Am I the only guy out there that likes transsexuals?

[hombredetia]

For me personally, I just stumbled into this thing.
Because I like porn (and a lot of people do, judging by the massive
amount of porn available, including amateur stuff), I've encountered
shemales by accident. Then things just evolved.
By now, I only pay attention to big black babes, preferably with a plus...
It is just an acquired taste, I think.
But I just love tgirls.

Thanks to HA and a fantastic 2008 for everyone !!!

H

[CORVETTEDUDE]

There's alot of us "just sittin' on the Group 'W' bench". Education and communication equal emancipation!

[irvin66]

No, you are not!! :P

[62des]

I don't think there are many people at all that didn't accidently stumble onto shemale porn. It happened to me when I was surfing a GG porn site and thumbs showed the girls and I just happened to click on that one and there was a sexy tranny's photo set and I was hooked from then on.

[BBaggins06]

There's alot of us "just sittin' on the Group 'W' bench". Education and communication equal emancipation!

Is that the one next to the Preparation H Bench? Mahalo

Matt

[mbf]

A lot men find TS attractive, at least from a sex-driven point of view - which isn´t bad per se, that limited interest can easily spill over to a desire to gain deeper knowledge of the phenomenon of transsexualism.

I am talking from personal experience. In my first year at college, already ten years ago (fuck, I am geting old...) I wasn´t interested in TS in particular yet, but I do remember an evening when my roommate, me and a mutual friend rented a TS porn vid. And none of us three were "fags", bisexual or gay. (NOTE: as a working definition I will say men into TS are "straight", but with a twist , this has nothing to do with feeling superior to gay, bisexuals or whatever, and I am not willing to adress those points yet again, there are countless threads about that....)

And that is also the reason I have to at least grin when I read just once again a T-chick on this board bragging about "That she dates only men that haven´t dated another tranny be4" - indicating this guy is "straight"-straight.

Ladies, sorry to burst ur bubble, but if you meet such a guy and he will hit it off with you, he is at least "curious" and KNOWS about TS ( at least via porn, the web etc) and is most likely attracted to transsexuals, maybe due to the aspect of "exoticism" or whatever reason. But I know, some of you T-chicks need that phantasy of "fooling a straight guy" so you can sleep better (same as thinking a guy into Trans is a "chaser" per se....)

And - this could be a misled notion due to idiosyncrasy - I noticed more TS-visibility in general over the last few years, be it on talkshows, shows like "big brother" (in europe a tranny seems to be mandatory for those kind of shows), or documentaries, general media coverage.

On the other hand, if you live in a metropolitan area - those places tend to be more liberal - and surround yourself with liberal/libertarian people, you will develop a distorted view of what is beeing accepted, and you will think TS-issues are not that much of a problem.

It´s a whole different thing outside of those circles tho.

[timebomb]

I know I am some what to blame about my situation. I cannot expect people to come to me expressing their love for T girls when I don't have enough balls to do it myself.

I don't think I am ready though to let the world know I like T girls. I definitely believe the people that know me would think I had jumped over the deep end.

I just wish I could make some T girl friends just to let them know that I appreciate their beauty.

Before Hungangels I was doing some serious questioning about myself. I have tried to be sneaky about seeing if any of my friends like T girls. I was disappointed that none of them seemed like they did.

[whatsupwithat]

I know I am some what to blame about my situation. I cannot expect people to come to me expressing their love for T girls when I don't have enough balls to do it myself.

I don't think I am ready though to let the world know I like T girls. I definitely believe the people that know me would think I had jumped over the deep end.

I just wish I could make some T girl friends just to let them know that I appreciate their beauty.

Before Hungangels I was doing some serious questioning about myself. I have tried to be sneaky about seeing if any of my friends like T girls. I was disappointed that none of them seemed like they did.

your words really touched me. there are many guys like you and i and others on this forum, but so many of them, like you, are so afraid...of what?

i have an analogy.

when i quit drugs and alcohol many years ago, i was so afraid that i would lose my friends, that i would never be able to write again, that no one would ever hire me, that all my creative juices would go *poof* and disappear. i thought my life would become boring and the people in it the same. but i knew that if i wasn't truthful with myself, if i didn't admit to myself that i was an alcoholic and an addict, that i was powerless over it...i was destined to suffer and, without me even knowing, make those around me suffer. much like you're suffering now.

well, i quit, and all my fears were for naught. i did lose my friends from that time, but you know what? they never really were friends anyways. my life is much, much richer and fuller now. it's filled with beautiful people that i trust and love and who don't judge me, who accept me for who i am.

i guess what i'm saying, and what i'm seeing in your words, is that you're suffering and that you don't need to. if anyone judges you for who you are, are they really your friends? and who's to say they will. the fears you have now are your own...they have nothing to do with what you're feeling. nothing. if anything, if your friends do judge you, then they are the ones who controlled by their fear, not you.

there's nothing wrong with you. there's nothing wrong with me. there's nothing wrong with any of us. and one day society will figure that out.

let me ask you one more question. each of the trans women on this forum made a decision and had the courage to be truthful to themselves no matter what the consequences. how do you think it looks to them to see the men who supposedly love them not share in that courage to be truthful to themselves?

[timebomb]

Whatsupwithat:

Thank you for your post. You have a good point and I appreciate your sincerity.

I have thought about being attracted to T girl's over the past years. There are many questions that I tried to ask myself (don't want to go into the "Am I gay" thing).

Has anyone out there had a friend admit to you that they like T girls? And it was cool because it was like you got something off your chest that you wanted to say?

[whatsupwithat]

Whatsupwithat:

Thank you for your post. You have a good point and I appreciate your sincerity.

I have thought about being attracted to T girl's over the past years. There are many questions that I tried to ask myself (don't want to go into the "Am I gay" thing).

Has anyone out there had a friend admit to you that they like T girls? And it was cool because it was like you got something off your chest that you wanted to say?

it's heartbreaking to you suffering over something like this. needlessly. you have nothing to fear. and when you're truthful to yourself and share that with those around you, you will feel a lot better. have you thought about seeing a therapist? a good one? they can help you walk through the inner you, uncover your fears, and take the steps to face them.

one more thing...we are sometimes so wrapped up in our own selves that we forget that everyone else is as well. you have this one life. be true to yourself and who you are. no one else can do that except you.