The Girl I Met

[magus13]

Thanks Nadia and Braveman. Your thoughts made my day. The money is not the issue. I'f we end up together I hope to do to nice things for her. I hope she would do nice things for me as well. I'm not rich but comfortable and most people spend money on people they care about. That being said I'm not trying to be someones "sugar daddy"

[TomSelis]

I'm not sure this is a serious question.

Serious and short answer:
You can't be a trick and a girl's boyfriend. Since you were a trick first.....there ya go. If you wanted a gf, you shouldn't have been a trick first. The two can't mix, like oil and water, eventually they'll separate.

I don't know who TomSelis is but most guys with this view are just broke ass guys. Either that or holier than thou.

All the girls get tons of email from college guys complaining that we are too expensive. Some go on to complain how unfair life is and wonder why we don't hook up for free after they send us their Joe Cool picture. They also follow with something witty like "hey whats's up, your hot" .

Its much harder to be a boyfriend if your NOT a client first. If you are just some broke ass joker or fairy tale dreamer, you wont appeal to may girls.

The guys that have a holier than thou attitude, in regards to paying, make me sick. If your so stuck on rigid religious principals or conservative society, the what are you doing sucking tranny cock.

It is more a function of the hierarchy of human needs. If you are a guy with plenty of money then you look down on the ones that are still focused on food and shelter.

The best way to meet us is to be a generous high class client that has a metropolitian world view. If you have a good connection then a free date is possible. However, if you are unsure, always offer to pay until she says stop.

Only the most young and foolish girls would think a man really gives a dam about a girl if the man lets the girl continue work in the adult business.

Some girls do have a young broke guy on the side for fun and some even have broke boyfriends but it is very very rare that that will last unless there is some money comming in from somewhere.

Lol I'm sorry I had to laugh, because you put alot into something that wasn't there. Complete and utter bullshit though, WTF are you talking about?

Trust me, I'm not knocking your hustle, though. I didn't say anything about what you do or what most guys are. So, you can unbunch your panties on that one. I'm not talking about broke guys or how expensive escorting is. You'll never find a post like that from me anywhere. I'm talking about this guy who asked a very specific question.

Which I think we can still agree on, probably won't happen for him.

Thanks for your support

-TomSelis

Who is neither broke or holier than thou, but dealing in reality.

P.S.- Instead of going off on some tangent and trying to make me look like some evil villian for being truthful, why don't you try answering dude's question honestly?

[scroller]

If that's what you want, go for it.

Seeing more hopeful things on HA this weekend than in a normal month.

[magus13]

Look. I'm definately gonna let it play out and not be influenced by possitives or negatives. If I was reading this post I would probably tell the dude, be careful and chances are not good. I put it out there and am cool with all thoughts and opinions. Since this is something that I can't really discuss with friends and family, I'm probaly writing this as a way of talking it through. No need for negative comments towards eachother. Thanks again.

[TomSelis]

Nah, man it's cool. I know you didn't have any bad intentions with your post, I didn't have any bad intentions with mine either.

I've been around long enough to know if you speak up on matters like this it almost always turns ugly. Take it for what it's worth, but remember how you start is how you end up.

Just lookin' out for YOU

-TomSelis

[hwbs]

bows to toms avatar

[flabbybody]

-TomSelis

Who is neither broke or holier than thou, but dealing in reality.



and who gets much ass without paying, I might ad.

[TomSelis]

Shhhh!!!!! I'm supposed to be a faceless, dickless, holier than thou trick on here!!!!!


Shhhhhhh!!!!! Shhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!

lol

[Perverted Monk]

You cats crack me up

[NadiaUSA]

P.S.- Instead of going off on some tangent and trying to make me look like some evil villian for being truthful, why don't you try answering dude's question honestly?

I didnt call you a villian, I started the whole thing with saying I don't know who you are.

Anyway you gave the guy bad advice by saying, to the effect, if you start as a client you can not really date.

That sounds very holier than thou to me if you mean your too good for it. My advice is to put all the cards on the table. Don't be a prude about money.