Originally Posted by
tsmandy
Hi Melissa,
I understand how this site can sometimes just make your stomach turn. My big problem with the flame wars, is that they are just boring as hell, and I have a dial up connection. So sometimes I have to read through pages of silly bickering to read anything worth while, not to mention the psychological downsides of reading lots of garbage. Taking breaks is good for ones sanity, just remember there are plenty of us here who are thoughtful, caring human beings, and it would be a shame to lose you.
Also, I really hate it when the word fag is used pejoratively. I got the shit kicked out of me as a kid for being a fag, and I'm queer. I suppose I could just stop coming here as well, and leave the site to the straight loudmouths, but occasionally I have worthwhile interactions and connections here.
I checked out your website and I really appreciated some of your writings, it takes a lot of courage to share your life publicly like that. I hope you continue to share your intelligence and sexiness here, and I wish you the very best of luck with the percocets (I mean surgery).
xoxo
Mandy