A Dating Problem

[djlunitik]

Hey ,

Well i live in Israel and 90% of my encounters with t-girls were here in Israel some were in usa and some in brazil but mostly in Israel where i live .
i allways wanted to date a t-girl but everytime i met a t-girl in israel all she wanted was sex and thats it . they all work in escort services and are not interested in boy friends or any kind of relationship ... well most of them at least.
well some men might say "dude sex and then go home thats great" well it might be true but if u have fun with a partner and u also enjoy talking with her and it seems like there is a future why not ?
well i am deeply disapointed from the situation i found my self into.
if you got any tips or advice how to get out of it ?

i was wondering is it also in the us ?

[yodajazz]

I thought about your situation and wanted to respond. My advice is to go where they hang out, but concentrate on being friends and hold back on the sex. You have experienced being the boy part, now try the friend part in order to be a true ‘boyfriend’. I think a lot of men make the mistake of going after whoever will give them the first one night stand. But many times the girl is just doing it for a thrill. Meanwhile the other girls see who the man leaves with and thinks, “I don’t want so and so’s rejects.” If you could be strong enough to meet someone and say that you don’t want to jump into bed because you have been hurt in the past, I believe that ones who really want more will stay interested. Plus other girls will get wind that you are not just out for a conquest or one night stand. The longer you can hold out from sex, more women will be curious and you may end up with the prize, or being the prize.

[justatransgirl]

Yeah sweetie, we've heard your story a hundred times here. There are T-girls who don't escort - but finding them is like a needle in a haystack - if you go looking for one you will never find it.

And it seems to me that a man who is specifically seeking "love" with a TS is really looking for something else. Otherwise why limit yourself. If you meet a GG you like, great, if she happens to have a dick, so what, but if it's the dick you seek - then you might have to pay.

I spoke to a nice guy just today who was saying nearly the same thing. He'd never hired an escort, and just wanted a friend. But he said he couldn't let his friends or family know he was dating a TS girl.

And that's the problem. It shows in the forums, you guys often want a free girl friend, but you don't want to make the commitment. That's called "using." Some girls have low self esteem and will let themselves be used. I don't, that's why if you ride my train you have to buy a ticket.

Love is great, but it doesn't hurt for a girl to love a rich guy. And the fact is rich guys in general don't date transgirls - at least not publicly. So why should a girl starve with a poor guy when she can make 6 figures and not have to deal with his BS.

Just some food for thought. Hope your dream girl comes along for you dear - and if you are even in San Diego will a couple of hundred bucks come see me.

Giggle,
TS Jamie

[young4ts]

Hey ,

Well i live in Israel and 90% of my encounters with t-girls were here in Israel some were in usa and some in brazil but mostly in Israel where i live .
i allways wanted to date a t-girl but everytime i met a t-girl in israel all she wanted was sex and thats it . they all work in escort services and are not interested in boy friends or any kind of relationship ... well most of them at least.
well some men might say "dude sex and then go home thats great" well it might be true but if u have fun with a partner and u also enjoy talking with her and it seems like there is a future why not ?
well i am deeply disapointed from the situation i found my self into.
if you got any tips or advice how to get out of it ?

i was wondering is it also in the us ?

isn't transsexualism against jewish law

[KiraHarden]

Yeah sweetie, we've heard your story a hundred times here. There are T-girls who don't escort - but finding them is like a needle in a haystack - if you go looking for one you will never find it.

And it seems to me that a man who is specifically seeking "love" with a TS is really looking for something else. Otherwise why limit yourself. If you meet a GG you like, great, if she happens to have a dick, so what, but if it's the dick you seek - then you might have to pay.

I spoke to a nice guy just today who was saying nearly the same thing. He'd never hired an escort, and just wanted a friend. But he said he couldn't let his friends or family know he was dating a TS girl.

And that's the problem. It shows in the forums, you guys often want a free girl friend, but you don't want to make the commitment. That's called "using." Some girls have low self esteem and will let themselves be used. I don't, that's why if you ride my train you have to buy a ticket.

Love is great, but it doesn't hurt for a girl to love a rich guy. And the fact is rich guys in general don't date transgirls - at least not publicly. So why should a girl starve with a poor guy when she can make 6 figures and not have to deal with his BS.

Just some food for thought. Hope your dream girl comes along for you dear - and if you are even in San Diego will a couple of hundred bucks come see me.

Giggle,
TS Jamie

I concur 100%

[djlunitik]

Yeah sweetie, we've heard your story a hundred times here. There are T-girls who don't escort - but finding them is like a needle in a haystack - if you go looking for one you will never find it.

And it seems to me that a man who is specifically seeking "love" with a TS is really looking for something else. Otherwise why limit yourself. If you meet a GG you like, great, if she happens to have a dick, so what, but if it's the dick you seek - then you might have to pay.

I spoke to a nice guy just today who was saying nearly the same thing. He'd never hired an escort, and just wanted a friend. But he said he couldn't let his friends or family know he was dating a TS girl.

And that's the problem. It shows in the forums, you guys often want a free girl friend, but you don't want to make the commitment. That's called "using." Some girls have low self esteem and will let themselves be used. I don't, that's why if you ride my train you have to buy a ticket.

Love is great, but it doesn't hurt for a girl to love a rich guy. And the fact is rich guys in general don't date transgirls - at least not publicly. So why should a girl starve with a poor guy when she can make 6 figures and not have to deal with his BS.

Just some food for thought. Hope your dream girl comes along for you dear - and if you are even in San Diego will a couple of hundred bucks come see me.

Giggle,
TS Jamie

well i never had a problem introducing her to my family and the fact that i am far from being broke is also a problem for me.
my biggest problem is the willingness of a t girl to commit , and why does everything have to involve money in it?
donno maybe i should try my luck outside the states of israel where everything has much more logic/sanity in it

[Silcc69]

Hey ,

Well i live in Israel and 90% of my encounters with t-girls were here in Israel some were in usa and some in brazil but mostly in Israel where i live .
i allways wanted to date a t-girl but everytime i met a t-girl in israel all she wanted was sex and thats it . they all work in escort services and are not interested in boy friends or any kind of relationship ... well most of them at least.
well some men might say "dude sex and then go home thats great" well it might be true but if u have fun with a partner and u also enjoy talking with her and it seems like there is a future why not ?
well i am deeply disapointed from the situation i found my self into.
if you got any tips or advice how to get out of it ?

i was wondering is it also in the us ?

isn't transsexualism against jewish law

I dont think so they aren't exactly like the other Middle Eastern Countries.

[Alyssa87]

jamie really hit the nail!
the secret ts girlfriend thing was okay in highschool.
but the girls grow up and get wise.

i think the realization that you cant really find a guy who will be with you 100%- not just in the bed is a huge factor in beginning to work ads. if theyre gonna use you for sex, get something out of it.

even if this isnt you, realize that these girls have probally heard this dozens of times...only to get played