Well guys...what are my options???

[Thuggish_Intellect]

I have a dilema...and it seems to only be getting worse with time. I am under the assumption that there are guys on this board who are in similar situations such as me (public figure, entertainer, position of trust, personality, etc.)...in my particular line of work, this is taaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaboooooooooooooooooo to the point of anything closely relating to homosexuality will dead your career.

My question is, is there a silent code of conduct amongst the girls as to who they've dated that's famous? Because all the stories of Eddie Murphy, a few basketball players, and a few rockers/rappers i've heard kind of pushes me off...


honestly

that's why i haven't attended any parties because of the lack of VIP rooms...where pavaratzi can't snap pics of you and all...to an extent it's the reason why I haven't considered "dating" straight up girls that i've chatted with online who seem to be cool as ice...help me out guys...

[tommytuu]

Check your private mail.

[rocklob]

Thuggish, seems to me there must be hundreds of famous people seeing tgirls whose cover hasn't been blown (no pun intended). But you can never be 100% certain. My only suggestion is if you're that connected you should be able to afford to go off on a vacation to say, Brazil, under the cover of some excuse (like seeing Rio needs an excuse) and do the hotties there with no stress. Thailand is more problematic as any mention of trips to Thailand tends to get people winking about sex toursim right away.

Good luck. Never thought my relative poverty and anonymity would seem attractive!

[rocklob]

Thuggish, seems to me there must be hundreds of famous people seeing tgirls whose cover hasn't been blown (no pun intended). But you can never be 100% certain. My only suggestion is if you're that connected you should be able to afford to go off on a vacation to say, Brazil, under the cover of some excuse (like seeing Rio needs an excuse) and do the hotties there with no stress. Thailand is more problematic as any mention of trips to Thailand tends to get people winking about sex toursim right away.

Good luck. Never thought my relative poverty and anonymity would seem attractive!

[TheGuard]

Not an entirely unique problem, anyone in a high profile job has the same dilema, but with added threat of losing their job, or possibly esteem. Sadly I don't see a solution to this in the future, until either the individuals own up to their feelings and say fuck it, I want to be with the "woman" I love regarless of what others think, or society itself becomes more accepting (a direction I hope we are moving in) both may be arduous, but anything in life worth having is hard to get.

[Quinn]

Thuggish,

I doubt that I would be considered very high-profile or a celebrity, which is fine because I work to maintain anonymity, but I am in a position of trust (corporate fiduciary obligations, etc.) -- the continued profitability of which demands that I maintain a certain public image. Many of those who choose to put their finances at the disposal of my investment company are "old money types" who would not have their faith in me, my business partners, or my company reinforced by the disclosure of my occasional interest in "the third sex."

They see the graduate degrees, the culture, and the financial success that we all know doesn't truly determine my worth as a person. I don't work to dispel their image of me, but use it to my advantage. The truth of my identity and interests is something I choose to share only with highly trusted friends.

My recommendations for maintaining your protected status are as follows:

1. Do not use the services of escorts.

2. Pick the shemales you choose to share your time with very carefully.

3. Choose your destinations carefully. When spending time with
shemale friends in Manhattan, I know a number of special clubs,
restaurants, etc. where nobody talks about what they see. Privacy
and anonymity are guaranteed. Find similar places.

Some ladies will tell you that if you aren’t proud to be seen with them, then you don’t deserve them. This usually reflects a shallow understanding of the situation and should be dismissed – along with the lady making such a statement. It’s your financial future at stake, not their own.

[geekmeat]

Are you a hip hop producer?
Do you work with any MAJOR labels?
If I was you I would be careful.
Dont trust NOBODY.......you hear me?
If your in the line of work I think then it aint even worth getting outted like that.
Think about your paper first.

[Thuggish_Intellect]

Check your private mail.

back at you...thanks man

[Ts Laura]

actually there are alot i have heard of or know of that i have never seen mentioned online or anywere else, most of the girls don't meet and gab really, most of the time that happens it is via some other source, a friend or even the said HIGH profile person did something to the other and forced there hand. but for the most part the girls don't as you call out and out them to others or the public.

[suckseed]

I'm talking out my backside here (twirking?), but I would imagine that the classier shemales wouldn't be kissing and telling. Personally, this past week here has been pretty enlightening. In the year or so I've been here, I've gone from thinking about them purely as sexual fantasies to people it could be cool to date or be with long tem at some point. One thing that doesn't get talked about much is conversation. I've always had more fun talking about my favorite things with my guy friends. (Music, recording, literature, film, women in my case). My girlfriends' interest in those topics have never been as strong as my guy friends.

What if you could have a partner whose interests matched your own?
Eventually, there's going to be the Rosa Parks version of a famous man who proudly dates a shemale. Then the doors will be kicked open. Things are changing everywhere already. Teenagers today are so much less inclined to prejudge other groups. It's pretty cool.