my first date with a transsexual........help!

[56k]

I finally gain the courage to ask a shemale out. Guys, I'm new to this and don't know what to do. Should I treat her like I would normally treat a woman or should I treat her kinda like a tomboy?

[BBaggins06]

Look in your heart for the answer you seek. If it's not readily apparent, go to your toolbox and repeatedly hit yourself in the head hard with a hammer until you see the light. Mahalo

Matt

[Anubis1079]

like a woman

[56k]

A shemale or a transgendered woman (aka tgirl?)

I finally gain the courage to ask a shemale out. Guys, I'm new to this and don't know what to do. Should I treat her like I would normally treat a woman or should I treat her kinda like a tomboy?

Ah................ A guy that's gay to the point that he decides to dress like a woman on a daily basis.

I guess my question is do shemales like to be treated like a girl or do they prefer being treated more tom boyish?

[56k]

like a woman

Thanks!

[Tomfurbs]

Refrain from calling her a shemale, and you'll do fine boss.

[SXFX]

Refrain from calling her a shemale, and you'll do fine boss.

+1!
And just smile and treat her with respect.
And make sure you open doors for her...you know so you can see how her ass looks!

[LBCDO]

Treat her like a female, and ignore that she is a TS. Dont use that shemale word, dont ask her how big her dick is, as a matter of fact, dont even ask about her dick. And if your long life fantasy is to be fucked in the ass, forget that shit, at least in the beginning. Dont ask about her friends, dont ask if shes been in any movies, or modeled, any shit like that. Sex should be the last thing on your mind. ANd dont say that you cruise online ads, look at TS porn, none of that.

I dont give a fuck what anyone else says to you, follow this advice and you cant go wrong

[56k]

Whats wrong using the word shemale? Its plastered all over this site. I did ask her if she was one when I stopped her on the street and, she didn't get upset. I now know her name so I won't call her a shemale again. But, if it's degrading in any way why is the word shemale endorsed all over this forum???

Thanks for the advice on what not to say btw. As far as getting fucked in the ass, no siry! I'm not into that kind of stuff. I'm more of an Alpha male in a pretty boy body if that makes sense.

I just don't want to make any mistakes why I'm asking. I'm a total newbie to same sex dating

[bezane]

Treat her like a female, and ignore that she is a TS. Dont use that shemale word, dont ask her how big her dick is, as a matter of fact, dont even ask about her dick. And if your long life fantasy is to be fucked in the ass, forget that shit, at least in the beginning. Dont ask about her friends, dont ask if shes been in any movies, or modeled, any shit like that. Sex should be the last thing on your mind. ANd dont say that you cruise online ads, look at TS porn, none of that.

I dont give a fuck what anyone else says to you, follow this advice and you cant go wrong

Cannot beat this advice. Only thing to add is make sure you are very very clean. Don't be a scumbag.