I am sure I'll get slammed for this, but here goes.....

[tslvr]

With all the discussion here lately about whether the girls like their cocks or having them sucked or being tops........most of the escorts that i have visited usually start playing with their own dick as soon as the session starts. Don't get me wrong, I love to see girls be enthusiastic, but I would rather have some foreplay and eventually let my mouth go to work on the girl. I know the answer is probably going to be that they are escorts and anything to get the session done with is the goal, but I was just wondering what everyone's thoughts on this topic was. I mean, if so many girls hate their cock, why do they immediately start playing with it themselves? Sorry about being so naive.

[tsmandy]

Most guys want a girl hard, and most guys will not pay for 90 minutes if the session goes over, so it makes sense when you stop and think about it.

[tslvr]

Now for me regarding a session that I do, I actually start off having the guy totally naked lying on his stomach, I use oil and start doing a very sensual massage and grind show while I am wearing lingerie, usually something like a thong, cami top and bra...while the music plays (yes I use a set soundtrack) I rhythmically caress and grind in a very slow and seductive manner, this is sort of like a VIP show you get at a gentleman's club but you are naked and progressively so am I...
As the music continues, the session obviously becomes way more intense but as far as stimulation to myself, I let the client take the initiative because to be honest NOT all guys want it to come into play...I find it strange that you would hire a Trannie and NOT want it, but to each their own I guess.
Some start by slowly caressing me, familiarizing themselves with my curves and such, others go straight for it (honestly I find that a little bit annoying) which to me is just a little overzealous considering there is 12 songs on the soundtrack (not exactly short ones either) and the client has 90 minutes to explore their deepest and darkest curiosities...
I guess you just happened to experience some of these bitches that feel you are just a dollar sign and don't care if they get repeat business from you or not.
Personally I'd rather take that same persons money many times a year than just one time...
As I will always say, slow and steady wins the race every time.

Thanks for responding Cheri.....I do want it in play and I do want it hard, but I want to be the one to get it there. I would love to meet you.