hmmm

[todd316]

nevermind...

[peggygee]

Girls get random IMs from faceless guys all the time.

Perhaps if you struck up a conversation, contributed to threads,
so that people could get a sense of you that would be helpful.

No facial picture, or one of your genitilia, without any background
on you, usually will elicit no response.

And without being shady, this sounds like a thinly veiled attempt to
have some casual sex.

I would like to get to know someone before I have any sexual relations...but this seems impossible

Now in my opinion if you said you were looking for somebody for
a possible LTR, then they might respond more favorably.

Other than that, you will be looking at a pay for play scenario,
as you are finding out.