Results 31 to 40 of 173
-
02-24-2008 #31
[quote="melissacarter"][quote="Nicole Dupree"]
Originally Posted by melissacarter
i think you should be more respectful of others.
please do some reading.
there are many types of transsexualism.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transsexual
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_dysphoria
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_reassignment_therapy
Most transsexuals assert that their brain-based inner perception of their sexual self, their identity, is who they really are, and so change their physical sex in an effort to be on the outside as they feel they are on the inside. If untreated, it can lead to mental and emotional problems, and sometimes suicide.
to some people this is a matter of life or death
and please dont be so arrogant because you dont look as hot and as passable as you might think
in this pic i see a tiny middle aged guy that just shaved his body and painted his lips.
you are coming across as "our friendly neighborhood stupid crossdresser" instead of "our friendly neighborhood fascist TS"
cheers
1 out of 1 members liked this post.
-
02-24-2008 #32
What makes us transsexual is in our brains is so very true. But it would be foolish to deny that their is an element of choice in our lifestyle. How many people have what we have and do not ever act on it? Their is no way to know for sure.
It also seems to me that some sensitive nerves have been touched here. Us HHA's all look pretty damm good. Be we tall and statuesque or just average. I think the original poster had something more like this in mind.
That is at least half of the Ts world.
-
02-24-2008 #33
- Join Date
- Oct 2005
- Location
- not here
- Posts
- 7,128
Re: Why do some tgirls who are obviously way too masculine..
Originally Posted by josue
wanna see what i'm up to this week?
http://www.youtube.com/tsntx
http://www.gayborhood.tv/shows.cfm?view=2
-
02-24-2008 #34
- Join Date
- Nov 2004
- Posts
- 390
Some need to seek attention for delusions of grander. Who is anyone to judge, much less another trannie who is and who is not qualified to be what they are?
Have known and see some beautiful passable trannies, from club door persons, to those swanning down a NYC street like Naomi Cambell get called "a man" or hear "that's a guy" , so obviously the old adage about not fooling all of the people all of the time still rings true.
Have passed a good part of my life as a "woman" for whatever that means, and am here to tell you, most of the straight community, and indeed the gay as well considers all trannies "sick" and borderline if not actual freaks. Yes the more manly girls may be called "men in dresses", but have heard beautiful ones called "men with tits", so by no means believe just because you look "fish" or "cunty" that you are going to get a free pass. If some people had their way, we'd ALL be round up and at best locked away, at worst shot. That includes the more gorgeous ones as well. When ENDA was being debated, didn't hear anyone say "oh let's give the passable trannies rights, but not the TVs or men in dresses". Fact is they kept out ALL trannies, weather you looked like J-LO or Godzilla in a dress. That should show you just how far being "pretty" gets you.
In fact some consider the more passable girls a larger threat just as those considered light skinned blacks who passed back in the day a treat. Because they can slip by normal precautions, the passable girls can seduce "innocent" men and boys into relationships they'd otherwise avoid. I mean isn't that the argument many have made after a poor girl was found beaten and or killed?
-
02-24-2008 #35
Is it just me....
when you talk about leaving behind a vacant building, make sure its not a glass house.
FK
-
02-24-2008 #36
- Join Date
- May 2007
- Posts
- 2,261
Re: Why do some tgirls who are obviously way too masculine..
Originally Posted by josue
That's like saying the only guy who looks good is 300 lbs and rides a harley with bugs in his beard.
So here - go tell this honey she doesn't pass.
Giggle,
TS Jamie
-
02-24-2008 #37
- Join Date
- May 2007
- Posts
- 2,261
Originally Posted by Shining Star
I wonder why it is that I almost never get dissed on the street? Is it because I live in CA and not NYC? I'm not the most passable kid on the block, but I find that NOBODY CARES.
The only people who are freaked out by me are my neighbors at my beach house in Orange County. The only ones that have spoken to me since I transitioned is a Mormon couple across the alley and a friend in the next block.
Yet last night (in San Diego) Jessica and I spent the evening hanging out in our jacuzzi with our next door neighbors and other friends in our complex. Most know we are trans, AND lesbians, but we've lived here for 3 years and nobody has ever even mentioned the subject.
I really think it's in your attitude and how you relate to others as a TS.
I don't know, maybe I'm just old.
Giggle,
TS Jamie
-
02-24-2008 #38
I think we as a community worry too much about passing.
Less about being happy!
My official Adult Blog
http://www.kellypierceblog.com
My Official Blog for my TS Sisters
http://www.secretkelly.com
My official Cam Site
http://www.kellysdreamhouse.com
-
02-24-2008 #39
- Join Date
- Nov 2004
- Posts
- 390
Originally Posted by justatransgirl
There are times you really feel sorry for some girls, I mean here they are walking down the street, or doing a bit of shopping, trying to get from here to there, and some idiot yells out "that's a man". Strange enough it seems the Blk and Latino men are famous for it here. Have seen girls, (and I won't lie, myself included), cross the street and or turn around and walk the otherway to avoid a group of young blk guys for fear of being shouted at.
Used to live in an area that was trannie central, and when-ever any of the local trannies would enter the supermarket, the boys who worked there would start going off. Most of these guys are Domican or Mexican, and at first sight thought the girls were gorgeous, then they began to put two and two together. Worse someone got wind many of the same girls had ads in back of the Village Voice, so guys could compare pictures to the actual person. My Spanish is not fluent, but over heard and understood enough to know the comments were NOT flattering.
My previous post was not meant to be overly harsh, but this debate has been going on for ages. Working girls versus non-working girls, passable versus non-passable, drag queens versus "true" (whatever that means these days), transgender, and so forth.
Again the bottom line is while being totally passable and beautiful helps one get over in society, one must remember that all is based upon people taking what they see at face value. If anyone doubts this theory, one only has to examine the usual same horrified reaction when one tells a guy the "T", and he truly believed one was a GG. Yes, some do stick around, but the relationship is rarely the same.
Personally one at times quite envys non-passing trannies. At least those whom are attracted to them know what they are getting at first and willing to be with them under those terms. Unlike these chasers out there who want a trannie that looks like a Playboy centerfold, but packs ten inches or more, fully functional.
-
02-24-2008 #40
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and when all is said and done, we must all be beholden to ourselves first and foremost.
I cannot imagine what life would be like living my life as a female born in a man's body, let alone the self questioning and feelings of helplessness that I assume goes along with these feelings somewhere along the way.
I personally am not sure if I would have the internal fortitude / guts that I believe is necessary to first, face and accept the situation created by these internal feelings, let alone make a decision to actually do something about it and transition.
In my limited experience, I have to believe that the decision to transition is one that while difficult to reach, once made is done so with guts, determination and a desire to be true to onesself. Who in their right mind would subject themselves to the crap these ladies go through unless someone deep inside had to be free and brought to life anew.
If the girl within choses to live and be who she is, it should be of no concern to anyone but herself of how the flower ultimatly opens. We are all entitled to our opinions, however common sense, respect of the individual and good manners dictate that we should sometimes keep our opinions of others to ourselves, as the sharing of same can and will, only hurt and not help.
Before You Attempt to Beat the Odds, Be Sure You Could Survive The Odds Beating You.