T-girlfriend?

[RubyTS]

And one more thing, lets not forget how huge the swinger industry is.... all these people are making their marriages and relationships work, NOT IN SPITE of being promiscuous, but BECAUSE OF IT!

[LilWyte]

Well i would greatly appreciate it if u guys would hold back on the "P' word. U can just as easily type escort and its even less letters. It sounds like ur purposely being malicious

And there ARE guys willing to be with an escort or pornstar who are NOT losers or wierdos

the losers n wierdos are the ones who pay for it

[RubyTS]

Well i would greatly appreciate it if u guys would hold back on the "P' word. U can just as easily type escort and its even less letters. It sounds like ur purposely being malicious

And there ARE guys willing to be with an escort or pornstar who are NOT losers or wierdos

the losers n wierdos are the ones who pay for it

thats not true at ALL! There are people who understand the price of discretion! Dealing with a professional as oppose to cheating on their girl with family membbers or friends! Guys who know that they can offer no more than what it is, and would rather be with a professional whos not gonna fall in love, not gonna chase him down, key his car and make his life miserable. Guys who are too busy in their life that they cant afford to spend time running game on a girl in order to get the goodies. Sure some guys are just ugly, but i have seen some veryyyy HOTT clients who if i met at a bar, i would have jumped on. When money isnt involved, feelings USUALLY are! Some guys just dont wanna deal with the drama

[phobun]

In my life outside of HA, (is there such a thing as life beyond HA?) I hang out occasionally with a group of straight hobbyists and GG escorts. Several of the girls have BF's or husbands who are NOT pimps but who definitely appreciate the high incomes their spouses bring into the family coffers. I wouldn't call any of them "desperate souls."

I would call those guys leeches. Or parasites.
I bet they appreciate living like fat cats as their wives prostitute themselves to strangers for money with all the risk that entails.
Dispicable lazy men.

They feel they are empowering their women to pursue an occupation that provides their families with a high income and quality of life they would not otherwise enjoy.

Is this comedy? Empowering them? Ridiculous.

But these are very high end ladies so it's not the same thing. There is a BIG difference between a street walking prostitute and a courtesan.

Yeah, Elliot Spitzer's prostitutes were reputedly high end but look at the crap they put up with catering to the fetish choker. It is not a respectable "profession", and if the girls truly respected themselves, they would another safer, legal profession that required the use of their brains. Oh yeah, you have to have a brain to be a good conversationalist, right. That is really what the losers are looking for.

Let's pose this question.

If YOUR GF could earn $2-3-4-500,000 a year as a sex worker would you support her?

If she was earning $2 or $3 or $4 a year she would obviously need additional support from some source, but if she is making $500,000 and she decides to keep a guy around, then he is serving as a psychological salve for her feelings of guilt and inadequacy, even as he feeds off of her.

What if she just did it for a couple of years - which would enable you both to live well for the rest of your lives? Would it then be OK?

Food for thought,

Somethings matter more than money. That is what many prostitutes eventually loses sight of.

[justatransgirl]

the losers n wierdos are the ones who pay for it

I agree with Ruby - when I was active I met a lot of very nice men. There are some very nice men here on HA too who don't mind helping out a girl a little.

It's mostly the younger boys who don't have much experience (or money) who want free love.

IMHO,
TS Jamie

[phobun]

And one more thing, lets not forget how huge the swinger industry is.... all these people are making their marriages and relationships work, NOT IN SPITE of being promiscuous, but BECAUSE OF IT!

Do you seriously hold swingers up as models for how to have a successful marriage?

[justatransgirl]

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[LilWyte]

Well i would greatly appreciate it if u guys would hold back on the "P' word. U can just as easily type escort and its even less letters. It sounds like ur purposely being malicious

And there ARE guys willing to be with an escort or pornstar who are NOT losers or wierdos

the losers n wierdos are the ones who pay for it

thats not true at ALL! There are people who understand the price of discretion! Dealing with a professional as oppose to cheating on their girl with family membbers or friends! Guys who know that they can offer no more than what it is, and would rather be with a professional whos not gonna fall in love, not gonna chase him down, key his car and make his life miserable. Guys who are too busy in their life that they cant afford to spend time running game on a girl in order to get the goodies. Sure some guys are just ugly, but i have seen some veryyyy HOTT clients who if i met at a bar, i would have jumped on. When money isnt involved, feelings USUALLY are! Some guys just dont wanna deal with the drama

cheatin on their girl with family members???? damn thats some west virginia shit

the losers n wierdos are the ones who pay for it

It's mostly the younger boys who don't have much experience (or money) who want free love.

yea cuz paying for sex is totally the norm

[phobun]

Your job doesnt define ur relationship. Ive had guys hit me on eros and CL ads before saying they wanna be my man and i KNOW theyre full of sshit. i dont wanna be in a relationship with a guy who wants to be with an escort.. i wanna be with someone who wants to be with ME! What i do doesnt define who i am as a person, and if u can love ME, every relatioship has its obstacles and every person has baggage.

You want a relationship with someone who wants to be with you even though you have sex with other men for money. Okay. All I'm saying is that the existence of successful guys who not creeps and who would accept a woman involved in such an occupation is dubious.

[phobun]

Well i would greatly appreciate it if u guys would hold back on the "P' word. U can just as easily type escort and its even less letters. It sounds like ur purposely being malicious

And there ARE guys willing to be with an escort or pornstar who are NOT losers or wierdos

If the word prostitute becomes forbidden because if ruffles one person's feathers that is silly.