The Girl I Met

[supertrack9999]

I do agree with Nadia on this one from experiences in the past with girls.

[TomSelis]

P.S.- Instead of going off on some tangent and trying to make me look like some evil villian for being truthful, why don't you try answering dude's question honestly?

I didnt call you a villian, I started the whole thing with saying I don't know who you are.

Anyway you gave the guy bad advice by saying, to the effect, if you start as a client you can not really date.

That sounds very holier than thou to me if you mean your too good for it. My advice is to put all the cards on the table. Don't be a prude about money.

You keep putting words in my mouth. All I said was it's a bad idea to try to mix tricking and wanting a girlfriend, which is my opinion. I didn't say it couldn't work, just not a good idea. If that's holier than thou........ *sticks finger in water*

Oh shit!

[blackdong4sale]

nice

[NRT]

Will he be happy for her to continue working, if it becomes a bf relationship? Most guys in under normal circumstances wouldnt be happy. If she had deep feelings for him, wouldnt she consider giving it up out of love or respect for him? Or is this profession different? It would bound to cause problems if she continues to work.

Also the point was made that it would be best to meet a t girl (or I would presume it would apply to any escort) if you are loaded with cash. Are the girls in this scene and or profession so fickle and just gold diggers on the make? Is that a slur or what? If it's true I feel sorry for that guy or anyone seeking a relationship with a t girl

[yodajazz]

The funny thing is that IF she is looking at you now as a boyfriend, you're going to pay a whole lot more than when you were a client. The money will just come out of your pockets differently.

I am not an expert on client relationships, but I am an expert on maintaining a relationhip. Chuck speaks the truth. If you don't give her money as a client, then Valentines Day is upon us (Thursday). Surprise her and give her a gift earlier. It will be worth your while, as they say.
But if you don't give her a gift then she'll either make you feel guilty about and you'll be playing catch up or worse she won't say anything but silently vow to make you pay.

I look wistfully at these provider client relationships when I look at the reality of buying a $100,000 home for once a year sex.

[OEMEnemyNum1]

I know lots of girl just go in for the guys with money, but if she just see's you as money I see no problem just seeing her as ass.

I think if you gotta pay for it, it's not going to be her opinion of you that matters. What do you really think of her????? If she wants to become your GF are you going to still view her as that girl you paid to cum in your mouth?

[cheez]

come on...really. How do you possibly keep a relationship with a girl you had to pay to start up with?
You do realize all she is just one fatter wallet away from leaving you?
I'm not targeting t-girls specifically--I mean anyone who starts a relationship looking for renumeration is generally of that mindset and it ain't gonna change.
You really think if this girl gets a good sugar daddy you're not gonna drop to #2 on the speed dial?
God bless if it works, but don't be surprised if it doesn't.

[NadiaUSA]

come on...really. How do you possibly keep a relationship with a girl you had to pay to start up with?
You do realize all she is just one fatter wallet away from leaving you?
I'm not targeting t-girls specifically--I mean anyone who starts a relationship looking for renumeration is generally of that mindset and it ain't gonna change.
You really think if this girl gets a good sugar daddy you're not gonna drop to #2 on the speed dial?
God bless if it works, but don't be surprised if it doesn't.

Yes, anyone can drop to number 2 in an open relationship. If your not married that the uncertainty of it. Until she makes a commintment, she is dating and looking for a handome suitor and a good provider. If someone says they are outright not going to provide, for whatever reason, they can expect to be viewed accordingly.

It's so silly that men feel money contaminiates things. Who made up this rule? If your assets weren't in money would you hide what benifits you had to offer? Would you put a bag over your head if you were handsome? Would you fear her using you for your good looks? If you were not smart would you put forth an arguement regarding a perjudice toward intelligent suitors?

Do you not want to be seen for the sum total of who you are? Or is this all ploy on the behalf of deficent suitors? They shame the wealthy from competing fully. Haves compete with the have nots with one hand tied behind their back. Was this a cultural or religious atmosphere created to give hope to the masses?

For those that do have the money in the bank, have you been decieved by a false sense of shame? Does it really benifit you?

Do the wealthy suffer from an indoctronation of false shame or do they enjoy not paying due to greed? Does anyone think street wise girls are going to fall for the dangling carrot trick? Are we dogs that you make us jump for scraps?

A generous, upfront gentleman clearly has the advantage. You place a gift on the table without saying a word. But you speak with confidence in the act. What would this say about you? :
"Here is a gift on behalf of a generous suitor for your affections. I don't intend to be unfair with your time as others have been. I am considerate of your situation. I want the issue of money to be handled upfront so it is not an issue during out time. I am metropolitain and open minded. I don't subscribe to superstitions."

As for the girls, are they evil for not subscribing to religoius brainwashing? Yes, we are the devil! Perhaps they, with a back hand to the forhead and a sigh, should take up the occupation of fairness. Perhaps I should go to dinner with every email request just to make the universe more fair to the poor and ugly. After all, I may miss the opportunity to share life with a beautiful person on the inside. We should get married and live under a bridge exchanging witless banter and eating bugs more handsome.

[cheez]

come on...really. How do you possibly keep a relationship with a girl you had to pay to start up with?
You do realize all she is just one fatter wallet away from leaving you?
I'm not targeting t-girls specifically--I mean anyone who starts a relationship looking for renumeration is generally of that mindset and it ain't gonna change.
You really think if this girl gets a good sugar daddy you're not gonna drop to #2 on the speed dial?
God bless if it works, but don't be surprised if it doesn't.

Yes, anyone can drop to number 2 in an open relationship. If your not married that the uncertainty of it. Until she makes a commintment, she is dating and looking for a handome suitor and a good provider. If someone says they are outright not going to provide, for whatever reason, they can expect to be viewed accordingly.

It's so silly that men feel money contaminiates things. Who made up this rule? If your assets weren't in money would you hide what benifits you had to offer? Would you put a bag over your head if you were handsome? Would you fear her using you for your good looks? If you were not smart would you put forth an arguement regarding a perjudice toward intelligent suitors?

Do you not want to be seen for the sum total of who you are? Or is this all ploy on the behalf of deficent suitors? They shame the wealthy from competing fully. Haves compete with the have nots with one hand tied behind their back. Was this a cultural or religious atmosphere created to give hope to the masses?

For those that do have the money in the bank, have you been decieved by a false sense of shame? Does it really benifit you?

Do the wealthy suffer from an indoctronation of false shame or do they enjoy not paying due to greed? Does anyone think street wise girls are going to fall for the dangling carrot trick? Are we dogs that you make us jump for scraps?

A generous, upfront gentleman clearly has the advantage. You place a gift on the table without saying a word. But you speak with confidence in the act. What would this say about you? :
"Here is a gift on behalf of a generous suitor for your affections. I don't intend to be unfair with your time as others have been. I am considerate of your situation. I want the issue of money to be handled upfront so it is not an issue during out time. I am metropolitain and open minded. I don't subscribe to superstitions."

As for the girls, are they evil for not subscribing to religoius brainwashing? Yes, we are the devil! Perhaps they, with a back hand to the forhead and a sigh, should take up the occupation of fairness. Perhaps I should go to dinner with every email request just to make the universe more fair to the poor and ugly. After all, I may miss the opportunity to share life with a beautiful person on the inside. We should get married and live under a bridge exchanging witless banter and eating bugs more handsome.

Money can be a big factor and a huge determining one, but it shouldn't be the only one.
Let me put it this way 99% of the GGs I've dated wouldn't care if a guy made 50K and was in good shape and smelled good as opposed to an old guy who makes 500K has an ass like moldy cottage cheese and a dick that looks like string cheese left in the sun too long.
But t-girls perhaps because of the expense of their transition have a different mindset, generally.
I've gone to many a club and bar and gotten women with nothing more than force of personality and charm without ever having to pull out my wallet. There's money in it, but I'm in good shape and got a nice smile, money is often not my first recourse.
Yet if I go to any of the T girl clubs, the very first question isn't what's your name, it's a statement- "Hi, buy me a drink."
So what you're saying is I don't care what you look like, don't care about your personality, don't care if you like my looks, just "do you have money for me?"
And that is a poor foundation for a lasting relationship in my eyes.
Attraction to the person, not their wallet is what will have some lingering effect.
It's funny I read all the posts about girls hating "cockhounds" (guys who don't really find the whole girl attractive and are often chasing one attribute) and yet somehow being a "wallethound" is any better?
Does every hookup I ever make with GGs have hearts and flowers and a spiritual connection? No, obviously not, but it's usually borne of mutual attraction so it at least has the possibility of such.
Plus consider this: the guy who opens his wallet for you, what makes you think he's not gonna trade in for a newer model in six months?
When you enter a relationship that feels like a transaction, I would say that for the most part that's what it will be...

[El Nino]

My advice is, let her take a dump in your mouth. If she is up for it, ask for her hand in marriage. Tell your parents afterward all the details then go to Chucky Cheese for the Reception!