T-girlfriend?

[alyssats]

Its my dream to have a bf also even a husband
But it seems so hard

Where could i find all the serious guys out there?

[phobun]

Its my dream to have a bf also even a husband
But it seems so hard

Where could i find all the serious guys out there?

It is going to be hard enough for you because you're a transsexual, and a lot of guys ultimately want a wife to bear a child. A post-op living stealth, or near-stealth, would have an easier time, but there is still the kid issue.

Even if kids are not an issue with the guy, they might be for his family, and on top of that, most guys would not want to bring a prostitute home and introduce her to mom.

But most important of all, no guy with any self-respect is going to marry a prostitute. That is why the whole Pretty Woman fairytale is sheer fantasy.

If you're a transsexual prostitute whining about a lack of serious guys interested in marriage, then you need to get serious.

[DL_NL]

Its my dream to have a bf also even a husband
But it seems so hard

Where could i find all the serious guys out there?

Looks to me like you're not going to find mr Right here, unless you don't mind a 'chaser' which would make his motives somewhat questionable at least. I guess meeting someone 'by accident' who isn't turned off by your status would be the way to go.
It's equally hard for me to find ms Right... TG or GG.

That said, if I met you somewhere I'd try to get noticed.

[mishadark]

Its my dream to have a bf also even a husband
But it seems so hard

Where could i find all the serious guys out there?

It is going to be hard enough for you because you're a transsexual, and a lot of guys ultimately want a wife to bear a child. A post-op living stealth, or near-stealth, would have an easier time, but there is still the kid issue.

Even if kids are not an issue with the guy, they might be for his family, and on top of that, most guys would not want to bring a prostitute home and introduce her to mom.

But most important of all, no guy with any self-respect is going to marry a prostitute. That is why the whole Pretty Woman fairytale is sheer fantasy.

If you're a transsexual prostitute whining about a lack of serious guys interested in marriage, then you need to get serious.

Well thats my take as well...
Yet I'm a transsexual adult performer & escort as well.
And since these career directions, I've had two serious relationships
& currently have three seriously interested suitors.
All of these people know everything about me, yet they have had / want a full relationship with me.
Go figure?

I guess its down to the individuals concerned, both them & me.

[Tatt1]

I must agree that is is is extremely hard to find a bf or even have a relationship. I would say relationships are tough but being ts in a relationship makes things even more complicated. I would love to have a bf though, but it takes ALOT MORE work than your normal guy/girl couple.

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

This is hillarious.

One one side youve got 50 odd year old out of shape old transbian escorts saying 'men have to pay pay pay pay for everything', yet they have and never will get a decent man in their life.

On the other hand youve got escorts on here saying they want a boyfriend and cant understand why?

Lets put this extremely simple, as simple as it gets.

You are WOMEN therefore do what any regular genetic girl would do.

Most genetic women are not prostitutes/sex workers so that ruins it for you out of the minority of guys that will accept ts women down to maybe 10% of the original figure.

So you are left with a pool of 10% of the original figure who like ts women.

Now of that original figure, how many of the educated, good looking and hung men are going to want to bother paying for an escort? Some of them will instantly be turned off by the fact that you are a sex worker anyway because they dont want to have sex with a whore. So that takes the best guys out of the equation.

If lets say you managed to get a degree and hold down a good regular job, just the same as any regular girl who is successful, without all this sex work bullsh1t, then you might find that you have access to 100% of the men that are sexually attracted to ts women.

That will be quite a lot of men.

Out of that figure, there is bound to be a guy who you really fancy and who fancies you back. Someone with a decent job, good looks, a big dick and nice personality. Someone who will be faithful to you as well.

So then what would happen is what happens in any normal straight relationship. The guy will pay for the first few dates, then if it gets serious, both people either take turns to pay or pay for themselves or share the bill 50/50.

The whole point of a relationship is 'love', its not about a monetary policy, or a banking scheme, it is about loving each other. Who cares who pays?

Bottom of the story is this, if you are constantly worried about money and not focussing on meeting a nice guy you fancy and who treats you well and with respect, then you will never ever have a proper relationship.

Money might be important in life, but do you really think that a sexy guy (who can get practically any girl he wants, for free) is going to pay for everything so that his transexual prostitute girlfriend can be showered with gifts whilst he stays faithful to her and deals with her fucking 2-3 clients every single day?

Come on now, get real. Live in the real world.

Regular women can manage it, so you should manage it. You have less choice of men to choose from than regular women, yet you throw it all down the toilet with prostitution and expecting men to pay for everything.

Totally pathetic. No decent guy in their right mind would want to date someone who expects everything to be paid for. Not because he doesnt fancy you, but because he will think you are greedy and selfish. Greedy and selfish people do not end up in good relationships.

As for the comments on 'men have to pay', please, live in the real world will you.

MOST OF THE TS ON HERE (THE YOUNG SEXY ONES) FANCY MEN, THEY ARE NOT TRANSBIANS, THEY DO NOT FANCY WOMEN.

Therefore they want a decent man. Yet some idiots on here are telling them to 'charge' the men money for taking them on a date?

Pathetic.

[RubyTS]

I have to kinda agree. When i was in college i had a pool of str8 guys to choose from. Being an escort and especially dealing with men online is not the way to find a bf, cuz most the guys r just looking for sex and those who say otherwise are trying to run game. If you work a legit job, or are in school or do something regularly, you're likely to meet a cool guy in your school or at work, on the train, who WILL over time, begin to like u and appreciate u AS LONG AS youre not giving it up the first night and hoping hes gonna call, or acting out of character. Being modest but confident is the best way to draw a man to u. Although there ARE guys out there who dont mind being in a relationship with an escort, im pretty sure thats not the kind of relationship any of us want to be in

[justatransgirl]

One one side youve got 50 odd year old out of shape old transbian escorts saying 'men have to pay pay pay pay for everything', yet they have and never will get a decent man in their life.

Dude - if that was directed at me you can - - FUCK OFF!

Don't you ever fucking judge me or insult me unless you've walked 10 miles in my shoes.

It's no wonder Mimi maced you. LOL

Just curious loser - how much money do you make? I notice it's always the losers, pimps, or outright cheapskates who take issue with taking care of their girlfriends.

How about you putting your TS GF through the university so she doesn't have to prostitute. I am. How about you standing up for TS rights so they have the possibility of getting hired once they do get a degree. I do. How about you hiring transsexuals at your company - I DO!

How do you propose that most t-girls GET a high paying job? When we have States like Utah refusing to provide TS job discrimination protection. In Utah you can be FIRED just for being SUSPECTED of being gay, or trans. You can be refused a hotel room an apartment or even a MEAL for being trans and you have NO RECOURSE. The Federal government turned down ENDA last year that would have provided federal anti discrimination law.

In a survey done in San Diego in 2004 (the most recent one available), less than 4% of transsexuals earn above $100,000. 36% earn less than $10,000 and over 57% had incomes of under $20,000 a year.

Yes, I believe that men should take care of their girlfriends. That doesn't mean buying her a BMW on the first date - unless you are really rich... LOL Why should a girl put out for you just because. (Hotties get a pass. LOL)

As for me I don't NEED a man in my life. I don't need the money. I've got money. I'm in a relationship. But I also don't need to be used by a guy who's going to go home to his wife and kids and leave me to fend for myself UNLESS he's going to "take care" of me. I've got more self esteem than that.

As for your comment about love. Well love is great but it's just as easy for a girl to love a rich man as a poor one. And I'm sure as hell not going to support a poor man, no matter how nice or big his scholng is.

And my comments are not so much directed toward people who meet in one manner or another and fall in love, regardless of the T. I'm talking about men who just want sex with a hot young TS, and who then won't be seen in public with her, or take her home to Mom.

So let me ask you this - you want love, but you don't want to pay for it. Are you going to marry a TS girl and have your family and friends and employer know it? Are you still going to LOVE her when she's 50 - and when YOU are 50 and nobody wants your fat saggy beer gutted ass but her.

Are you going to stand by her when she is discriminated against by her employer, or her school. Are you going to adopt children with her? How? Can you support a family in a decent standard of living?

What are you going to do when your landlord kicks your ass out because you are a "fag" and you live with a transsexual. What are you going to do when you car is vandalized by a homophobic neighbor?

Are you going to hold her hand when she comes out of surgery after having her sex change - an operation that you have shared 50/50 in the expense.

And what are you going to to even AFTER her sex change when your friends and neighbors and employers whisper behind your back - "psst - that's the guy who's married to the girl who used to be a man."

If you aren't going to do all that and a 100 times more then STFU and go back to whacking off to your free HA porn pics.

Sheesh,
TS Jamie

[mbf]

This is hillarious.

One one side youve got 50 odd year old out of shape old transbian escorts saying 'men have to pay pay pay pay for everything', yet they have and never will get a decent man in their life.

On the other hand youve got escorts on here saying they want a boyfriend and cant understand why?

Lets put this extremely simple, as simple as it gets.

You are WOMEN therefore do what any regular genetic girl would do.

Most genetic women are not prostitutes/sex workers so that ruins it for you out of the minority of guys that will accept ts women down to maybe 10% of the original figure.

So you are left with a pool of 10% of the original figure who like ts women.

Now of that original figure, how many of the educated, good looking and hung men are going to want to bother paying for an escort? Some of them will instantly be turned off by the fact that you are a sex worker anyway because they dont want to have sex with a whore. So that takes the best guys out of the equation.

If lets say you managed to get a degree and hold down a good regular job, just the same as any regular girl who is successful, without all this sex work bullsh1t, then you might find that you have access to 100% of the men that are sexually attracted to ts women.

That will be quite a lot of men.

Out of that figure, there is bound to be a guy who you really fancy and who fancies you back. Someone with a decent job, good looks, a big dick and nice personality. Someone who will be faithful to you as well.

So then what would happen is what happens in any normal straight relationship. The guy will pay for the first few dates, then if it gets serious, both people either take turns to pay or pay for themselves or share the bill 50/50.

The whole point of a relationship is 'love', its not about a monetary policy, or a banking scheme, it is about loving each other. Who cares who pays?

Bottom of the story is this, if you are constantly worried about money and not focussing on meeting a nice guy you fancy and who treats you well and with respect, then you will never ever have a proper relationship.

Money might be important in life, but do you really think that a sexy guy (who can get practically any girl he wants, for free) is going to pay for everything so that his transexual prostitute girlfriend can be showered with gifts whilst he stays faithful to her and deals with her fucking 2-3 clients every single day?

Come on now, get real. Live in the real world.

Regular women can manage it, so you should manage it. You have less choice of men to choose from than regular women, yet you throw it all down the toilet with prostitution and expecting men to pay for everything.

Totally pathetic. No decent guy in their right mind would want to date someone who expects everything to be paid for. Not because he doesnt fancy you, but because he will think you are greedy and selfish. Greedy and selfish people do not end up in good relationships.

As for the comments on 'men have to pay', please, live in the real world will you.

MOST OF THE TS ON HERE (THE YOUNG SEXY ONES) FANCY MEN, THEY ARE NOT TRANSBIANS, THEY DO NOT FANCY WOMEN.

Therefore they want a decent man. Yet some idiots on here are telling them to 'charge' the men money for taking them on a date?

Pathetic.

spot on

[mbf]

i wonder whats the percentage of guys that wont sleep with a working girl

I have no idea, thing is though, if you meet a considerably hot tranny NOT in an escort (online, club, wherever) situation, the likelihood of her doing some adult entertainment (whoring, webcam, milking some sugardaddy) is very high. Even if she is doing a "legit" job, she will make that easy money on the side. It's so widespread these days, also with GGs.

Such an arrengement might work for some young dude, aged between 20 and 35 roughly, but in no way for a career interested professional male later in his life.