my first date with a transsexual........help!

[BeardedOne]

As for treating her like a tomboy: Is she one? Take her bowling.

As for the term 'Shemale': This is a porn-driven site, dude, use your wits.

Best of luck on your date.

[56k]

The word shemale is considered offensive by many transgendered women. It's like calling blacks "Colored." Trust us, avoid it from now on, whenever you are in a conversation with a transsexual girl.

Oh. I never knew that. I won't use it again. Thanks for the tip!

I changed the wording in the title not to offend anyone.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Shemale is a porn term.

[LBCDO]

yea, if you are caught saying "Yea, this is my first date with a shemale" its like saying "this is my first date with a pocket pussy and a dildo" It makes it look like you're after the ass and thats it. The best thing to do is ignore the sex talk 100% and only hit it if she makes the cue.

And just dont be ran over. As long as you show you got a set of balls, and dont talk with your head down you should be aight. Good luck

[TrueBeauty TS]

I finally gain the courage to ask a shemale out. Guys, I'm new to this and don't know what to do. Should I treat her like I would normally treat a woman or should I treat her kinda like a tomboy?

Whooooooo - boy.......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





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[Ecstatic]

I just don't want to make any mistakes why I'm asking. I'm a total newbie to same sex dating

Treat her as a woman because that's what she is. The advice above is all good. It's not same sex dating, as you are not dating a man but a woman who happens to have different, umm, features.

Be wary of what you read about transsexual women on porn-related websites. There is a wealth of very valid and insightful information here, but be discriminating. Check any of Peggy's posts, that's a good place to start.

[justatransgirl]

Information to ALL men, which was once passed to me by a very wise man.

Treat a lady like a whore and treat a whore like a lady and you will never go far wrong.

But treat a whore like a whore and she will make your life miserable.

And yes, shemale, ladyboy, tranny, etc are terms only appropriate for porn advertising.

In real life we prefer t-girl, GIRL, transsexual, transgendered, and simply trans.

Hugs,
TS Jamie

[56k]

Hey, I want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my wet behind the ears question. I will treat my lady friend no different than I would treat any other woman without the extra features.



Cheers.

[dskreet2]

If you you treat her as a "decent human being", the same way you treat everyone at least the first time you meet, the rest will be natural. Just like the other thread when the issue was about "where were all the gentlemen". You will naturally know how to react, based on their reactions to your decency.

If they are decent in return, go with that. If they pull out a gun to rob you, turn your hat around and run like a cheetah! Hopefull, you can run faster than Dr. Nevilles in "I Am Legend"

[Mr_Choc69]

Show her your meat when she answers the door. See how she reacts. LOL

No ~ Seriously, treat her like a human being. It's not rocket science.