others to see his point of view. Family is difficult in general and even more so when there are things that are outside the norm. You hang in there and just don't say anything you might regret.

Outstanding response. Thank you so much.

[melissacarter]

If anyone says, 'I love God,' yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen (1 John 4:20).

sometimes you have to fight fire with fire

FK

Aren't you the tranny that said I look like Mick Jagger?

http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...r=asc&start=30

[Felicia Katt]

If anyone says, 'I love God,' yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen (1 John 4:20).

sometimes you have to fight fire with fire

FK

Aren't you the tranny that said I look like Mick Jagger?

http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...r=asc&start=30

I'm the one who pointed out you were hurling bricks at other girls from your own glass house, yes. That doesn't mean I can't still offer you a brick to throw back at your hypocritical brother in his stained glass one.

FK

[melissacarter]

Aren't you the tranny that said I look like Mick Jagger?

http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...r=asc&start=30

I'm the one who pointed out you were hurling bricks at other girls from your own glass house, yes. That doesn't mean I can't still offer you a brick to throw back at your hypocritical brother in his stained glass one.

FK

I don't throw bricks I speak my mind. On this board the norm appears to be attack people personally instead of debating respectfully. Re-read my statements, they were never directed at anyone personally. Reader comprehension is an acquired skill.

[rawrr]

Well if that happened to me I would personally go to my little brother and kick the shit out of him for being such a prick. Also just tell your family that he likes TGirls as well lol.

P.S. You don't have to take this post seriously.

[Felicia Katt]

I don't throw bricks I speak my mind. On this board the norm appears to be attack people personally instead of debating respectfully. Re-read my statements, they were never directed at anyone personally. Reader comprehension is an acquired skill.

You spoke your mind but you sure didn't mind your speech. and we did. What you effectively said was that no tall person should ever transition, or could ever look good or be passable. Maybe you didn't identify the tall people by name, but that kind of generally insulting statement doesn't have to be personalized. I wasn't the only one who took notice and offense to it. And the heat you took for trying to build yourself up by tearing others down was the exact response your cold comments deserved.

You did look like Mick Jagger in that picture.
and people thought I looked like Jeri Hall in this one. she's tall too.
But I never would have said a thing either way if you had been in any way respectful or contrite. And I never would have bothered to offer any kind of support for your present situation if I thought you were going to exhume and try to rewrite the past the way you did.

can you read and comprehend that?

FK

[punkox]

CAT FIGHT!!!!!

[2754tim]

No Cat Fights,Be Nice.Melissa check this out.In 2001-2002 I was living at
an apt at my brother's house with his doucebag wife.Upon moving in she told my brother that I couldn' smoke in the house (fuck you) have any firearms in
the house (fuck you,I was working Contract Security down the Coast Guard
Base,making great $$$).She is the nosiest woman in the world.I never bothered her.I don't drink,do drugs(more on that later)pay my rent,and mind my own business.
At the time I had a couple of Transexual Affiliate porn sites going which where going real well.Lot of checks in the box.
Some idiot hits me with a forklift down the Coast Guard Base,rips my knee and a few other things to shreds.
I'm at home,2 surgeries,all Perc'ed out of my mind.My wimp brother comes up stairs and says,Jenn doesn't feel comfortable with you taking Percocet and
Xanax while you have firearms ."Me:"How Does She Know What I'm Taking?" Him:"I...Uhhhh.Welllll'''"
Me:"She comes in here again I'm calling the cops."

Few months later I move out forward my mail,a few sneek through and stay at the old adddress.I get a call from my wimp,pussy brother."I gotta
talk to you." "Ok,pick me up" He comes over,picks me up,we go to a Dunkin Donuts,get coffee have some seats.
Him:"Do You Know What You Caused?"
Me:"What Did I Cause?"
Him"Running Transexual Porn Sites Out Of The House."
Me"How Do You Know That?'
Him"Jenn Opened An Envelope By Accident,She's Calling The FBI."
Me"No,Jenn Is A Nosy Pshycotic Douchebag Who Opened It On Purpose.
They're Snapchecks,I'm Missing A Few.I'm Going To The The Postal Police
And Postal Inspectors Tomm,We'll Let A Judge Decide.I Want My Money
I Did Nothing Illegal,And It's None Of Her Or Your Fucking Business.BTW,
Before You Got Your Life All Straightened Out.Why Don't You Tell Her About When You And Gizelle (TGirl heroin addict) used to run around the Combat Zone shooting dope...and more?And how come "Jenn" didn't come
tonite?Him"She's scared of you." She fucking should be,cunt.
She had opened up an affiliate check I got in the mail,the type you have to snap to open,no mistaking the name,they usually say ABC Industries.This one said something like,"Shemale DoubleDick Productions.
She's a geek and started her own little investigation.I called a friend of mine who works for the Postal Police and he said,"People open other people's mail by accident all the time,it's called an accident,the fact that she started conducting her own little investigation via information contained in the envelope brings it to a felony and an indictable offense."
I called my dickhead brother and said I got no problem going to court,so if you want to get it on go ahead and tell your cunt wife that.
Douchebag.Your uncle asking you out for a date.Families Suck.Keep your head high.