Am I the only guy out there that likes transsexuals?

[whatsupwithat]

i just came across this great quote from coco chanel:


"How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone."


happy new year.

[timebomb]

I have been away from Hungangels for a while, but I think that I have come to terms with some things.

I think until I have some Tgirl friends I am really never going to get to see how I feel about myself in a situation. That is probably not going to happen anytime soon considering I live in Phx Arizona, and there doesnt seem to be a large community out here. Plus I am not ready to do the whole escort thing, I think I rather get to know someone as friends hang out and get to know them as a person. But anyways I think I am rambling on!

The point is that I really would like to take my internet world to the real world and see if I would feel the same.

[yodajazz]

I have been away from Hungangels for a while, but I think that I have come to terms with some things.

I think until I have some Tgirl friends I am really never going to get to see how I feel about myself in a situation. That is probably not going to happen anytime soon considering I live in Phx Arizona, and there doesnt seem to be a large community out here. Plus I am not ready to do the whole escort thing, I think I rather get to know someone as friends hang out and get to know them as a person. But anyways I think I am rambling on!

The point is that I really would like to take my internet world to the real world and see if I would feel the same.

You live in a large city, there are plenty of girls there you just have to know where to hang out. The places to go are the gay bars that have drag shows. You can always call them to find out if they have shows. Some gay bars do not like trans people, so you can save time by calling. I used to find listings in free magazines at adult book stores, but these days, our main paper even lists them in the Friday entertainment section.

Some people here have a problem with going to ‘gay’ bars, that someone might see them, but I say that it is mostly in their minds. If someone were to really ask you, you could make your own excuse, like you were invited by some friends at work. Anyway there is some legitimately good entertainment at some of the shows. Usually the MC will have some funny things to say. Mainstream media has started to recognize the wit of gay people and you see several on prime time sit coms. So go to a drag show, and let the performers know that you appreciate their performance directly to them. They have usually put a lot of energy and effort to do it. Most accept tips for their performances. I was always a little shy about giving it to them in the middle of their performance and gave it to them afterward. Tips show that they can earn money without having to do sexwork.

Pageants are usually great also because the top beauties are usually their and their friends come to support them. More than once, I ended up going home with one of the pageant winners after the pageant. But anyway, outsiders do not realize the what it takes to compete, with just their gowns often being in the hundreds of dollars, nto mention the other categrories.

If you don’t go out and meet people you will regret it later. We often get to these situations in life where we are stuck and wish we would have used the opportunities that were available to us earlier. The amazing is that if you meet someone you can’t lose either way. Because even if the experience is bad, then you will know that it was not something you really wanted then you can go on with your life confident that you have made the right choices.

I would appreciate if you let us know how things work out for you.

[trannylover12]

no your not the only guy

[anonymoussonny]

You are not alone (on this site, at least)...

This is a 'Courageous Conversation'

[blacktgirls]

• i know exactly how you feel i too have kept my love of tgirls secret and this forum is also the only place where i can go to feel a part of a group of admirers . before 2000, i didn't even no that there even were tgirls i thought there were only men who cross dressed. after renting some trans porn and reading reviews i found out that with the use of hormones that the girls could make a transformation. i went by myself to my first pride parade because i wanted to see the girls in person and one of the floats handed out flyers for a continental pageant. at the time, i didn't even know about the pageants. i went, again by myself, to this pageant and have since been to more pageants and two parades. unfortunately i have no one to go with because i don't know anyone in my life who would understand such an attraction. my family wouldn't even accept me if i was gay so you girls should not be any more offended by me keeping this attraction secret. i do feel if i made some friends with tgirls in real life that i could get past my fear of not being accepted .