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[desolationangel]

I make no secret of the fact that I'm into transsexuals. Most of my friends know and it hasn't really affected their opinion of me in any way. People can be understanding and open if you give them a chance.

[TSLoverUK999]

This is fascinating thread.

All my understanding & open minded friends know, are supportive & don't turn it into a drama.

I choose to keep numerous close friends in the dark because of their own failings rather than me being ashamed. Though it does piss me off when they start the stereotypical male crap for not having a "bird" or for not moving on a GG that likes me......... thats when I'd love tell them about the hot blond I've been nailing & her gorgeous tits, ass &........COCK...................................... ...which they have NO clue about !

I told one old close friend & we end up sleeping with each other & exchanging sexual experiences & desires, it looked like it was going to put our friendship on a whole new level but unfortunately other things got in the way.

Telling the right people was the best thing I did...........what can I say I love the female form.....Young or Old, GG or TG.

Be true to yourself guys !

[Dinand]

Online yes, in real life only 1 buddy because he saw some of my TS movies on my shelves. He doesn't understand why I watch it but that's not important because the most important thing is the fact that I love to watch it.

[El Nino]

Its a big secret with me... oh yes, a BIG secret!

[medmanus]

Most of the people in my life know. Some approving, some not. My attitude on it, and most things in general, is 'this is who I am, I'm not about to hide it or change it for anyone's approval'.

I first made people aware a few years ago when I was dating a girl and had a social function to go to. I thought it would be a bit better for all involved if I gave them a heads up, rather than having some shock value type of scene. I didn't want my friends to be uncomfortable, and I certainly didn't want to put more GF through any BS.

All of my friends were fine with it with one exception. The exception spent about a month lecturing me on how incredibly fucked up I was. After making zero progress that way, he went the route of informing everyone in my life that did not need to know, but would have a problem with it (family members, business associates, etc.). Naturally at this point, I dropped this person from my life, though he continued to make noise about for a time thereafter.

This is, of course, about the time a mutual friend of ours found his rather sizeable collection of TS porn.

I'm too old and just plain don't care enough about what people think to be playing the covert operations game. If you are enough a part of my life to meet the GF/date/friend I am with at the moment, whether she is TG or GG is not going to matter.

[Azanti]

Yeah, my girlfriend, and my best friend.

[El Nino]

what does your girlfriend think???

[Nowhere]

No effing way.

Just like they said in "Mujer De Mi Hermano", 10 locks on that!

I keep that sealed in a way that I make it sound as blissfully unaware of it as any "normal" person "should". :shock:

Nowhere, you surprise me.

From your previous posts you have always sounded so supportive and
knowledgeable abouts issues impacting transwomen.

I'm not saying that peoples sex lifes need to be on front street, but...

With some of the other guys it wasn't a surprise, but you caught me
flat-footed

Ok, I believe you deserve the dignity of a response to this, and the easiest way to describe it is that it was a huge step in even posting at a board as this and there are serious complications to me being 'out' with this.

Not that I'm some sort of "John" with a family and kids (I'm the furthest thing from that), but given the fact that, legally, transsexuals have as much rights as gays did in the 1800s and the fact that many people who are "into" tgirls have "t" tendencies themselves, I pose risking my entire livelihood by being fully "out," forever.

I wish it could be different and I'm quite sure that if I owned my own company, were independently wealthy or lived in a country like Spain, I could have the LUXURY of such a thing, but right now i'm stuck with things as they are.

My apologies, but it is what it is (for the moment).

I'm crossing my fingers on a proper ENDA bill in the next administration which would radically change the situation.

[peggygee]

No effing way.

Just like they said in "Mujer De Mi Hermano", 10 locks on that!

I keep that sealed in a way that I make it sound as blissfully unaware of it as any "normal" person "should".

Nowhere, you surprise me.

From your previous posts you have always sounded so supportive and
knowledgeable abouts issues impacting transwomen.

I'm not saying that peoples sex lifes need to be on front street, but...

With some of the other guys it wasn't a surprise, but you caught me
flat-footed

Ok, I believe you deserve the dignity of a response to this, and the easiest way to describe it is that it was a huge step in even posting at a board as this and there are serious complications to me being 'out' with this.

Not that I'm some sort of "John" with a family and kids (I'm the furthest thing from that), but given the fact that, legally, transsexuals have as much rights as gays did in the 1800s and the fact that many people who are "into" tgirls have "t" tendencies themselves, I pose risking my entire livelihood by being fully "out," forever.

I wish it could be different and I'm quite sure that if I owned my own company, were independently wealthy or lived in a country like Spain, I could have the LUXURY of such a thing, but right now i'm stuck with things as they are.

My apologies, but it is what it is (for the moment).

I'm crossing my fingers on a proper ENDA bill in the next administration which would radically change the situation.

I can actually understand and accept that answer, though I would quibble
on the degree of discrimination that transwomen or the men who love
them experience, but then again I would be basing that on my subjecitve opinion.

I will re-iterate that that from your various postings you appear to be
supportive of tramswomen and their issues, and for that you are to be
commended.

[rt_saurus]

I have told my best friend (known him since we were in primary school together (ages 5-10)); he is cool with it, but then he is engaged and secretly pretty gay so he knows what it's like to keep a secret about liking cock

I haven't mentioned it to my girlfriend. She is very reasonable about strap-ons and such, even to the point of doing me with one sometimes because she knows how much I like it.

BUT, the difference is... with T girls, there is no way she can ever compete. She will never physically have a real cock that can get hard and shoot cum. She can match the girls I show her in strap-on movies, but she will never be able to match a Vicki Richter or Sheeba or Jo Garcia, etc., etc. I would not put on her the pressure of trying to live up to a need that I have that I know she cannot provide.

(Plus which, she has previously mentioned a fellow she knew who was "last with a transvestite" and she was quite negative about that.)

Guess I have to be just very happy that she views the strap-on play very positively