T-girlfriend?

[bezane]

Wow Jamie. I'm surprised. I could care less if you're a prostitute. Based on what I deem to be a great attitude and a high IQ I think you can do better but that's just my point of view.

When you say that I'm talking the LV Lounge, well you must assume you're dealing with a troll here. I'm sure you do well. Just a guess but I'm sure my ex in NYC and my on again off again here and abroad do better. One is protective of their self publicly, the other is an out and out Superstar. I'm not bragging. I wish they were both receptionists or stay at home Moms. But because of them there's many girls I know in the business. And I simply was making the point that girls should look for alternatives before they start or if they're already in the business, to plan to get out.

I only brought you into this because you made statements on here to new girls that you were extremely well paid and the innuendo was that they should do it too. This is a porn board. I know that. But many girls and GUYS have made it into an escort board secondly. But there's always issues that come up for debate. This is one. And while you don't want your words taken verbatim and applied literally, I don't know what to make of it then. But it seems as though you don't want to take ownership of the message you sent. Another girl I slightly misquoted did.

And as far as Vegas goes you can be the authority on it if you like. You live close enough. I only live here, sometimes with an escort when she's back in town, and wired into the scene, but it's silly to have a pissing contest over it.

My advice to the girls is don't escort Vegas unless you are already lined up to meet regulars here.

And as far as using the heart strings to call attention to the transsexual plight, I'll have to take a pass on agreeing with you there as well. Here's why:

The Iraq War now has taken money that might otherwise get social programs going? For Transsexuals? Affirmative Action for Transsexuanls? I don't see it happening. Even under an Islamic Government. I don't see other programs getting funded either. And as far as Jessica applying for a job and not getting it. She put female down. She is legally not. Corporate America has changed but not recently. I had a ten year background check and hair drug test for my current job. Any inaccuracies and I would lose my job or not get it. And the fact that a transsexual is going to go into the mainstream and think it will always be fair is just plain foolhardy. Go for a second job. Tell them on a cover letter that you're a transsexual. tell them what they can expect. "I'm a man in wig." Or "I'm a sophisticated transitioning woman that will be an asset to your company." When you get the interview the cards are on the table.

Gays have suddenly popped into the mainstream, yes even the flamboyant ones and in fact are even most desired due their education, tenacity and competence.

So my first point about hooking has to do with the transsexual community getting busy and conquering these issues. Or they can wait for Democrats or whoever the next full of promises Republican politician that wants their vote gets in office to get that Affirmative Tranny Action going. Or when hell freezes over.

[jjhill]

first of all I would love to see more posts about topics like this.
Second, I have tried tgpersonals-there used to be a great site to meet, but of course escorts invaded it and now it sucks. Honestly Myspace seems to be the best spot. Just post your real pics and IF you're so scared of people finding out you probably shouldn't be doing it anyway or you can hide your friends from your profile(a bit cowardly).But I have met a few girls on there (as friends) and they are cool as hell too. I've dated a few women that were transsexuals...1 good experience...2 bad ( told me they had real jobs and ended up seeing them on a porn site)

Can I get a mo mo mo (your avatar)

[Alaska Guy]

The few I'm aware of; TS Girlfriend, URNotAlone, some lesser sites such as Adult Friend Finder. By and large they turned out to be dead ends. Suggestions are more than welcome.

A well implemented site is www.transgenderdate.com. and the good thing about that site is it's not all whacked out for porn ads and whatnot. No nudity, so u can actually focus on common interests not just the size or whatever of her cock. It has great options, is a new site. Check it out if you are interested.

[Alaska Guy]

The few I'm aware of; TS Girlfriend, URNotAlone, some lesser sites such as Adult Friend Finder. By and large they turned out to be dead ends. Suggestions are more than welcome.

TS Girlfriend's not too bad.

TG Matchmaker - booty calls

AFF - definetely booty calls

LVTG - booty call

TSMatch -they're not too bad

Match.com, True.com are always cyber pimping,
filling my email with bs

One to avoid like the plague is URnotalone. That site is HORRIBLE! The girls there are snooty, judgemental, narcisistic, bitchy, bitter, rude, and u get banned for no reason at all. Oh yea, and they have rules coming out the ass as to what you can or can't say. Actually, I changed my mind, check it out for a good laugh.

[jjhill]

I have dated a TS and knew what she did for a living because I met her by going to her escort site and setting up a date. She and I "clicked" and I even now know that we have some connection.

Now why am I not still with her? MY FAULT, unsure of myself, not that she was escorting or she was a TS. Just had crappy luck with relationships and I blew it! I would LOVE to have her back!!! I would marry this woman immediately if given the chance.

WHY? She was "working" for the reasons probably covered extensively here, but I loved her passion for her causes. Today I have the means to support her and help her meet those goals, (Law School as one!)... In my opinion she was a different TS from what some of you guys have dated or met. Mature, intelligent, and passionate about life outside the porn/escort side of TS life.

Sorry for rambling... But I cannot get this woman out of my mind and I do hope she reads this...

Good luck fellow Chicagoan got them crossed with you

[Cubpocalypse]

Been there, done that and I got out of it was this lousy t-shirt.

[Cubpocalypse]

...double post

[Bluejay]

Been with my Girlfriend for 9 years now,still very much in Love!

[Legallylarge]

Been in a couple of relationships with two different gals. One ended cuz the girl was just messed up and despite my best efforts, I got fed up with her flakiness, being stood up frequently when we made concrete plans...

The other was just a matter of timing. When I was ready to settle down, she wasn't and this yo-yoed for a while until we eventually split. WHen she was ready, someone else snapped her up and married her and she's still happily married.

I'll regret missing that boat for the rest of my life and would marry her in a heartbeat if the opportunity ever presented itself again.

[mishadark]

& from the inside looking out...

Most of us want a LTR with a man
...but where to look.
Well, sites like this are pretty much non-starters as most men are in relationships / married & engaging in a fantasy thing.

Also, no disrespect, but we feel most men here are into us coz we have a cock rather than us as people.
throw in the likelihood of SRS...
...where do we stand after the penis is gone.

Then out in real life, its no easier.
You meet a man a few times
then tell him "that thing"
& he runs
or worse.
At least thats what I fear so I never tell him
& don't get that relationship started.

Most of us date men who are on scene
ie go to trans clubs.
Its really far from ideal
(as it does highlight that which we would rather not shout about)
but what else to do.

A year ago I met a man as a client.
Later I broke all my professional rules & occasionally date him.
But he is separated
& also has a 2 yr relationship with another person which he has no intention of finishing.
{I knew this from his first & only appointment}

I would love him to be my long term partner but it just isn't gonna happen.

A lot of us end up in relationships with other Ts's
which is everyone I've had in the last 6 years
Meeting initially at:
* support groups
* or through mutual friends
* Social sites where Ts's are welcome
* and so on.

And as much as I love my exes
& am really close to them now
these relationships were compromises
{we all have the same issues, dating the same, multiplies them}
which is a bugger as I'm mainly attracted to other Ts's...
it's just that for me, these relationships never last

Plus nothing feels as good as walking down the street
with the arms of a strong boyfriend, round you.

So there you have it, from the other side,
so to speak.