Question about escorts & time...

[slinky]

I really don't like to be a clock watcher. But I was running into problems where 1 hour dates were running 1.5-2 hours, on me and that's not fair.

I know you like TER, but the single biggest downside to the review sites (from the girl's perspective) is that now you've got "celebrity reviewers" (and a lot who think they are). Girls are so afraid of being labeled as "clock watchers" (which guys always interpret as shorting them time) that they let guys get away with some BS.

I did an informal survey of "internet touring" GG working girls about a year ago: The first question was "When a guy books an hour with you, how long does he usually expect to stay?". The overwhelming answer was "an hour" (duh). But the follow up question was "When a big board poster' books an hour with you, how long does he expect to stay?", you'd be shocked at how many girls said "An hour and a half to two hours".

[kaientai]

got to agree with what sweet cherri said. She is exactly what i look for in a paid date. unfortunatly she is probably 1 out of 10 in that respect.

[BeardedOne]

Good posts from both sides of the field.

I'm one of those management types that wants the time promised for the fee paid. If I pay for two hours (And I typically do, because I like to get to know the gurl a bit), I expect two hours. Within reason of course, as I understand she may have another appointment afterwards and would be considerate of her needing a bit of a buffer period between guests.

On the other hand, I have a tendency to 'pop' quickly if I am with someone new and, as I date so rarely these daze, everyone is 'new' to me. If I got the bada-bing-bada-bang-seeya-wouldn't-wanna-beya treatment right after the fireworks, and had an hour and a half of time left on the clock, you can bet I'd be a bit torqued about it.

I've been fortunate that the gurls I've been with were both nice and professional, with 'professional' not only representing what they do for money but that they do it =well=. In each case they were patient, unhurried, polite, and didn't give me the bum's rush after the pop. In fact, one was actually surprised that I wasn't halfway dressed and out of the room already, as that is the experience she has had with many of her clients. "They pop a nut and suddenly don't want to talk anymore" she said with a shrug. She seemed puzzled that I wanted to hang out with her.

As was said above, your mileage may vary. If a gurl likes you and has an open slate, she may let you slip into overtime a bit. If she's booked solid, you can expect a little toe-tapping and fidgeting when Mickey's big hand gets closer to the twelve.

As for the gurl you are planning to see, discuss what you can beforehand and clarify it at the door. She needn't worry about discussing sex for money if all you're trying to do is ascertain that if you're paying for two hours, you expect to be with her for two hours. If it's anything like my times, you're not going to be getting to much heavy sport in the first hour anyway.

Good luck and report back.

[BiancaStJames]

I offer mulitiiple pops but my rate does go up for that..

Not all girls offer that tho... different policy's for everyone

[sucka4chix]

2points:
1st- no matter what any girl here might think EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT! (seems I say this over and over in every thread). There is no single thought process for every t-girl. Not every girl uses the same code. I have a friend in O-town who gave a guy a refund because she just wasn't feeling him. I know girls in the ATL who want $$ if you go to their apartment and don't want to follow thru because it's a pig sty.
I had a fave from the ATL who I used to pay for an hour and stay til whenever! They're all different. Ask what you want to know--- even if you don't get the question answered, you gain insight from how they handle it!

2nd- as mentioned DONT PAY FOR TWO HOURS! Good grief, an hour is usually way too long! But if you happen into an extra hour, pay for it then. I think paying for 2 hrs up front for someone you've never met is foolish.

[BeardedOne]

2nd- as mentioned DONT PAY FOR TWO HOURS! Good grief, an hour is usually way too long! But if you happen into an extra hour, pay for it then. I think paying for 2 hrs up front for someone you've never met is foolish.

I agree with this to a point. In my case I already have a handle on who I'm meeting in advance. I tend to 'meet' them online through forums and chat and work my way up to the date. Because I travel, as do they, a lot is subject to schedule and geography. For each one I've had the pleasure to meet in person, there's a number that just didn't click on those counts.

I've done the one-hour thing and it just doesn't work for me. In fact, the gurl with whom I only spent that single hour wound up being a day-long adventure the next time I got to see her. Perhaps the single hour is good for a test-drive.

[tstv_lover]

Thanks for the interesting and informative posts here. Let me add my $0.02 worth.

I've only paid for 3 girls.

1st time was all rather rushed, not sure I was doing the right thing, not particularly comfortable - pop and go time.

2nd was with a wonderful girl who took time (didn't check the clock but certainly over 90 mins). I met her again a few times and we talked about her family, politics, etc, etc and had amazing sex. Always only charged for 1 hour but usually spent 2-3. Sadly she disappeared from the scene.

3rd time was with 2 girls on business trip. Didn't feel right from the start and found a credit card stolen when they left the hotel. I pulled on clothes, rushed out and demanded the card back - which they reluctantly provided.

Moral of the story? Find someone who you get on well with and stick with her.

[tstv_lover]

I should add that having a LTR with tgirl is 100 times better than paying for it, but recognise that not possible for all and is a completely different topic!

[slinky]

it is the TIME that he is paying for NOT sex. If you are charging him for sex YOU ARE A WHORE plain and simple and I hope you are proud of that. Personally I do not nor have I ever negotiated sex for money, sex is a bonus during a session with an exotic entertainer and if you are clearly looking to just buy sex than go to a prostitute and grab that shit for like $20...

GMAFB.

[2754tim]

Try and see the same girl,"become a regular".Less bullshit,tension,you'll
get to know each other. Physically and emotionally,you want to feel comfortable with her and vice versa. You get what you pay for. Go cheap
and for the most part you'll get cheap. Check The Erotic Review and Shemale
Escort Review. Go in the Chat Room and ask. Two hours? I wouldn't,but hey
knock yourself out. Give the girl a tip,buy her a gift once and awhile.
What goes around comes around.Refunds? You aren't serious. Like JWB said
YMMV.Some guys love certain women who other guys won't go near.
Be a gentleman,be safe and have some fun