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[ottorocket]

Yes i have...and wasn't a big deal to that person. But generally my sex life is private and i don't delve in others lives either...just no need to go there. Most of my adult friends now have moved on and only a few select friends exist from childhood, and we bond on a different level than friends i make in clubs or other environments where there isn't a deeper value. Told one of my long time friends and since havent talked much to him...pretty sad actually, we had good times and to let how someone prefers their ladies get in the way of life..love and happiness isnt right. I dont judge ppl unless they've done something ignorant, abusive, or callous...but guess my standards are too high for alot of so called friends and family.

[boner]

I've only told one friend, a girl, and she was surprised but cool with it. It was a relief to let someone in on how I like t-girls.

[runamok]

I had a girl friend that I shared this with and after watching some TS porn together, she took a strap-on to me and well...gawddamn do I miss her. Actually, I miss all the kinky girls now that I think about it.

[callahac]

My wife knows all about my interest in shemales. She will even look at my porn with me from time to time.

[quest]

Since living in Japan, my friends in Jamaica kept asking about my love life. I eventually told 3 friends, that I have beautiful (TS) girlfriend. They were shocked, but laughed. However, I cant tell my other "friends"; they would probably shoot me.

[young4ts]

how did they respond? So now you are the family freak?

EDIT: fkn grammar

Its almost like it never happend, we just don't ever talk about it.

[blacktgirls]

i think my mom might have found some dvds in my room and possibly her and my sister might have seen what i was looking at on the computer. if they do know about it they have never thrown it in my face during an argument. but not knowing if they know i like TSs is the worst.

[flowerboy]

...nice thread to start my postings with..

been a fan of this board for quite a while, yet am not that big on responding online... more of a quiet observer.

a few years back i decided to stop making a big deal of my sexual preferences (whether they be transsexuals, big girls, or just the occasional not-that-goodlooking chick that i happen to dig...) being a very sexual person with vast physical interests i felt i was suffocating on hiding and secrets.
this does not mean today i wear signs, but from my ex to my recent gf, i've told most of my feminine significant others and a big part of my male friends (which actually made some of them admit of an experience or fantasy they had) i am so open about it today, i don't really give the other side a chance or way to make me feel bad about it... mostly, its fun to see them slightly embraced and shy... and i must say, i feel so much better these recent years. today i'm in an open relationship (she is slightly crazier than i am) we share everything, from porn to fantasies. she knows and like my TS friends and lovers and i know hers.. its my best relationship yet. i suspected but never thought open monogamy would actually work so well.

the way i see it. the one thing you can say about most people pretty safely, is that they are rather secretive about their sex life, fantasies and experiences. the things i heard back from people i was being open to... damn, some make the hardest tranny porn look like old school erotica from the 70's ...

open up to them the right way, and they will open back up to you.

secrets of this sort tend to suck.

to the ones that react like jerks... i say, smile, raise your right fist, and cordially give them the finger.

peace and love

flower.

[bossiernut]

My wife knows of my infatuation with t-girls. Told her I'd love to be with one of these pretty ladies on this site. Says she understands but says they are still men. I tell her they are women. She gets perturbed with that but tolerates my constant looking at the pics here of these gorgeous women.

[dc_guy_75]

My brother knows as do my sister and brother-in-law.

I know this because my (gay) brother used to live in NYC, and when I'd visit him, I'd go to the tranny bars. I must've been seen by one of his friends because it was soon a topic of conversation, usually commenting on t-girls we'd see on the street.

Word got around to my sister and brother-in-law, and now transsexuals unusually come up in conversation, and (not knowing how to handle it) I tend to feign ignorance...

My attraction is something I wouldn't deny if asked, I know I'd "come out" if I had someone I really cared for, my attraction is not something I'm ashamed.

If you care for someone, it really doesn't matter...